Why doesn t the baby cry when it s picked up?

Little children are also smart, they also want to be noticed, and they feel safe if they are picked up. When their horizons are broadened, they will naturally be very happy.

After the baby is picked up, he will feel very safe, and only when he feels safe, he will not cry

The child feels safe and scared, so he stops crying when he is picked up.

It shows that the baby lacks a sense of security, and after being picked up by others, the baby feels very safe, so he does not cry.

Because when you pick up the baby, the baby feels safe, so the baby doesn't cry.

In fact, babies are very insecure, and they don't cry because the baby is wrapped when they are in the mother's belly, and they are used to the feeling of being wrapped around in the belly, which is the same as the baby likes to be patted to sleep, including they like to pinch other people's fingers tightly.

The baby may cry because of a lack of security, so when the baby is picked up, he can feel safe in the arms of his family, so he does not cry.

It is very wrong for a baby from birth to one month old to cry and parents pick it up and coax it.

First of all, what are the reasons why babies cry?

First, the baby's crying may first be pulled down or urinated, he or she feels uncomfortable, and he can't express it in words, so he has to cry to ask for help;

Second, it may be that you are hungry, and you can only use crying to send a signal;

3. It may be cold or hot, and it feels strange;

Fourth, there is no one around for a long time, and the little heart feels lonely, even panicked, or wants to call someone to "chat", but unfortunately it can't be expressed in words, so I have to cry to you!

Based on the above four points, if you pick up such a big baby as soon as she cries, you will give him the wrong message: as soon as I cry, someone will come and hold me, no matter what difficulties or needs there are, just cry. Over time, your child will become a crying little friend.

At the same time, hugging and hugging when you cry will take up a lot of your time and energy, and you will have no time to do other things.

Another disadvantage of hugging him as soon as he cries is that the bones of such a big child are underdeveloped, and the poor spinal support of holding him too early is not conducive to the child's growth and development.

The correct thing to do should be: when you hear your child crying, first come and check to see if it is pulling? Pee?

If you don't pee, is it time to breastfeed? Analyze it again and it's hot and cold? Don't think that if your child doesn't understand, you won't talk to her, you must speak, and you must talk more and often, so that this is the correct way of parenting.

Because babies can feel especially lonely when they stand alone on the ground. Without the company of parents, there is no sense of security. When parents pick up their babies. The baby is protected, and his heart becomes safe and steady, and he will not cry.

Because the baby has achieved its purpose and let its relatives understand their desires, they naturally don't cry or make trouble.

I don't think you should leave him alone. Otherwise, it will become a habit and you can divert his attention.

You should train your baby by holding it up to soothe it and putting it down when he doesn't cry.