I was very depressed, and no one could persuade me

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There's nothing wrong with people asking you to put your mind on studying, but your mind is used elsewhere, in inconsequential places. Everyone has a shining point, although you are ugly, you are kind-hearted, not wrong, and do not sow discord. You just care too much about other people's eyes, if I were you, I would read more to enrich myself, once I love to learn, I will know the joy of reading when I get in, and my troubles will naturally be thrown out of the clouds.

It's not good to have suicidal thoughts, your loved ones will be in pain forever when you die, and the person who commits suicide is despised.

Let's see some jokes... Life is beautiful ...

If you keep going like this, your life will be wasted. What do you have to be depressed about, she doesn't love you? Friends ignore you?

True depression is scary, and the end result is suicide. This is at best an adolescent trouble, and when you think about it a few years later, you realize that you were so ignorant and ignorant at that time.

The sentence to persuade a depressed person is as follows:

1.Life needs to be zeroed. Every once in a while, you have to clear the past and start over.

Don't let the past become a burden for the present, travel lightly to go further. The human mind is like a container, and after a long time, there will inevitably be sediment in it. Always empty the dregs of the soul, let go when it is time to let go, throw away the burden of the past, and refresh yourself from time to time, so that you will be able to reap a satisfactory life.

2.You must know that yesterday's sun does not dry today's clothes, there are endless scenery in the world, and people must have the mood to move forward. So look up, the sun will rise tomorrow, and maybe more surprises will await you on the way.

3.Life is too short, don't pay much attention to those who are not worth mentioning to you. Happiness in life is not about how much you have, simplicity is the greatest happiness.

Life gets better if it's bad enough because it can't be worse. Many things, persistently, came over.

4.Anything, anyone, will become a thing of the past, don't get along with it. Letting go is to move forward better.

5.If you love, life is lovely; If you hate, life is hateful; If you are grateful, you can be thankful everywhere; If you grow, you can grow in all things. It wasn't the world that chose you, it was you who chose the world.

Since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to be silly; Since there is nowhere to run, it is better to rejoice; Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate; Since it didn't get its wish, it's better to be relieved.

6.The sun rises over the East Sea and sets on the West Mountain, and there is a day of sorrow and a day of joy; If you don't drill the horns of the bull in case of trouble, people are also comfortable, and your heart is also comfortable.

Step 1: Listen without evaluation.

When listening, don't interrupt the other person's speech, wait for the other person to finish everything, on the one hand, it can feel how seriously you take this matter, and Orange State will feel supported and taken care of. On the other hand, it also gives you plenty of time to understand what the other party has been through.

Step 2: Role-play.

When you understand what happened, you must put yourself in the other person's position and feel the negative emotions he is experiencing, the confusion caused by the pressure he is under.

But don't rush to give advice, you can try to recall that you have experienced similar events, or if you haven't, you can try to recall that you have purely experienced similar emotional experiences.

Step 3: Give the other person a real sense of hope.

If the first two steps go smoothly, then this is the time when you can offer the other person something that can lead to some kind of possibility or a real sense of hope.

Summary. It was a difficult choice. It seems that a rough calculation will cost a lot of money in the past 5 years, and it may not be possible to pass the test. And 5 years is a long time, and you don't necessarily have the confidence to stick to it. It does seem like there's a lot of risk.

But if you don't study to improve your education, your high school degree will make you unable to find a suitable job, right?

So, what does the right job look like for you?

How to persuade a depressed person.

Paradoxically, you can't find a good job without a degree. I couldn't go to school without a job.

From your words, it seems that you are in a situation where you have not graduated from your brother, but your academic qualifications are not high, and you want to save money to study and obtain a higher education, right?

I have a high school degree, and in March this year, I applied for a Chinese language and literature major in online education at Northeast Normal University. I paid the registration fee of 900 yuan and the tuition fee of 2,400 yuan. It takes five years to study, and the annual tuition fee is 2,400 yuan.

But I feel that the exam questions are too difficult to grasp, and I am afraid that I will not be stupid after the exam, and I will not be able to persevere. The institution has to pay 6,000 yuan to provide teaching assistance (100 points for five years of homework and 75% of the original questions in the final exam), and I can't get it with my family, and graduation is a problem. Now I can get a refund of 800 yuan in tuition when I drop out, and I'm thinking about whether to drop out.

It was indeed a very difficult choice. It seems that a rough calculation will cost a lot of money in the past 5 years, and it may not be possible to pass the test. And 5 years is a long time, and you don't necessarily have the confidence to stick to it.

It does seem like there's a lot of risk. But if you don't study to improve your education, your high school degree will make you unable to find a suitable job digging for yourself, right? So, what does the right job look like for you?

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Summary. Hello Low mood is a bad mood that may gradually develop into depression if it is not adjusted in time. Most people who are depressed will relieve their emotions by self-adjusting, and often choose to talk to close friends.

As a friend of the depressed person, please be sure to listen carefully to the other person's predicament, empathize, give emotional support, and provide feasible and effective suggestions if necessary, so as to help the other person get out of the depressed state.

Hello Low mood is a bad mood that may gradually develop into depression if it is not adjusted in time. Most people who are depressed will relieve their emotions by self-adjusting, and often choose to talk to close friends. As a friend of those who are in a low mood or have oranges, please be sure to listen carefully to the difficulties suffered by the other party, empathize, give emotional support, and if necessary, you can provide feasible and effective suggestions to help the other party get out of the depressed state.

You can listen to him, and there is no problem with him crying, because crying is a good way to confide.

Stroke it slowly, and you tell him that it's okay to do this kind of thing, it's common that you're great.

And then, what to say?

First of all, you have to comfort him according to what happened to him who was unhappy. There has to be a specific event. For example, don't cry, it'll be fine.

You are the best.

You've done a really good job of making some confident statements about him.

And then what. Then let him go into the ** thread by himself. You've done comfort.