Are you still confused after the 80s? We are post 80s

It's not a mistake to be confused, it's not that you don't know the road, it's just that the road is opened by someone else, and you can't help but follow it.

Confused, with no hope for the future!

Confusion is a kind of complex chaos, nothing failure is also the impact of the family, and their own control ability is related, either they have knowledge or technology and eloquence, the concept of independence and cooperation is not the same, this is to see how to operate, no luck to meet the wrong person investment mistake is also ruined themselves, want to develop it is difficult.

At the age of 30, he has 195 debts, and he works hard to make money and plan hard to protect his beloved ......

Sometimes confused, sometimes sober! At present, the work has eased, and some of the tension is part, but there are still regrets!

I'm about to be 30, I'm at a bottleneck at work, and I'm ready to start a business, but I feel like it's not enough now, so I'm ready to change jobs!

The reason why I am confused is because I think too much and do too little

It is said that standing at 30 is not a career, Robin Li is a poor egg at the age of 30, and Ma Yun is still a poor egg at the age of 30, it doesn't matter.

The important thing is to establish your temperament, which contains your ambitions and dreams.

I am 80 years old, a monthly salary of 4500 yuan, two children, there are 2 sets of houses at home, my wife always said that I will not make money, today she came back at a little more than one o'clock in the morning, I said to come back early, and then it was not good, I slapped her twice, she said I have no money and don't know to cherish her, I said divorce, she kept crying, what did I do wrong, except for the lower salary, there is no pressure, I feel so confused.

Today is exactly 30 years old, a college teacher, just working, the performance and salary are 7000, and the husband is about to graduate in 30 to make money, no house, no car, no children, a pair of 30 people.

As a woman, career and life are inextricably linked. I am not young, I have no education, no technology, and no background. Everything can easily become 0, work well today, and tomorrow there may be nothing.

As a part-time worker, you don't have the right to decide your own future. The return of his hard work is only a little bit, and he often faces the danger of being fired.

You're still eating your parents' and living your parents' and don't have your own job, so I'm telling you, you're screwed! A person who is far away from social information is going to fall, and who can save you (this is what I have experienced) Think about it at 30 and stand up, bravely go out, find a job that interests you, and change starts here.

One should keep one's mind calm and not impetuous. Have a positive and optimistic attitude, pay attention to the process and downplay the results. Don't rush and be a vibrant person. Set sail in the present day, and the prosperous other side is in the morning.

Calm down, the mind can be sober in order to find the right direction, purify the heart, the increase in positive energy will naturally attract good fate, be simple, the simplest is often the most correct, family harmony, harmony can make money, think less and do more, the opportunity is always left to be prepared, exercise diligently, read more books, the body is the foundation of everything, learn more, know more.

With the passage of time, we after the 80s have gradually disappeared into the sea of people, we are no longer young and frivolous, and we can often hear others say that men stand in their thirties. But our post-80s generation, the oldest is 42 years old, the youngest is 33 years old, how many of us have realized our ideals, and how many of us are living the life we yearn for. We work 9 to 5 every day in order to make a living, and many times, we don't dare to let ourselves fall.

Because there are parents to support behind me, children to raise, all the pain can only be borne silently, as we grow older, our personality is changing, our temper is changing, and even our eating habits are slowly changing. After the 80s, we no longer pay attention to the brand, but more choose the style that suits our age. After the 80s, we have a lot less frivolity, a lot of maturity and stability, because we are no longer the people who were once young and frivolous, from marriage to having children, we after the 80s, we have given one-third of our energy to our children, one-third of our time to work, one-third of our time and energy to our families, and we have only the vicissitudes of life left to ourselves.

After the 80s, we are more traditional in terms of ideology and concepts. But we are still working hard after the 80s, and we have been constantly working hard to make ourselves better and better, so that our lives are getting better and better.

I was born in the early 80s, I can briefly introduce to you, I live in a third-tier city, the spring breeze of reform and opening up has not affected my city until the early 90s, the 80s is a special era of the country's transition from a planned economy to a market economy, food stamps are still used when I was a child, there is a grain station opposite my house, there are a lot of food stamps at home, when buying noodles are food stamps, you can also use food stamps to buy steamed buns, food stamps range from four taels, one catty, five catties, ten catties, of course, banknotes can also be used, But at that time, the salary was not high, a month full is less than 100 yuan, there is only a black and white TV at home, the factory is still a state-owned enterprise, three shifts of work system, winter and summer have corresponding small benefits, we are the first generation after the implementation of family planning, according to parents, at that time, if you have more children, you will be unemployed, so everyone does not dare to have more, so most of the urban children who are about the same age as me are only children, and the children's enrollment is divided by films, if you go to school across districts, you have to pay money, There are almost no motor vehicles on the street except for the bus, everyone is riding a bicycle to work, the TV program is also very poor, and there is no TV program at 10 o'clock in the evening, the children's way of playing is also to find their own fun, rolling hoops, throwing sandbags, kicking shuttlecocks, jumping rubber bands, grasping knowledge, jumping squares, in short, childhood memories are gray, there is no special color, plain and warm, at that time, the material was poor, people's minds changed, there were brains, and people with courage left the factory and began to go to the sea to do business, Timid and incompetent people keep to themselves but are flustered inside, this society is like a lake that is calm on the surface, but the dark tide is turbulent, maybe this is the portrayal of the alternating moment of the old and new periods, and those who have not experienced it will not understand.