When did you become disappointed in your significant other?

He's always around when I need him, so do I want him to be a decoration?

Every time he is sick, he is busy with his own affairs, if it is for his family, I can bear and understand, but every time he is for friends and unnecessary entertainment to put me aside, I remember once, I have a fever and vomiting, his friend asked him to drive him to Yunnan, more than a thousand kilometers away, he insisted that his friend called embarrassed not to go, and I was sick and had to take care of two children. At that time, I was really disappointed in him, and in his eyes, face was more important than anything else.

I'm disappointed with my significant other, and after we got married, he still plays games every day and puts games at the center of his life, and I'm disappointed.

I found out that I had found a lover, and when I questioned him, he pretended to be deaf and dumb and refused to admit it. I was annoyed and beat me up. I was so disappointed at that moment that now I'm divorced. With a new love of his own.

She stayed with me for half a year, during which time she kept in secret contact with her ex-boyfriend.

When the other half doesn't listen to me, I will be very disappointed.

The reason I was disappointed in my other half was that she betrayed me and cheated on me.

A few years ago, since he was irresponsible, I felt that I no longer had any illusions about him, and I have lived with him like a corpse in the past few years.

The other party deceives himself again and again, and every time he threatens to compromise the other party's demands with a breakup, this is the most disappointing time.

I had a hard time and wanted to call ** to my boyfriend, but he picked it up and said that he was playing a game, and he would come back to me after the game was over.

When I corrected some of his shortcomings again and again, as well as the problems in our relationship, he always vaguely said to change, but in fact did not act.

When things happen, he always thinks about his own business first and puts my interests behind, and I think his behavior is inappropriate.

When I was in danger when I was shopping with her, his first reaction was to let go of his hand, and when he ran by himself, he would feel that this person was very irresponsible and could not reach the end.

I think I was already disappointed in him when he was still complaining about others when he had done something wrong and lost his job, and then he didn't achieve anything and was still complaining about others.

When I was in trouble, he wasn't there for me, but when I needed his help, he couldn't help at all, but when I missed him, he was chatting with other girls, and I was disappointed, so we broke up.

I don't think people who love each other will not be disappointed with their other half, so if you feel this way, then you must not love your other half enough. may be because he has some expectations for his other half but cannot be met, so he often feels disappointed at this time.

In the relationship, we must have certain expectations for each other, we naturally hope that the other party will become better and better, and become what we like, but not that everyone will change themselves for our liking, so often at this time, the other party can not meet our expectations, and we will feel disappointed.

This disappointment accumulates more and more, and over time you will get tired of the other half, and there is no need for this relationship to go on. Therefore, when we maintain a relationship, we must not be too self-centered, and we must know how to respect each other. If we want to make the other person better, and he can put in a certain amount of effort, that's enough.

If you really can't meet your expectations, you should also check whether your expectations are too high.

A stable relationship must require both parties to pay. Everyone wants each other to become the most perfect lover in their hearts, but everyone is an adult, and it is indeed a difficult thing to want the other person to become what they want. And the greater the expectations, the greater the disappointment, which is not good for emotional stability.

So we should still discover the good points of the other person, and maybe we don't have these advantages in the perfect lover we expect. Therefore, you should still feel the good of the other party with your heart, and don't blindly hope that the other party will change for you with your own center.

In any case, we should learn to respect the other half in our relationship, instead of blindly asking for the other half. Only in this way can the relationship be balanced, the development will not be unbalanced, and finally the relationship will be stable. If you really feel disappointed in your partner, first look at yourself, and then think about whether you still love each other.

When we pin our dreams on others, we will be excited because the dreams are about to come true, but when the reality factor appears, our original mood of flying into the sky will suddenly fall to the bottom. At the beginning of our relationship, we always have high expectations for the other half, and always regard him as our savior and the lord of the world, feeling that as long as we are with him, we will be happy, life will be a mess, and all the dark side will disappear. And when the two of them are together, they find that the other half can't meet all their expectations, so they are slowly disappointed.

The re-lifter is still the same person, but when we are not together, we are full of expectations, so we feel that everything is fine. After actually being together, I found that my expectations could not be fully realized, so I was disappointed.

This is because in the process of getting along, there will be a lot of contradictions between the two people, and the ruler Lu is also because he does not pay attention to the sense of etiquette and Ming during the festival, and often draws large cakes, so he feels very disappointed.

Because people's requirements for the other half are very high, they want the other half to change their life, so the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.

I can't help it, I didn't get super disappointed. But there have been exchanges with friends around me.

Friend Xiao A, it was what happened during this time that made him super disappointed in his husband. The city and county knew that the epidemic policy was liberalized, and the left and right told him to buy medicine. I bought it and bought it, but I didn't take the medicine home, either I met a colleague on the road, Lao Zhang gave it to Lao Zhang, or I met a classmate on the road, and Xiao Li gave it to Lao Li.

just dragged it on, and said that Xiao A felt sorry for the two medicine money. Xiao A found that it was not good, so he decisively bought it himself. As a result, another colleague of my husband was uncomfortable at home, and when he heard that his husband could often buy medicine, he asked him for help, and my husband agreed to send him the medicine at home.

Little A broke out. She was super disappointed in her husband's sex fight with the universal air conditioner. My husband is warm to everyone, but he only forgets that everyone's heat is limited, and the warmth of Ming Tsai is found for others, and there is less for his family.

Friend Xiao B, who is also super disappointed in her husband during this time, usually has a lot of things to do in her mother-in-law's family, Xiao Nai runs before and after, and her husband does not hesitate to praise her. But after the epidemic began, my parents' parents had a small headache and fever, and B couldn't run alone to ask her husband to help, but her husband didn't go if he could, and he was forced to go in the end, so he reluctantly went. Xiao B is super disappointed in her husband, thinking that her husband marrying her is marrying a super nanny, and she doesn't regard herself as a family, let alone her own family as family.

Heart-piercing, nine moments that made me completely disappointed in my other half ......Stay emotional.

Concern. This article was inspired by a question in the Q&A. When I clicked into this question, I felt a sigh in my heart, as if I could write a lot of things, but I didn't know how to continue with my pen.

What kind of contradiction can make you completely dead to the other half, I think it is probably an irreconcilable contradiction, it is the accumulation of a certain period of time and the accumulation of emotions. Maybe it's going to be these:

1. When you happily tell the other person what you think is very important, and the other party seems indifferent and sneering;

2. When your love has reached the point of talking about marriage, you propose to meet your parents, but she thinks that it is too early, in fact, you have been living together for several years at that time......

3. When the person who said, "I swear to protect you for the rest of my life", actually started beating you;

4. When he ignores your dignity and bottom line again and again, he slaps Wang Lu;

5. When you keep talking about breaking up, and in the end, you don't want to get back together;

6. When they start to diss;

7. When the moments, Weibo, and QQ space posted by TA have nothing to do with you, but others are good to TA everywhere;

8. When there is a cold war between you for more than half a month, but neither party is willing to bow its head and admit its mistakes;

9. When you send n messages and don't reply, but the circle of friends is busy updating the chat with others;

I believe that there are many such heartbreak times, and every time I remember it, my heart is like a knife; Maybe disappointment is not formed once or twice, but is the accumulation of many disappointments, and when disappointment reaches a certain level, it will be despair and giving up. Every relationship that wants to give up is hidden behind the ...... disappointment again and again

1. Get along for many years and know each other too well.

Husband and wife have lived together for many years from knowing each other to falling in love with each other, and they have long known each other's details and thoughts. But because they know each other too well, the wife or husband knows what the other party is going to do when they make a move. This kind of understanding is too suffocating, making the other party feel that there is no private space, and they are overwhelmed.

Gradually, the two became dissatisfied with each other, and even quarrels became commonplace.

Second, magnify the shortcomings of the other party and fail to see the advantages.

When a husband and wife have been together for a long time, they will know each other's shortcomings. Unlike staring at luck at the beginning of love, the lover's eyes are full of shih hsi. Instead, they criticize each other and magnify each other's shortcomings.

Never find a way to work together to change the shortcomings of the other party. Such repeated amplification and forbearance will sooner or later explode in a certain trillion heaven, causing the two to fall apart.

3. The cruelty of the reality of life.

Love needs a material foundation. After marriage, men work hard for the family, and women are miserable in housework. Over time, women complain that men are useless and do not make money.

Men think that their wives don't understand him, and they don't have a sense of gain and happiness. The two have a grudge against each other!

I often poured cold rent and judgment water on my other half, did not support some of my actions, often criticized me, often coldly violently attacked me, making me feel cautious and disillusioned with my other half when I particularly failed.

I'm disappointed when my partner doesn't trust me.

The boredom period in couples is usually after the third or fourth month of being together, because this is enough time for you to get to know each other, both in terms of temper and the way you get along with you.

How to deal with the boredom period, first of all, you should learn to change yourself, if you can't change yourself, but force the other half to change, which is more likely to have conflicts. Every couple will have their boredom period, if Kivu can go through it smoothly, then in the future, you will love each other even more, if during this period, you can't change each other's minds, it is better to try to change yourself.

After three years of marriage, we start to get tired of it, and I think that generally about three or four years, especially after having children, everyone will quickly get tired of married life and tired of each other.

Not long after we got married, I conceived a baby, due to malnutrition, and because I didn't know how to cook, my husband didn't have time to take care of me, so I could only go to my mother-in-law's house for a while, and then I felt that my husband and my husband slowly began to be estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, it is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but I went to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law plays mahjong every day, The cooking is not on time, and my father-in-law smokes at home every day, and it is useless to say it, and at this time he always says that I am not sensible, etc., and slowly finds that he is unwilling to call him to say these things.

Later, I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also dedicated to taking care of me, because I was too sick of pregnancy and vomiting, and my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand if he could not come.

Later, we couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that a person would not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, his parents ** did not hit a stool Xun, at first I and he will be a day **, and then slowly I don't want to pick him up **, and I don't want to talk to him too much, we have been separated for about ten months After I went back, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, when the first empty waited for us to be married for just three years, and the feeling at that time was that I wanted to return to a person's life.