What did you learn about your life that made your life easier from then on?

After realizing that "life is not easy, everyone pursues it, and everyone has a different position." Don't practice yourself in the hearts of others, don't force others in your own hearts", and your life will be easier from now on.

Everything is not harsh, everything is not careful, and individuals have their own way of life. You can't set low standards for yourself and be harsh on others. Don't engage in double standards, don't impose your own will on others, learn to empathize, look at problems from the other party's point of view, analyze problems, so that you will be happy and relaxed.

In life, don't care what others think of you in their hearts, and don't ask others to do anything in your own hearts.

You can't blindly value the evaluation of others, or restrain yourself according to other people's standards, that will only lose yourself, and it will be very tiring to live.

Life. It's just a practice, just do your best. Walking is a kind of comprehension, as long as you understand.

A calm mindset will come out of the dust, and nothing will be lost. Gains and losses are not in front of you but in your heart, and happiness is no longer in possession but in contentment. A very ordinary sentence reflects the philosophy of life and makes life easier.

1. In fact, in this world, not so many people care about you. I was afraid that my image was not good enough, that my words were not connotative enough, that I was worried that I would make a bad impression, and that I felt cramped even walking under the gaze of the crowd when I was nervous. When I realized that there weren't so many people in the world who cared about me, my life was a lot easier.

2. The cold field is not your responsibility alone. In the past, when I met two people who had nothing to say, they were silent and cold, and I always hated myself a little, blaming myself for not having anything in my stomach, so I couldn't pour it out, which led to the cold. When I realized that the matter of cold field was not my responsibility alone, my heart suddenly opened up, and my life was released again.

3. Not only strive to become a better person, but also always appreciate the imperfect self at the moment. In the past, I always felt that I was not good enough, and I asked this and that whenever I met people, I wanted to break myself and rebuild it. When I was 35 years old, I suddenly understood one thing, in fact, there is no end to a better self, accept yourself, and then work hard to become better, so that you can be more humble and not arrogant when you ask for advice from the outside world, and life will not be so tired.

4. I am just an ordinary person, it is my duty to live my own life well, and it is not my responsibility to help others, but just a hobby. I don't know if there are people like me who regard it as their duty to help others, because my goal in life is to be a gentleman who is as gentle as jade; Later, I accepted that I was just an ordinary person, and I still helped many people, but not as a responsibility, but as a hobby - although what I did did not change, my mentality changed, and my life was different.

5. I'm just a passing ordinary person, not an anomaly, not a freak or a weird. I once thought that my life was full of flaws, lacking social skills, lacking the ability to maintain a long-term relationship, and lacking the ability to interact deeply with people, and I tried very hard to become an ordinary person like the general public, passing. Later, I realized that in fact, there are no ordinary people in this world who pass, every ordinary person has such and such a heart disease, such and such a problem to live in this world, and how many people are more amazing than others, and they don't have to pursue passing at all.

6. Those who like to hit you are not necessarily better than you. I didn't understand at first that many people can't manage their own affairs well, and criticizing others is a set of things. When I understood, I was able to take what they said as a fart, and sometimes I would tell him bluntly

My own business, my own measure. ”

There is no one-and-done ease, only a moment of joy.

There is a saying, "The human heart is not enough for a snake to swallow an elephant." "Throughout thousands of years of history, in this life, ordinary people earn their lives, and those who are in positions of power earn fame.

Which one is easy to pass. Zuo Biography records, "Cui Shu killed his monarch" Cui Shu was so powerful that he could execute the monarch of Qi at will, for the sake of fame, coerced the historian not to record that he killed the monarch, the historian did not obey, after killing two historians in a row, seeing that there were other historians who were not coerced, they must record truthfully, and they could only give up. "Ask how much sorrow you can have, just like a river flowing eastward" Li Yu, Emperor of the Southern Tang Dynasty.

It hasn't been easy, either.

The common people are even more so, which one of them is easy to "prosper the people and die the people". Mr. Lu Xun said, "Human beings have experienced nothing more than two societies, one is a society in which slaves sit firmly, and the other is a society in which slaves are not allowed. The young man of "Xin Qiji" does not know the taste of sorrow and falls in love with the floor.

Fall in love with the floor, and worry about the new words. Now I know all the sorrows, and I want to talk about it. I want to say that I will not rest, but I will say that the weather is cool and autumn.

Human beings are a collection of desires. If you have desire, you won't be easy.

The Buddha said: All sentient beings are suffering, and the only way to overcome them is to overcome them. The Buddha is not easy, and the Buddha also has the bonds of ambition. King Jizo Bodhisattva said, "Hell is not empty, and you will not become a Buddha; All sentient beings are exhausted, and Bodhi is proven".

Putting aside a lifetime and talking about small kindness, it is to generalize. People come to this world from crying, and then leave this world from the cries of others, and experience all kinds of things in the world. A short or long life.

Full, sad, happy, parting, and uniting. There are too many to put down, how can it be easy to sum up. The big people have the helplessness of the big people, and the little people have the sorrow of the little people.

You and I are mortals, born in the world, running around all day long, not idle for a moment, since we are not immortals, it is inevitable that there will be distracting thoughts, morality on both sides, put the word in the middle.

Our life will not be easy, only confrontation. After the confrontation, you get what you want, in exchange for a moment of joy and peace. So there is the question "Where is the wine tonight?"

The willow bank, the wind and the waning moon. "To connect this life of confrontation is to have this life of struggle. Rejoice, or sorrow, or be at a loss.

Alive, life has to go on. Perhaps after understanding the above truth, it is also another kind of relaxation.

In fact, many people will fail, and they may not be able to achieve success in a shorter period of time, but we feel lost in our lives, because we may want to know more truth, because in the end it can make us more determined and can make us more optimistic.

After comprehending what truth, your life has been relaxed since then, and I have only relaxed after realizing the following three truths:

First, to get along with others, we are actually in a relatively large social network, and we also face more social relationships, but when we are able to get along with others, we can reduce stress and we can also make ourselves more relaxed.

Second, to maintain our independence, we are in a variety of information, and we will also face all kinds of dilemmas, when we can be more independent, we can solve problems, and we can also become more independent people.

Third, keep kind, no matter how much malice we face, no matter how much damage and blow we suffer, we should make ourselves more kind, because a person needs to maintain a more kind heart, only in this way can we be full of hope for life and make ourselves more valuable people.

1. Give up making a good impression on others.

In this world, no one deserves to be pleased more than himself.

When you feel that a relationship is consuming you, that's when you need to leave.

2. Don't be anxious about things that can't be changed.

The process of growing up is also a process of acceptance.

Organize your desires and desires and achieve what you can achieve within your means.

3. Any relationship and exchange is an equivalent exchange.

There is no love and love for nothing, and there is no opportunity and money for nothing.

4. No longer just dream about dreams, but start setting goals and talking about plans.

The biggest difference between people and people is that they can see the situation clearly and distinguish the pros and cons.

5. Never put expectations on others.

Don't expect others to be understanding and considerate.

6. Don't think about changing others, at most you can affect some people.

If you are bent on changing others, you can only suffer yourself.

7. Don't waste your time worrying about what others think.

Unless it affects your common interests.

If you care a lot about what others think of you, you will change it the way he wants it to be, instead of being yourself.

Once you give up on being yourself, you may be happy at first because you get some positive feedback, but over time, you will be extremely lost and miserable.

Let's just say two, if you can do it, then your life may be easy. What I'm going to say is.

1. Don't care too much about anyone or anything; 2. You have to learn to let go of anyone or anything.

As you grow in your life experience, you will be able to comprehend more and more truths and gain the true meaning of life, and you may be able to deal with certain problems easily, but it will not make your life easier, and sometimes it will become a burden. There are no shortcuts in life, and isn't living a kind of practice?

After I realized "Always Thinking One or Two", my life has been easier since then! aqui te amo。

After realizing that only health in life is Miyamoto's. My life has been easier since then.

Most people, after three generations, few people will remember you.

By the way, this also includes your descendants or loved ones.

If you are over 30 years old, close your eyes and imagine what were the names of your grandfather's parents? What profession are they engaged in, where have they been in their lives, what friends have they had, and what interesting stories have they experienced?

I think most people have a hard time putting together a complete memory.

Because many people have not seen their relatives for more than three generations, or have something too deep about it.

If it is said that the life expectancy of modern people has been extended, and it is not a rare phenomenon for four generations to live in the same house, then if you trace the generations back to one generation, you will get the same result.

Most of us are overly ordinary and ordinary people, even at the most energetic, capable, and influential age in life, the people we can influence are very limited, and the impact can last for a short time.

Not too many people will care about you, and you will not be able to write it into the memory of too many people.

Many times, when we are in a fragment of time, we feel that it is a big thing and will have a big impact. In fact, apart from the few people in the moment, not many people will mind that you are "bigger than the sky".

Putting our lives in the long river of history will always seem insignificant.

A person must know how to be satisfied, to know how to be content, don't always look at the mountain high, always complain about the current life, this is not easy, how hard they work, did not achieve the expected results.

Life is not so simple, not so easy, since we work hard, don't always think about everything very perfectly, the ending must be very good, in order to achieve our expected results, we will be satisfied. The higher the goal, the higher the goal, the more extravagant the self will have, and the greater the pressure on yourself.

Try to accept, to feel the things around you, don't put more pressure on yourself, life is not easy, if we are embarrassing ourselves, wouldn't it make ourselves very tired? In this way, you will make the people around you feel that you are difficult to get along with. Simple to have, bland to live, life is not more exciting, you need to rely on yourself to decorate it colorful, so that you can feel that life is happy, I am happy.

Same as I thought, so be it!

Learn to decompress.

When you are depressed, don't be bored by yourself, learn to find a way to relieve pressure and excrete your inner depression, such as choosing a place where there is no one to cry by yourself, or running to a mountain where there is no one and shouting loudly at the mountain, etc., these ways can make your depressed mood suddenly relaxed.

Learn to talk.

When you learn how to listen to others, you must also learn how to confide in others, and confide all the depression in your heart to the other party, your mood will be much easier, without baggage, the whole person will become relaxed.

Learn to soothe yourself.

If you can't find a balance in others, then learn to make your heart stronger, learn to comfort yourself, and consider things in a good direction, as long as you learn to be optimistic in your thinking, then any difficulties and setbacks are not a thing for your strong inner self.

Always be optimistic.

A person's mood and personal attitude towards life are very much related, if a person who is himself and an optimistic person encounter the same thing, then the way to deal with it is completely different, negative people will always maintain extreme thoughts, low self-esteem, withdrawal, optimistic people, always feel that things are not so difficult, it is very simple to pass.

How to maintain a relaxed mood.

Exercise. A good body is the foundation of all life, and set aside a little time every day to exercise or participate in some outdoor activities. Running, playing ball, practicing yoga, doing meditation to empty the brain and body, etc. (it depends on the individual, I am lazy, I am said to get up every morning and jog 3 kilometers, and I run 3 or 4 times a week.

Hey) adjust the state of mind in a timely manner. This one is important, it is important, it is important. Everyone has things that don't go well in life, and the question is how do you deal with it.

I'll admit that sometimes when you're in a bad mood, who cares about him, flash me aside. So here I would say that to turn a bad mood into a good mood, that's all a lie.

Everyone has had a happy moment since they were born, no matter what happens. Here I want you to think back every day when you have nothing to do, and remember how the whole world smiled at me. After a while, you will find that you will not stay with you for long in a bad mood.