A 50 year old aunt has been supported by millions of netizens on a self driving trip, what should it

The ultimate goal is to make yourself happy, life is full of meaning, whether it is material or spiritual, only what you feel good is okay.

I don't think the current high quality of life is defined by the so-called high consumption. High quality should be based on one's own consumption power and economic level, enjoy life, high-quality life. So that you don't have to worry about money.

It is to save and to be satisfied. Go every day, such a high quality of life, because I see the charm of the world, so I am happy.

A high-quality life should be what we want to do, and we all need to have the courage to let us enjoy such a high-quality life, rather than being bound by a certain constraint.

A delicate, high-quality life should be strict with oneself, not bound by the world, and not give up the pursuit of freedom and beautiful things because of the pressure of life.

It is to let go of the quality of self, but when you let go of yourself, you can't lose the original intention, so that is the best high-quality life.

Under the conditions of a certain economic foundation, travel, fitness, etc., in fact, when you are older, you can also live your own wonderful life.

A high-quality life should not be about how well you live, but about having a good time, not being burdened by stress, and doing something you love to do.

To achieve financial freedom and a high-quality life is to buy whatever you want, and to play if you want.

There is a 50-year-old aunt on the hot search for self-driving trips, she herself said the reason for the self-driving trip: her marriage is AA system, helping children with children can also pass the time, after her grandson goes to school, she decided to drive out by herself to travel by car, the focus is on the children, she has endured until she is 50 years old. And the women who can really go out at this age, this aunt can be regarded as a more capable one.

Because there are fewer people like her, there are also people who have discussed whether it is appropriate andIn my opinion, yes.

First, her marriage has reached a bottleneck, and if she doesn't go out for a walk, there may be worse results.

According to her own words, her marriage is actually not very happy, she has a husband who has a completely different concept of spending money than herself, and she herself has been enduring it in order to give her children a complete "home", although there is a saying that "endure the anger of the moment, avoid the worries of a hundred days", but she has endured it for decades, and when she is in her 50s, she will be depressed if she endures it again. Such a state is very dangerous for both marriage and family, and going out for a walk is a wiser choice.

Second, her daughter is supportive, and as for her husband's opinion, it has become unimportant.

In her 50s, if there is a small conflict between her husband and wife, and it is not scientific to ask her husband's opinion, and three-quarters of the down payment on this aunt's car is given by her daughter, that is to say, her daughter is very supportive of her mother, as mentioned earlier, her initial "forbearance" is for the child, so now that her daughter supports her, of course she can drive out to relax.

3. If her financial situation allows, she can travel by car in a chic manner.

She has already said that her married life has always been AA system, so it has been shown that she herself is actually financially capable, and she doesn't need to ask her family for money, she is just traveling, what else is inappropriate?After all, she spent her own money, besides, now that she has been on the hot search, and more than 2 million netizens support her, she can also make money by sharing the experience of self-driving travel in the future. After all, a woman in her 50s, what she shares is definitely different from what she has shared on a road trip, and this is her value.

Fourth, I support her self-driving trip, but it should be planned systematically.

But then again, although I support her, she is also about the same age as my mother, and most of her life has been working hard, more or less falling into some big and small problems, and it is good to travel by car, but you must also bring enough medicine and other supplies you need. In addition, the state of the aunt is also there, like the night driving chosen by many self-driving tourists, it may not be very suitable.

The news of this 50-year-old aunt who drove alone made me think of my parents, who seemed to have not left their hometown for a long time, although they said they didn't want to go, but after this incident came out, I thought I had to plan carefully.

I don't think it's appropriate, because at the age of 50, there is a high probability that your body will have problems anytime and anywhere, and if you travel at home, it will be very dangerous for you.

Yes, but if you have to be accompanied, I personally think that if there is an accident in the car or on the road, there is also a personal help, if you drive out by yourself, then I don't recommend it.

As long as you are in good health, there is nothing wrong with it, but it is best to have a loved one with you. There can be a response.

This aunt said that she had a marriage, and in this marriage she belonged to the party who paid, and netizens were moved by this.

The aunt's self-described marriage attracted tears all over the Internet. A 50-year-old aunt suddenly appeared on a platform for a self-driving trip, this aunt usually has nothing to do with the places she has been to share her feelings, many people have some confusion about the aunt going to the self-driving trip, on October 12, the aunt took a short ** to say the reason for her self-driving trip, because the whole network was tearful.

The aunt also has a family, children and husbands, and now traveling alone by car is a family relationship that is not harmonious. The aunt said that after she married her husband, her husband treated her very ordinarily, and the salary was never given to her, except for buying some food for the family from time to time, the rest of the money was basically spent lavishly.

At that time, the aunt was thinking about divorcing him, but considering the children,I am afraid that I will not grow up well for my children after divorcing my husbandSo I endured it, and almost supported the children to study by myselfWhen the child grows up, the aunt is afraid that the single-parent family will make it difficult for the daughter to marrySo I endured it again.

Wait until the daughter gets married, and felt that his daughter and son-in-law needed to work and could not take care of the childrenWhen the child reaches school age, she is not good to live with her daughter all the time, but she is unwilling to go back to live with her husband, so she went out to drive, and her daughter gave 30,000 yuan in this car, and the rest is her own money.

02, since ancient times, silently paying is the most touching. After reading my aunt's self-report, I was also very moved, distressed by my aunt's life, and sighed at her greatness. On the one hand, the reason why netizens are moved comes from the instinct of human natureIn the face of such a thing, it is understandable that individuals will feel moved.

On the other hand, our culture promotes this spirit of dedicationUnder such cultural influence, we are particularly sensitive to such silent contributions, and the aunt of this matter is still for the children, which resonates with everyone more.

Most of our parents are actually the same, they have been working hard for their daughters all their lives, no matter how bad their children are to them, they will always care for their children silently, and when they hear the story told by this aunt, they will inevitably think about what their mother has done for themselves, and those who have children will think of everything they have done for their children.

The aunt said that her wife's money did not belong to her, and she had to give her wife free laundry and cooking, she said that staying at home was more troublesome, so she didn't want to be at home, I wanted to go out, I wanted to go out, and I wanted to go out and relax.

She said that she went out by car alone because her family was under pressure, and she said how sad it was to be a mother, a wife, and a grandmother. The majority of female netizens feel the same way.

She wants to go on a road trip by herself because of family pressure, it seems that life is really difficult to empathize, because the pressure of life is inevitable to fall on everyone's head, and the aunt is also understood by many people.

I don't want to be a free babysitter anymore, I just want to live for myself. In today's life, the woman is generally responsible for family affairs with her children, and the husband only makes money, and basically everything is the wife's worry.

This aunt in her 50s revealed on her self-** that she had been oppressed by marriage and life before, and had been living a life without self before, so she started an RV self-driving trip.

She said that she was a mother for the first half of her life and herself for the second half of her life. Because she was troubled by her children at home, and she would have an unpleasant relationship with her husband, she was very depressed, so she chose to go out to relax.

The 50-year-old aunt traveled by car, she expressed some real thoughts, she was a mother in the first half of her life, she wanted to keep the second half of her life for herself, and wanted to enrich her life in the second half of her life, this attitude was recognized by netizens and received 2 million likes.

The aunt confided and was with her husband. They are all AA system economically, in the past, for the sake of the child, she endured it, the child grew up to find a partner, thinking that it was better to endure the past, the daughter got married, helped the daughter to lead the child to endure, and now does not give the daughter the child, she will go out to travel by herself, and she has to do housework at home to take care of her husband, and there is not a penny. This is the voice of most women.

She wants to change her life, wants to be outside and live the life she wants. This chic attitude has resonated with many people.

After watching this aunt's Douyin, I don't envy her unrestrained self-driving trip alone, but her experience makes me feel distressed and sad. The aunt confided in her heart is the current situation of many contemporary women, endlessly forgiving for the family, and losing herself in life. Women have too many roles in their lives, and they have to live their lives to live up to this life.

She mainly showed everyone that she has been living for others for most of her life, and her husband has been married for so many years and is still AA system, taking care of her husband and children, this time she wants to live for herself and choose to travel by car alone.

The 50-year-old aunt traveled by car, and he said that he was a mother in the first half of his life and wanted to live for his children, and in the second half of his life, he was for himself and wanted to live for himself.

This is the sadness of most Chinese women, especially after the five, six, seven, and 0s, who are afraid that divorce will affect their children, and they are all enduring humiliation and burdensome lives, and they are miserable.

In this life, the most important thing is to live for your own life, especially women, how many women have dedicated their lives to their families and husbands, but they have never thought about what they want, to live for themselves. It's really great to be able to have this courage at the age of more than half a hundred, and that's what a woman should look like. This aunt who is over half a hundred years old has won the support of millions of netizens, and must have spoken the voices of countless women.

One: Seeing a blogger stir up faith in your heart.

At this age, if you want to let go of everything and travel, in fact, this is a very courageous thing, this aunt has always had such an idea, but has not been implemented, knowing that one day after seeing a blogger self-driving **, aroused the belief in his heart, others can do it, and they can also do it.

Two: The responsibility on my body has been completed.

Each of us has a certain responsibility when we come to this world, as a mother, as a grandmother, and also a wife, we have a lot of responsibilities, but we have already borne the responsibilities that we have to bear, our daughters have raised and have their own families, and our grandsons have helped to take care of them to go to school.

Three: Disappointment in marriage.

Once my aunt also thought about divorce, because such a marriage has been broken and disappointed, but for the sake of her children, she has always wanted to be patient, she is like a free nanny at home, and her husband is often picky, which makes any woman seem to be very broken.

So, pack your bags and start again, when you have this idea, you can't go away, you will work hard for half your life for the first half of your life, and you will live for yourself once in the second half of your life. Not for others, but for their own dogs to see the world.

This is because she has a very bad relationship with her husband, and her daughter is also married and has children, and she feels that life is very boring, so she travels by car.

I have experienced a snowy night, because there are many changes in the country, and there are many differences. Lots of amazing graphics, so it's particularly good.

The 50-year-old aunt who is popular all over the Internet has been traveling by car for two months, he has experienced a failed marriage, and finally has been taking care of the children, he wants to fulfill his dream through this driving trip, let himself relax, and truly live for himself once.

After experiencing the process of letting go of myself, I no longer have to be entangled in housework, and I don't have to be nagged by my husband who is picky, maybe I finally did what I wanted to do in my heart.

1. Now that people's living conditions are better, self-driving travel is more popular, and this way of playing is more flexible and diverse. In the past, people often went out by public transport or through travel agencies to join a group. Although this method also has many benefits, it is more worry-free.

It is because the itinerary is arranged, which may not feel very free for some people. But now, with the economic conditions getting better and better, many people choose to go out by car. Arrange your itinerary as you like.

It's also more freewheeling to play.

Second, some people have better economic conditions, no worries about food and clothing, and live the life they want by car, which is very enviable. If you want to travel by car, both the economic conditions and personal time requirements are relatively generous. Whether it is us who usually go to work or some entrepreneurs, we have to be busy for work and life, and we don't have so much free time to travel by car.

If you are traveling, you will spend a few days on holidays at most. But like this aunt, having so much time to go out and live the life she wants is very leisurely and enviable.

3. It is sometimes not convenient to travel by car alone, so you should take care of yourself while enjoying yourself. In general, if you go out by car, you have a few friends together, so you can take care of each other. After all, we are away from home, and many places are very foreign environments for us.

Whether it's eating, lodging, or playing, if not, family and friends take care of each other, sometimes it can seem lonely. Therefore, when a person goes out for a road trip, he should still take care of himself.

What do you think about road trips?