Why do some ordinary looking women become more and more beautiful?

As the saying goes: people can't look good, and the sea can't fight! Most of the ordinary-looking girls are beautiful in their hearts, which is also the so-called beauty of the soul!

Although they do not have beautiful appearance and physical talent, they are kind-hearted, intelligent, cheerful and generous. Some are housekeepers, and some are good wives and mothers! Therefore, in order to live a man's life, most people like to find ordinary girls.

And some beautiful girls, with their good looks and the appearance of people like them as capital, are arrogant, squeamish, and stubborn! Eat, drink, dress! Won't live at all.

Such a girl marries home, and can only be used as a vase! Everyone has a different view of love, and different concepts have different choices. Since ancient times, there are leftover men and no leftover women (those who don't marry themselves are not included), because of the imbalance between men and women, all normal girls can eventually find a boyfriend!

I have to say that now appearance has also become a psychological threshold for [chasing people]. Average-looking girls are more popular than good-looking girls, partly because of their own personality and mate selection criteria, but also because of the psychological assessment of the difficulty of boys before pursuing them.

Just like other people, good-looking girls are either too good in their own conditions and too high in vision, or they are vase-like existences, have no strengths, and are selfish and selfish, or they are "goddess" in the hearts of boys, which is unattainable. In short, the vast majority of people will have a stereotype about them, labeling them without getting to know each other deeply.

On the contrary, ordinary-looking girls have a natural "sense of closeness" advantage, commonly known as "down-to-earth", which is not very good for many conditions, and is a "reachable" hint for boys who are not picky about their feelings or are not willing to put too much effort into their feelings. As a result, they are more willing to pursue the ordinary girl who is relatively more certain and in control. Actually, this is really a misconception about pretty girls.

In real life, the success rate of pursuing an ordinary girl is the same as that of pursuing a beautiful girl. Some people are aware of this, but the reason why they still give up on beautiful girls may be because beautiful girls have more cognition of "scumbags".

Boys are also a species that needs to feel safe, they will subconsciously think that ordinary girls will be more stable and sensible, and falling in love with them can reduce the cost of time and energy in future relationships, after all, there are many equally important things to deal with by themselves.

In terms of first impressions, for girls, good-looking girls tend to win more attention, but this does not mean that more people like her. Although for boys, when observing girls, the first thing they care about is the overall appearance of girls, but if you want to find a girlfriend who really likes you and likes yourself, it is not enough to be beautiful. Therefore, when many people are looking for a girlfriend, they do not tend to look for girls who are too good-looking, but tend to find girls with better personalities and more ordinary appearances.

In actual love life, although everyone pays more attention to beautiful girls, there are often fewer people who are really willing to get close to communication. In particular, many good-looking girls tend to have pride, and in their eyes, ordinary boys can't socialize with them at all, so there are very few people who really take action to pursue these good-looking girls. For ordinary-looking girls, although their appearance is not high, their personality will be relatively peaceful and gentle, and they will not be proud of their high appearance.

When you get along with such a girl, you can often get respect, and you can also experience the feeling of liking and respecting each other in the relationship.

From another point of view, being beautiful is just looking for a girlfriend, and the most important thing is whether the girl likes herself and whether she is the type she likes. Looks beautiful, if the personality is also very good, there will be a lot of people who like it, although the appearance is ordinary, but if the personality is not good, there will be few people who like it.

Girls with average appearance are more approachable, most of them have more easy-going personalities, and they will not put more pressure on others, so they will be more popular than girls with high appearance.

Because one is that there is no great sense of distance, it is easy to get close to it. The second is that ordinary-looking girls have a more cheerful and likable personality.

Because ordinary girls are more affinity, because they know that they can't be attracted by their appearance, so it's easier to approach them with a more ordinary heart.

There are many girls who are too beautiful and have a bit of a deformed mentality, after all, they are blessed.

In addition, there are many people who think that it is too difficult to touch, and there will be many people who are not worthy of it, and it is not suitable as a marriage partner if it is too beautiful, so it feels less popular than ordinary girls.

Because popularity is not something that can be measured by appearance, and it is precisely because of ordinary appearance that the temperament will be particularly good and not pampered, and the beautiful ones are often held in the palm of their hands, so they don't know how to work and build a good relationship with colleagues.

Because it does not cause jealousy. Girls, if they are beautiful, are also a burden. See how to use and protect yourself.

Girls with ordinary looks are more approachable, and there is no pressure to be with her, so they are more popular.

It's a little closer and easy-going, easy to get along with, and not as cold as a pretty girl.

Others are less stressed! Otherwise, I'm embarrassed to approach!

Why is it easier for an ordinary-looking woman or an ugly woman to find a husband?