Love and give to your partner?

I think everyone has their own views and practices on feelings.

If you like someone, you will be willing to pay for him, and if you pay for him, you will win his like. Like is the motivation to pay, and pay carries the hope of liking. If you like a person, but you are not willing to pay, I find it hard to believe that she likes him, of course, you can choose to pay if you are willing to pay, and if you are not willing to pay, this is not a contradiction in itself, but for her personally, then liking has no meaning of liking, just a negative treatment of such a feeling.

For example, if we like a certain celebrity, we just like it, and we don't have to pay anything.

But in the face of feelings, I think that giving and liking are still proportional, the more I like it, the more willing to pay, and people who really pay are not counted in the gains and losses.

Therefore, such a statement can only be said to be incomplete, and it cannot be said that it is absolutely wrong.

In fact, there are no absolute things. It mainly depends on everyone's definition of feelings, but most people believe that feelings are not learning, not giving or gaining.

There was once a boy who liked a girl for ten years, but he just clocked a blessing to this girl during the holidays, and that's it.

So you can't say right or wrong.

But you shouldn't just check whether it's right or wrong, but whether she likes you and whether it's worth your effort? If so, it's different.

If you like a person, you should pay no matter what you give, as long as it is for his good, when you sincerely pay for him, you will find that he is a person who can be trusted, and you will gain something after paying. That's love. That's what you really get.

Giving is also a kind of love! But it's not just this way of loving, so it's true.

There is a difference between liking and loving. Like is shallow love, love is deep like. Got it?

Worth. He was always able to think of me. Many of the chain simplists can discuss things with me when they encounter them, and he respects me very much, so he will not make unilateral decisions by himself.

With him, I can feel that I am being respected and taken care of, so I am still relatively happy.

He deserves it because I like him very much and he treats me very well, so I think I'm going to be willing to give it to him.

I admit that the other middle-aged half of the bridge is very worth it for him, because the two of us have been together for a long time, and he is really very good to me, and he doesn't pay a lot.

It's going to give a lot because he's someone I like very much, and he's also the father of my children, so it's also to maintain our relationship.

I pay a lot, because I am a very emotional person, and I am willing to give a lot of things in the relationship.

I gave a lot for my other half, I left my hometown for him, went to live in his city, and planned to live in this city in the future.

I chose to fall in love because I already know my boyfriend quite well, so I naturally know my boyfriend's every move. My boyfriend often says I'm a roundworm in his stomach, and it's true, I know everything about my boyfriend! Therefore, if my boyfriend has done something for me and paid for me, I can feel it, even if he doesn't tell me and deliberately hides it from me, in fact, I am also clear.

Isn't that what the so-called lovers are? There is an inexplicable tacit understanding, an inexplicable feeling, and a magical comprehension, that is, whatever he does, he will know. I remember my boyfriend paying me back, and when my girlfriend told me that I didn't have to pay it back, I knew it must have been my boyfriend who paid it back!

The reason why I feel this way is naturally because I know my boyfriend quite well. During the meal, my girlfriend only jokingly said me once, and he remembered that this is love!

Just for you, when you are in love, very embarrassed, but your boyfriend is still silently paying for you, just so that you can get out of the swamp as soon as possible, this kind of love really makes people feel worthwhile! There was a little problem in my family, so I gave all my savings to my family and borrowed some money. My boyfriend didn't give me money directly, he knew that self-esteem was important, and he would go behind my back to pay back the money and keep it secret, which is the depth of love.

But I know very well that he is carrying it for me, and this kind of emotion he only has for me really makes people want to entrust it for life. Of course, I think love should not be entangled in money, so I took the initiative to write him an IOU, thanked him, and said that love is love, money is money, and he also relied on me, knowing that I am very strong and strong.

Test Many people think that if they test a man, let other sisters try him, I don't think it's necessary! Whether a man loves you or not has long been vividly reflected in daily life, so why bother to test?!

When I was in love, I knew what my other half had done for me, and I was trying to make him feel that choosing me was right and worth it! The giving is also mutual!

Many people will always use money to measure whether a relationship is true love. It is true that money is a measure of true love, but in fact, true love is more than just money. We will always consider what the other party has paid for us, in fact, as long as he loves you, he will try to pay for you without you thinking and thinking.

So, when you are in a relationship, do you know what your significant other has given you? Of course, I know what my significant other has done for me, so let's talk about the things my significant other did for me when I was in love.

I still remember when I was in love, my other half spent countless efforts for me to make a handmade plain silver ring. It's just a silver ring, but I still like it very much. Because he had never been exposed to these things before, but in order to express his pure heart, he had to learn slowly from design to construction, which really took time.

My other half once spent half a year's salary to buy me a scooter for me without telling me. At that time, I thought that this person was simply too selfless to me, after all, we were just in love, but he was very willing to spend money for me, this is the legend of being willing to pay for me.

My partner also did something that I still regret to this day, which was to transfuse 400 ml of blood for me when I was sick. Afterwards, we all sighed: "We are really connected by blood".

He can really stand up to everything and make me feel that I didn't find the wrong person, and after getting married, I feel that I didn't marry the wrong person.

In fact, when you are in love, you can't be clear about what the other party has done for you, everything he has done for you, you may only find out slowly in the future, so the relationship needs time, and if you want to know the other party's good, you also need time to understand.

Even when we are in a relationship, we must know what our other half has paid for us and what we are asking for.

I think that in the process of falling in love, my other half is responsible for too many things for me, often buying me delicious food and giving me some small gifts, introducing me to go shopping, watching movies, climbing mountains, etc., which is very good.

I know that my significant other has done a lot for me, and I know what he has done when it comes to being in a relationship. In fact, from all these things he did, I could feel his love for my mother.

When I was in love, my partner would go to the kitchen for me every day, help me occupy a place, help me fetch water, and help me do my homework.

You know, we also have a lot of mutual friends, so whatever he does for me will be told by my friends, and I can see how he behaves in my daily life.

I know that when I fall in love, I see the efforts of the other half, and I will be very good to him and give him a certain amount of reward.

I have paid for myself, time, money, and the feelings of the other party, so I really cherish my other half.

I know that my other half has done a lot for me, and he is very good to me and takes care of me very much in my normal life.

It will be felt in ordinary life interactions, and his real feelings and love will not be unnoticed.

So if we are a person who pays special attention to feelings, we must be able to feel each other, and we have paid a lot of sincerity to get along with us during this time, which is also a very happy thing, and we should get along with each other well.

This love couple, even if the other party pays more for you, some will not tell you, because he knows that as long as he pays for you, he is willing. So you know he's just paying for you a little bit and doesn't know too much.

When I am in love, if my partner has given me a lot, then I must know it, because I may feel every effort he makes. I can also perceive every effort he makes.

When I was in love, my other half paid a lot for me, because he would pick me up from work every night, and he would pick me up from work when it was very cold, so my heart was very excited, and I would spend my life with this boy.

Of course, when I was in love, I knew what my other half had done for me, and he gave me all his affection.

Love is mutual, and if you want others to be good to you, you must first treat others sincerely. At the beginning of love, one party must take the initiative first, but it does not mean that the party who takes the initiative first must give unconditionally. Therefore, boyfriends and girlfriends must know how to give, and always want to make each other pay and do nothing themselves, but in fact, this kind of thinking is wrong.

But it is always the other party who blindly pays, which will only slowly wear out the other party's sincerity and patience, so you must learn to give, so that you can manage a relationship well. <>

At the same time, learn to encourage each other. When your other half is good to yourself, you must express affirmation and praise to each other, which will make the other party think that you are valuable, and at the same time, you can also make some small surprises in ordinary times, so that the other party can be affirmed, otherwise it will make the other party feel frustrated, and at the same time, a person's dedication and efforts need to be affirmed, and in marriage, two people are to accompany each other for a lifetime, so we must find each other's good. Give the other person some tolerance and understanding.

Because everyone's energy is limited, we can't always ask each other to give. And in the relationship, there needs to be mutual understanding and mutual tolerance. <>

In a relationship, both parties need to respect each other. The other party's contribution also needs to be respected by themselves, because the marriage of two people, in which they spend a long time together, so some shortcomings and advantages will be exposed, so I must not be treated indifferently, if I want to have a happy memory, I must find a common topic, in order to make life more meaningful. At the same time, you must affirm the other party's emotions, and you also need to affirm the other party's contribution, and when the other party pays, you also need to pay for this relationship.

Husband and wife also need enough trust between each other so that they can have a long-term relationship, and at the same time, they also need to give each other some space, so that they can make the relationship go further and further. CNCBI or Respect is very important, and there must be mutual understanding and consideration. And in the relationship, it is also necessary to manage it carefully, and it is best not to let a person blindly pay, and it is best for both parties to manage the marriage together.

If you want to ask each other to pay, then you must first give and pay, so that you can get because everything is giving.

In fact, you should also be good to each other, because in this way the relationship will be longer, love itself is a matter of two people, and one person cannot pay too much.

The other half should also be able to give wholeheartedly to each other, become more honest, don't lie to each other, and care for each other.

The greatest selfishness in human nature is to take for granted everything that the other person does.

- Old Week December 26, 2022.

After all, people are more selfish.

Many people who have not grown up in emotional intelligence always want to refute this statement first, find various reasons to take a look, and find that it is the case after all.

Whether you admit this or not, in any case, you will think of your own feelings first, and will not think about others at the first time. If you are comfortable, you are not happy.

Anything that makes you unhappy is wrong, and everything that makes you happy is right.

In a relationship, it doesn't matter if the man is good to the woman or the woman is good to the man. It's all done voluntarily, voluntarily, and no one forces you. And say unto him, Are thou not very happy thyself? At the same time, you told him, you didn't have her consent!

Even so, when the relationship comes to an end, you don't scold the other party for being a scumbag, a scumbag, or a money worshipper. Remember, all of this is your own wish.

Looking back?

He's good to you, or you're good to him. Should we take it for granted? If you take it for granted, you are very wrong.

There is no love for no reason in this world, and there is no hate for no reason.

All contradictions occur because in a relationship, the unequal giving and getting. It's like the law of conservation of energy, after you or he pays, you don't get anything in return for a long time, and in response, it will produce hatred, blame, jealousy, and resentment.

The correct other party is that if the other party has done something for you, you have to say thank you in time. For example, I poured you a glass of water and filled a bowl of rice. Say thank you casually.

Or the other party has prepared a table of sumptuous meals, and you have to offer praise and praise in time, even if there are flaws, whether you put too much salt or have bad quality, it doesn't matter. The important thing is that he needs to be affirmed by you, and you need to give back positively.

Continue to dig deeper, the key point of communication and communication between people is that it is positive feedback, good feedback, and immediate satisfaction, so as to produce dopamine emotional hormones, form emotional memories, and have a kind of expectation psychology. This is the lubricant for a long-term happy life in the future.

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The same is true when we are dealing with teachers, classmates, clients, and friends. In everything, if someone helps you, you have to immediately give a positive thanks, or in words or behavior, or buy a bottle of water, send a cigarette, or ask for a meal and send a red envelope. The other party can be humble and humble according to the trivial things.

But you can't ignore the etiquette between human nature.

If others are good to you, you must know how to be grateful and repay your kindness. You are kind to others, you have to learn to forget, never care.

This is the way to build the foundation of a well-minded and mature relationship.