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Why does the baby mother cry and the grandmother doesn't cry The explanation is as follows:
The child will not cry when he is held by others, and the mother will cry when he hugs, which considers that the mother's body has too much milk, and the child may not be adaptable, which can be ruled out by the usual feeding situation, or it may be caused by the mother's fright.
You sometimes hold the baby crying, maybe you hold the posture is wrong, maybe you hold less, no matter what the reason, first coax the baby, comfort the baby is the first priority, timely response and comfort the baby is a very important part of establishing a sense of security, the baby's habits in the future, personality has an important impact, so I suggest that in the case you can't figure it out, just hand it over to the mother-in-law, don't let the baby cry all the time, and then you slowly learn and explore, after a long time, you will naturally become proficient in this matter with the baby.
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Grandma doesn't cry when the mother hugs and cries, the mother has experienced a lot of pain when giving birth to the baby, it can be said that the baby is the most intimate with the mother, but sometimes, when the mother is holding the baby, the baby will cry uncontrollably, the following understanding of the grandmother does not cry when the mother hugs and cries.
In fact, most new mothers will encounter this problem, such as the lack of experience of new mothers, the incorrect posture of holding the child, and the discomfort of the child. The baby begins to recognize life, because usually grandma brings a lot.
Babies of different ages have different ways to hold them
1 month
To hold horizontally, you can use the wrist or hand support method, hold the baby in confinement, pay attention to support the head and neck, and the head and buttocks must be kept in a straight line.
months later
Can be held vertically, you can let the baby lie on the shoulder or back to yourself, after the full moon or the head can be upright can be held for a short time, after 3 months can be appropriately extended vertical hold time.
months later
Holding the child still has to protect the head and neck, at this time, the baby's neck strength can basically support the head, and the child can be more flexible.
months later
The baby's head can move freely, and when parents hold it, they don't need to deliberately help the child support the head and neck, as long as it is slightly supported.
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Inexperienced.
In fact, most novice mothers will encounter this problem, novice mothers are inexperienced, the incorrect posture of holding the child causes the child to be uncomfortable, etc., the baby begins to recognize the birth, because usually the grandmother brings more.
Mother hugging the baby and crying, grandma hugging does not cry, there may be the following reasons, the mother may be relatively young, is the first time to be a mother, so not very good at holding the child, when the mother holds the baby, the baby may feel uncomfortable, so the baby will cry.
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