How to broaden the breadth and breadth of your child?

Choose the right books, from shallow to deep, grasp the children's interests and guide them in time. At first, it is necessary to cultivate children's reading habits, and parents should pay more attention to their children's reading interests after they have the reading habit and love to read. For example, Dabao is about three years old, likes colorful storybooks, and has low interest in some popular science books.

Considering that he is already three years old and needs to read some popular science books, I bought a set of Japanese Kubo Shuichi Photography and Nanao Jun's "Kissing Nature" picture book on the Internet in advance. It rained one day in May, I took him to the grass to see the snails, and caught several of them home, to see that the baby was very interested in snails, and took the opportunity to accompany the baby to read one of the little snails "Shelter from the Rain" story, and sure enough, I finished reading the whole set of books smoothly. Therefore, we must capture the child's interests and recommend corresponding books for his interests, and the books can slowly go from shallow to deep, so that the effect is better.

Interest is actually an opportunity to expand into many aspects. An important task that parents need to do is to allocate educational resources, which include books, online resources, and taking children to see all kinds of related things, such as museum exhibitions, competitions, people engaged in related professions, and so on. Another important job is to guide learning, this guidance is to be able to spend time talking to the child about the topics he is interested in, the problems he knows and the problems he does not know, understand what he is passionate about, and challenge the child according to the points that the child is passionate about, but also challenge the allocation of educational resources.

Cultivating interest is a process from point to point, and on the way to following interest, as long as the child has such a process of in-depth exploration, he will also have the ability to do in-depth learning and exploration when he is interested in anything else in the future.

It needs to be guided, to inspire children's interests, and to be shallow and deep. When I first read science books to Dabao, she was not interested, such as how cars run and how airplanes fly. One time when I went out, I happened to tell her that it was a gear lever, and she became interested in what the gear lever was for, and I told her that my mother didn't understand it either, and that it was not good for us to go to the library and borrow a book on it.

Dabao was so excited that he urged me to borrow the book the next day. When I borrowed books, I chose to flip through the books, which was more interesting, and slowly pulled the baby into the sea of science and technology books. Now the baby will often ask what books to read, and I will also give her some books of different varieties appropriately.

With only vision and no depth, it is easy to develop the problem of rhetoric, feeling that you can do anything, but you can't do anything. In the Ming Dynasty, Wang Yangming was determined to be a saint when he was young, and he demanded himself as a saint everywhere: studying, maintaining health, traveling, and even investigating along the Great Wall, strictly practicing the lesson of "learning from things" until he fell ill ...... because of "grid" bambooBut this busy pass, but there was not much gain, and he was belittled and hunted down for offending the eunuchs.

When he arrived at the dragon field, he suddenly woke up during a meditation: "The way of a saint is self-sufficient, and those who seek reason from it are wrong." Everyone has the heart of a saint, and they don't have to ask for external things, but return to their hearts, so as to "reach their conscience" and "unite knowledge and action".

This is the "science of mind" founded by Wang Yangming.

Reading should cover a wide range of topics, thinking while reading, and it is best to mark the book. (Fat Yan Zhai is the best example) to put what you have learned into practice. When communicating with people, you should apply what you have learned to let others feel your talent and knowledge.

After a long time, he has really become a "learned person".

My personal experience starts from the field that children love, and slowly extends and expands to other fields, pleasant reading experience, harmonious reading atmosphere, appropriate reading guidance, as long as children taste the joy of reading, children will explore the world of reading independently.

The ancients said"Good reading, don't seek to understand", Kong Ming reads"It's a good idea"。I don't like to cite Steve Jobs, but he was also a casual man. Life is very long, no one can predict it, and if you are young, as long as you don't regret it.

Picking up flowers at night, ploughing and harvesting, maybe one day you look back at the past and find that the past is just a foreshadowing of God in your life.

Any knowledge involves the theoretical level, is from shallow to deep, to reach a certain height requires a long-term so-called boring knowledge reserve, quantitative change to a certain point will be qualitative, if it is just a dragonfly water, it will inevitably become a general but not specialized situation.