Why the more cold the man, the more the woman likes

Women nowadays are weird, no way!

In psychology, this phenomenon of "not forbidden, the more forbidden it becomes", it is called the "Pandora effect" or "forbidden fruit effect". The psychological essence of the Pandora effect is curiosity and rebellion at work.

When a woman ignores a man, the more likely it is to arouse his curiosity and desire to pursue. Because if you are cold, he will be hot, and if you keep your distance, the more he will want to get close to you. If you don't have expectations and go with the flow, his reaction will not make you suffer from gains and losses.

The more he doesn't get it, the more he will put in the effort to win your love.

From the moment a man starts to have a crush on a woman, he will pay attention to everything about this woman, including going to work in **? What do you do? What do you like to eat? What are your hobbies? Wait, as long as there is anything about this woman, he wants to know.

Most men are action-oriented, and next, he will think about what kind of way to invite, whether it is a meal, a shopping or a movie. It's all about wanting to get close to each other and get to know each other. If the other party refuses, this stimulates the man's curiosity and desire to conquer even more.

Then next time, he will go to the appointment. If the other party really has no good feelings for him or even hates him, the attitude of refusal insists on being decisive, and the possible man will give up, and some men will continue.

Because everyone has different perseverance, determination, patience, and emotional intelligence, they will choose different ways to deal with things. I had a male classmate in high school who chased a female classmate, chased him for three years in high school, four years in college, and another two years after work. Finally, the female classmate was tempted.

But in the end it didn't come together.

I remember very clearly, the male classmate said that after chasing it, I felt that my goal for many years had finally been achieved, and the good impression I had for the female classmate had disappeared, just to pursue a goal in life.

This also profoundly illustrates that when a man's curiosity and desire to conquer a woman are satisfied, the beautiful feelings may become just a purpose. The more Pandora was not allowed to open the box, the more he wanted to open it. The more women refuse, the more men have to chase after them, and if you don't let me chase them, the more I want to get them, it's the same reason.

And human beings usually have such a mentality, when for one thing or a thing, the more time and energy spent, the more difficult the process, then when he gets it, the more he will cherish it, because it is not easy to get.

There are some people who are, the more they like the surface, the colder they are, for several reasons:

1. He is afraid of rejection.

The reason why I chose not to confess my crush when I had a previous land was that most people were still afraid of being rejected by the other party. Maybe if you don't say it, two people can still get along normally like friends, but once this relationship is clarified, and the other party doesn't like you, it's very embarrassing. If you don't have full confidence and confidence in the other party, then a man would rather choose to hide this feeling and pretend to be cold and cool, rather than the embarrassment and loss when he is rejected in person.

2. He's playing routines.

A man has a good impression of you in his heart and likes you very much, but he has to make a look that he doesn't care about you on the surface and is cold and indifferent to you, and he may sometimes be playing tricks with you when he does this. Many times, women are very good at the trick of men who want to catch and indulge. Because sometimes a person chases you hard, but you don't have any feelings for him, and a person who is close to you and always looks distant and indifferent in front of you, such a man will attract your attention.

3. You can't do it.

If a man likes you in his heart but pretends to be cold and alienated on the surface, it is likely that he knows that it is impossible to have a result with you, so instead of wasting feelings and time, it is better to choose to give up early, not to bother you, and to bury his feelings for you deep in his heart.

4. Personality problems.

If this man is an introverted and easily shy person, then when he meets a woman he likes, he doesn't dare to look directly at her, for fear that the other party will see what clues and then stay away from him. Such a man is not careful about himself, he does not dare to try new things boldly, and when he meets true love, it is like a mouse seeing a cat, but this is easy for women to misunderstand, thinking that men don't like her at all, and they don't even look at her, so men must dare to confess and approach.

5. For the vanity of one's friendlessness.

Some people feel that what they can't get is the best, so they will behave more indifferently, in fact, he wants more, this kind of like is not so pure, just go forward if you love someone, you don't need to care so much.

The more men like it in their hearts, the more they envy it, the more willing they will be to be passionate about women, and it won't be very cold.

This is an interesting question that involves the delicate relationship between men and women. First of all, women are usually more reserved than men in expressing their emotions in the trillary world, which may be one of the reasons why men perceive women as indifferent. However, it is interesting to note that when men are treated with indifference from women, they tend to be more eager to connect with women, because this challenge stimulates their curiosity and desire to conquer.

On the other hand, women's indifference to men may also be due to the fact that they are more cautious in the face of feelings. They are more detail-oriented and long-term in mind, so they may show a cold appearance before they develop enough trust and affection for a man. However, this apathy does not mean that they are not interested, but may be a manifestation of their observation and consideration.

The psychology of men also plays a role in this problem. Males have an instinct, the "hunter" instinct, and they like to chase and conquer. When women show apathy, men feel the need to solve the mystery to further stimulate their interest and curiosity.

In addition, men also have a possessive desire and are more willing to pursue and "own" women when they feel challenged and competitive. In short, women's indifference to men may arouse men's curiosity and desire for challenge, so their brother will like such women more. This is not to say that women should be deliberately indifferent to men, but they should understand this psychological effect between men and women and make the best decisions according to their own needs when dealing with feelings.

Everyone has their own preferences and preferences, and no judgment should be made based on gender. At the same time, indifference and liking also vary from person to person, and it cannot be generalized.

Some boys won't, and some men will beg that girl to be cold to himself, and he will feel very peaceful because he won't be touched by the nuclear royal disturbance, and he can finally be himself with peace of mind. He won't be able to accept the girl he likes snubbing him, and he won't be able to ask for it if he doesn't like it.

Have you ever heard Eason Chan's "Red Rose"? “Those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored have nothing to fearWhy is it that the more indifferent a woman is, the more a man likes it?

1. What you can't get is always worrying, which is determined by genes.

If a woman is fair, simple and generous, but has a cold personality, I believe that the image of such a woman is the image of a goddess in the hearts of many men. Nature is always maintaining a balance, a balance where you chase me, you run and I chase. We humans live on the earth, what can we contribute to the earth?

That is to reproduce. Since the setting of our human beings is to pass on the seeds of civilization, those indifferent women will not be likable according to reason, why are so many men attracted to her and will never forget them? It is because God needs us to reproduce, and for those women who have an indifferent appearance, God has carved the gene of attraction in men, so that at least the probability of reproduction can be increased.

2. An indifferent woman has her attractive side.

Generally speaking, excellent women will be more or less indifferent, and coldness makes a woman more temperamental, doesn't it? When a person is concentrating on one thing, it is very attractive, and doing one thing wholeheartedly is a manifestation of indifference. For most men, their girlfriends or wives have a strong dependence on themselves, they have long been tired of this feeling, and then suddenly a woman who makes you feel untouchable, she will naturally provoke a man's desire to conquer, as soon as this evil fire comes up, it is possible to fall into it deeply, and you can't stop.

3. Men don't like to live the same.

After many men get married, have a stable family and a successful career, they will want to do something outside. That's because he knew that the one in the family would not be lost. As the saying goes, the world is good for reincarnation, who does the sky forgive?

Cherish your family and lover, love someone wholeheartedly, and don't do things that you will regret later.

Because most men have some stinky problems, they feel that what they can't get is always the best, and those who are indifferent to themselves will have a higher style and will be more attractive to men.

Because for men, the more things they can't get, the more men want to get them, so the more indifferent women are, and men prefer to conquer them.

Because what you can't get is always in turmoil, and what is favored is fearless, so the more indifferent a woman is, the more men like it, and people like to lick their faces.

Because men will always feel that the more indifferent the woman is, the more fresh the woman is, and it will also make them more interested in each other.

Because an indifferent woman will make a man have a very strong desire to win, and what he can't get is always in turmoil.

Because men like challenges, for such women, men will feel very conquest and want to conquer each other.