Why do simple people end up blackening? Has she he become not good?

Simple people are blackened in the end and are no longer kind, which shows that society is a big dye vat. It will be dyed colorful, and there is no original self. This is also the same as what kind of home education he once received. Relate.

People will grow up, they can think, they can learn, and if they are injured, they can only stimulate the self-protection mechanism, because it is too much to suffer in this world, really, in order to protect themselves, you must change, but this is not the premise that you have done a harmful blackening, blackening is the definition you give her (him). She (he) just wants to live better in this world and not be hurt more.

Because society has dealt him a heavy blow. When you first enter the society, you will be relatively simple, your ideas will be relatively simple, and you will suffer a lot of losses as a result. Eat a trench, grow a wisdom, and slowly it will become what you hated at first.

It's not stupid after being simple, and it doesn't necessarily turn black.

And even kindness is conditional kindness. It's like we can't be merciful to our enemies.

The reason why people are no longer as simple as a blank sheet of paper is because of the growth and enrichment of life experience, and the ability to judge right and wrong, so that they can better protect simple and kind people.

Why do simple and kind people turn black, it can be seen from movies and TV series that a person's blackening does not happen suddenly, it happens after one thing after another, a little bit of suppression, if there is no very human experience, who is not willing to live an ordinary and happy life.

A simple person may have met someone who did something sorry for him, so she was forced to change him because of her unkindness.

People will always change after more experience. The original intention remains the same, how many people can do it.

The more you have experienced, the more you will naturally change, in fact, you will be more mature.

That can only be said to be a mature person, isn't this society like this?

I think it's mainly a matter of mentality. No matter what you go through, as long as you maintain a good attitude, there is nothing you can't get over.

An idiom used to describe a person who is completely discouraged: no hope, completely lifeless, useless, dead or alive, etc.

Yes. Human nature will not become, as long as he can pass that level and reconcile with himself. You will find your true nature.

A person who has experienced a lot, and has been hurt a lot, will be disappointed in the world and the people. It's hard to get him back to what he was.

If a person has experienced something bad, or something sad, she has been extremely disappointed and has become very cold and unacceptable, then after a period of time, he can reflect on it, and then he can go back to the old one. Find yourself.

After experiencing some bad things, after a period of calm handling, I will return to the original point.

Indeed, there will be such people, because they may be less able to bear it, so they will be absolutely attached to the world.

Once a person experiences something bad, it will have a greater impact on the individual.

As long as he is not completely desperate in his heart, he can definitely change back to his original self, and at the same time, he also needs the warm care and encouragement of the people around him, and he also needs to constantly adjust his mentality, think more about the good side, as long as he does not give up, he will definitely be able to do it.

If you can change back to your original appearance, it's just that it's going to be difficult, just be more considerate of love and warmth.

Once a person has experienced something bad and is hurt, he will be disappointed in the world, he should pick himself up again and face life well.

Personally, I think it's just that your psychological tolerance is relatively poor, and we should be strong.

I don't know what you want to ask, but you're around.

The topic of kindness, then I will also discuss it around kindness.

Kindness is your own choice, just like if you pick up a lot of money in your wallet, will you contact the owner?

Some people may and some people may not, like me, I will contact, not because I am kind and not greedy for money or anything like that, but because I can't get through my own level, and I will be very miserable and uneasy to spend money from unknown sources.

The act of contacting the owner, others may seem like a good person, but I just can't get past my own level.

Kindness is one's choice, isn't it? It is not worthy of boasting, and it is not worthy of being celebrated.

Our society now calls on people to be a kind person, yes, that's right, but kindness is their own choice, and there may be too few people who choose kindness, when kindness is praised from the moment, how can we distinguish what is the real good?

You and I may never act kindly, but you and I are asked to be like that, and we are all playing a good role.

It's good to be yourself, what others are like is someone else's business, society is very complicated, everyone can't do it to make everyone like, so it's good to be yourself, do things right, and have your own conscience, what to do with your conscience, not to be perfect, but to have peace of mind.

People are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden, and kind people are always more tolerant than others, so people will bully.

In a group of black.

If there is a white lamb among the lambs that will stand out, then the shepherd must be the first to choose the white lamb when he eats the roast lamb first.

Pure kindness is not a bad thing, but the world follows the law of the jungle. Let a pure white lamb survive in it, if the girl does not die, I am sure that this white lamb will definitely have a black belly.

If it weren't for the black belly, it must have been kept in captivity by other worse guys, waiting to be slaughtered later.

So don't flaunt yourself as simple and kind, it only shows that you can't adapt to the world. No matter how bad it is, it just means that you are being kept in captivity.

That's the reality, because the girl is not good at disguising herself.

Maybe it's because you're too young.

Because some villains are really distressing before they become bad, villains are not bad from the beginning, but their bodies or minds have been inhumanly destroyed and tortured.

Because these people are not bad in nature, but they are not cared for enough, so they will go astray, so they have a miserable life.

Because these villains also have a very tragic experience, they also had a good heart at the beginning, and only became villains after being hurt.

Because their endings are very bad, and their fate is also very tragic, people will feel worthless and sad for them after watching it.

Because the endings of those villains are very tragic. So it makes people feel very pitiful.

The atmosphere in Soul Street is tense and panicked, and in this environment, it is not surprising that Xiao Rou will become evil spirits and even die. And for the brothers, after all, they are the sons of the previous soul general, and in order to consolidate their status as a soul general, they don't even let go of the two children.

General Lu governs Zhensoul Street with the idea that "no matter what world it is, the weak are the slaves of the strong, even if the times are different, what has changed is only the way of enslavement, and this is hell for the weak and heaven for the strong".

I think that although she is not the heroine, she still has a greater impact on the brothers (here are all about childhood, called by brother and brother, and everyone has a different opinion on the name). Especially to the younger brother. For the younger brother, his parents disappeared within a few days of his birth, and there is only one relative in his brother, and Xiaorou's existence is undoubtedly another relative's feeling.

Chun'er is not an innocent girl, any girl born in a royal aristocratic family who does not have a little city government and plans for her future. The reason why she sticks to Zhen Huan's side is because Zhen Huan is deeply loved by the emperor and can see the emperor all the time, when Zhen Huan talks to the emperor, Chun'er is holding plum blossoms and wants to go in to find Zhen Huan, Huanbi has told her in front of the door that the emperor is inside, and she still broke in, it can be seen that her mind is not ordinary, and she always expresses that she can eat in front of the emperor and Zhen Huan, silly and sweet, and when she was 17 years old, she pretended to be indifferent in front of Zhen Huan and the emperor and said that she was 17 years old. Let the emperor pamper her at night.

The first time others went to bed, although they were not like An Lingrong, they were a little frightened, but when she was carried in, she was laughing at ** laughing, which shows that she has already known about the affairs of men and women and has been waiting for only one day.

Because even if Yuan Chun is blackened, everyone understands that Yuan Chun is blackened, but he has received too many grievances, injustices, and bullying, and everyone can't hate it because everyone can see her pain and have a sympathy for her.

looks cute, her previous simple and kind personality left a deep impression on the audience, which makes people hate it, she is also a victim of love, she was calculated by her father, and she couldn't get the man she loved the most.

That's because everyone has watched Yuan Chun all the way, knows how he has become black from a simple person, and knows what he has experienced, so because of these reasons, they can't hate him.

Because I feel that she hasn't done anything wrong, but the final ending is so tragic that people really can't hate it, and even feel a little sorry for her.

For we have a saying that the poor must have something to hate, and the reverse is also true, that is, the hateful must have something to be pitied.

Because Yuan Chun was too kind-hearted before, even if he was blackened, people would realize that it was caused by the external environment, and he would not let everyone hate it.

Because she is not bad by nature, she is also a poor person after blackening, which makes people hate it at all.

Because Yuan Chun was also very simple and full of expectations for love at the beginning, it was he who loved the wrong person and let himself go through a lot of things, so he became bad.

I think he's been through a lot of things along the way, and we actually think he's quite pitiful, so we can't hate him.

Because the girl herself is kind in her heart, if she encounters a bad environment, there will definitely be some changes.

Maybe it was the society that made the girl change later, and if it wasn't for any setbacks, it would be difficult for ordinary people to change.

Because human beings are inherently good, there is no persecution of nature, and there is no qualitative change in her.

A person is good-hearted at the beginning, if others treat her badly and make him realize, if he is not bad, he can only be bullied, then he can only make himself strong and become bad.

Because people have a kind side, it may be out of kindness at the beginning, and her heart is also very kind.

Later, when you encounter a lot of environmental factors or human factors, you will become characterful, in fact, everyone is like this.

A girl is a good person at the beginning, and then she becomes bad, because others are bad to him, so such a girl is worthy of sympathy and transformation.

A girl is a good person at the beginning, and then others treat him badly, this girl becomes bad, I think in this way she is still good in nature, as long as relatives and friends care more about her, she can still become good.

I think this is the change of human nature, he may have been traumatized and distorted in his heart.

It shows that this girl has become bad in her heart and has become distrustful of others.

That girl's mentality is very happy, so the more she learns, the worse it gets.

In order to protect themselves, sometimes they are forced to be helpless.

People are affected by a variety of factors in society, so it is normal for some changes to occur.

Because people are affected by the environment.

People change with their environment.

A girl is a good person at the beginning, and then others treat him badly, this girl has become bad, and it is a very normal situation to take revenge on the family by any means, because the girl was originally innocent, but she was read by the shot.