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Like is when you appreciate someone and have a crush on him. Love has more depth than like. I think love should include the following:
1.Admire. Or rather, love.
It's that he has something in him that attracts you, such as his good character, such as he is smart, such as he is talented, that is, why you like him. 2.Understand.
No matter what he says, you can understand what he meant; Whatever he does, you can understand. Even if you don't understand, you'll think, "I believe he has his own reasons"3Trust.
To love someone, you have to believe in him, no matter what he says or does, firmly believe in them. 4.In the tank.
Even if the whole world doesn't approve of him, you have to support him to give him confidence and strength. This is called "the power of love". 5.
Treasure. It is often said that "you know how to cherish after you lose", why? Because you don't love him when you have him!
6.Protection. Or rather care.
When we fall in love with someone, we will do anything to make him happy, and we are willing to protect him and not let anyone bully him.
It can be seen that in addition to "appreciation", other aspects are the responsibilities that we are willing to fulfill when we fall in love with someone. So, love is not only about liking, but more importantly about responsibility! When you say the words "I love you", it means that you are willing to be responsible for him!
That's the difference between liking and loving.
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True love is like water, that is the truth after the veil of love has faded and experienced the ups and downs of life, for people who have not paid or have not received true love, true love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no gorgeous words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it, love is so plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart.
Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is blending rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness, love is a lifelong thing...
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The meaning of love: listen, obligate, valued, xcuse, this is the true meaning of love, when you really love someone, you will give willingly.
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If only you knew one
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1. Love. Han Yu in the Tang Dynasty "The Teacher Said": "Love his son, choose a teacher and teach him." ”
Translation: People love their children, so they choose teachers to teach them.
2. Honey; Beloved.
Li Chaowei's "Biography of Liu Yi": "I saw that the king loved his daughter and shepherded sheep in the wild. ”
Translation: I saw the king's beloved daughter shepherding sheep in the wilderness.
3. Love. Sima Qian's "Chen Shi Family" in the Han Dynasty: "Wu Guangsu loves people, and most of the soldiers are users. ”
Wu Guang has always loved others, and many of the soldiers are willing to listen to his dispatches.
4. Pity; Sympathize.
Zuo Qiu Ming of the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, "Zuo Chuan: The Twenty-second Year of the Duke of Xu": "If love is seriously injured, then don't be injured." ”
If compassion is hurt, don't hurt.
5. Love. Southern Song Dynasty Wen Tianxiang "Afterword to the Guidebook": "At this point, the state affairs are so far, I can't love my body." ”
Translation: The state affairs have reached such a point that I can't take care of myself.
6. Stingy. Pre-Qin Mencius's "The Affair of Qi Huan and Jin Wen": "How can I love Yifeng? ”
Translation: Why am I stingy?
7. Hobbies. Du Mu of the Tang Dynasty "A Fang Gong Fu": "Qin loves luxury, and people also miss the same family." ”
Translation: Qin Shi Huang loved prosperity and luxury, and people also thought of the common family.
Love to obey] willingly obeyed.
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1 The first level of love: satisfying one's own needs.
2 The second level of love: "self-righteous" giving.
What he thinks is good – in fact others don't like it at all and won't appreciate it – feels that others don't know how to appreciate his efforts.
Paternal love (I love you not all for your good).
3 The third level of love: satisfying the needs of the other person.
So, want true love? Want to be a person with a high ability to love?
Answer: Then don't blindly give, always pay what the other person needs and meet the other person, and don't forget to always tell the other person what you want, like, and want, and also point out the direction for how the other person loves you.
1 The first level of love: satisfying one's own needs.
If you have the other person, you will be happy, and without the other party, you will be miserable, which shows that you need the other person to be happy and happy, and it can show that the other person is the person who can meet your needs, and it cannot prove that you love each other, because love is not just about need. If you have to say that this is love, then this is only the lowest form of love! Or a lower level.
Because this is essentially loving oneself, one's own needs for each other, and hoping to be with each other to meet one's own needs and make oneself happier.
2 The second level of love: "self-righteous" giving.
What he thinks is good – in fact others don't like it at all and won't appreciate it – feels that others don't know how to appreciate his efforts.
Paternal love (I love you not all for your good).
The first kind of love is like this: I think Western food is delicious, so I work hard to learn the practice of Western food, and make Western food for my lover every day, but my lover doesn't appreciate it, because my lover loves braised pork the most.
The first type of love is that parents ask their children to do what they think is right, ignoring their children's feelings and wishes. It seems to be love, but in essence, it is controlling the child in the name of love.
Such a person is better than the former type, the former type of person only loves himself, such a person has the will to love the other person in his heart, and wants to do something for the other person, not just let the other person satisfy himself. But because they do what they think is good, not from the perspective of what the other party needs, it is difficult for the other party to receive it. Such people usually end up with one conclusion:
Say that the other party does not know how to be grateful.
3 The third level of love: satisfying the needs of the other person.
Everything you do for the other party is based on the needs of the other party, not your own "self-righteousness". In fact, this is not just the way to love each other in a love relationship, this is the principle of our relationship with everyone and the world, if we want to do something for others, it must be based on the needs of the other person. Such a contribution is easy to be received by the other party, and over time, both parties will store a lot of gratitude to each other in their hearts.
So, want true love? Do you want to be a person with high ability to love?
Answer: Then don't blindly give, you should always carefully experience what the other person needs and meet the other person, and at the same time, don't forget to always tell the other person what you want, what you like, what you want, and also point out how the other person loves you.
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Like usually includes appreciation, love, pity, affection, admiration, admiration and other six layers of slow meaning, but the meaning of love is the most commonly used.
1. Appreciation: refers to appreciating and appreciating, and also refers to thinking that it is good and liking.
2. Love: Feelings arising from the love of certain things.
3. Compassion: refers to the pity and love for a person, focusing on the love for the other person.
4. Love: have a good impression or interest in people or things.
5. Admiration: refers to admiration, that is, worshipping a good person.
6. Admiration: refers to respect and admiration.
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Love is trust, tolerance, understanding, support.
Love is the heartbeat of the first encounter.
Love is a hundred turns and thousands of times and still worry.
Love is the comfort of counting the stars with you at night.
Love is meticulous care.
Love is an all-powerful way to bear and give.
Love is a vigorous mixed feeling affair.
Love is tinkering in bumps.
Love is the boundless longing in front of the window in a foreign land.
Love is the happiness that can be relied on in the distant city.
Love is a hot cup of coffee on a cold winter night.
Love is a smile full of smiles for you when the spring flowers bloom.
Love is the joy of having you in the cup!
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Love refers to the affection that is liked to a very deep degree, and then the person pays for it. True love will definitely bring about spiritual growth, and anything that does not bring growth is not love. Whether you love yourself or others, if you don't try to contribute to the maturity of your mind, then it is not love.
Love in the true sense of the word is a long-term and gradual process. Whether it is homosexuality, heterosexuality, the love of parents, relatives, or friends is a kind of self-improvement, which means that the mind is constantly maturing, and we must continue to learn and grow, and break through our own boundaries. Therefore, the ultimate purpose of love is to be able to help others improve, and it will also make oneself more mature.
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Love is incomprehensible, and everyone knows it.
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There are ten different levels of love, and I will introduce them to you below. Like,I like it, another person has a certain quality that I like, or maybe it's because he did something and made it like it. AttachmentThere are two kinds of attachment, one is missing, when you are not together, thinking of him, repeatedly remembering the happiness of being with him, and the other is the urge to continue with him, always wanting to find him.
The degree of difference between the two, the latter is more intense. OccupyYes,A certain degree of attachment creates possessiveness. TransactionsTransaction means that in order to make the other person like me in order to achieve the goal of monopolizing the other person, I am willing to do something to make him happy, so that he will be with me voluntarily and not forced.
Repay,Gratitude is a reward. I benefited from others and now give it back to himThe other person may not ask for anything in return, but my return will definitely bring him happiness and make him more willing to be with me.
AttentionTrue love is an "abundance of needs" characterized by giving and being happy in the process of giving. EmpathyWe should not only pay attention to each other's every move, but also pay attention to and understand his inner feelings, is he unhappy? Why not be happy?
What are his troubles? What kind of help does he need? This is "empathy".
There is no empathy without attention.
In the tank. , everyone is willing to do something for their beloved, and if it is done to make the other person love themselves more, it is a transaction; If it's done just to make the other person happy and don't ask for anything in return, that's true love. In other words, love is unpaid service, voluntary labor, satisfied by giving, without the need for additional compensation. Help can be material or spiritual.
Spiritual help is emotional support.
Devotion,Another manifestation of dedication is respect, trust, tolerance, and acceptance. Believing that the other person is capable of handling his own affairs, his decision must be correct; Even if it's wrong, it's his decision and I have to respect him. Some of his views may differ from mine, but I can accommodate him and accept him.
Harmony, no dedication, no self-sacrifice, no need to give, no need to return. Two people come together, you have me, I have you, you are me, I am you. Your happiness is my happiness.
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I know that there are two kinds, one is love and can't be, and the other is love and have.
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The lowest level is liking, but simply having a good feeling, not in-depth understanding.
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I know that there is a kind of love, and that is to let go for the sake of love.
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I do know, look at how much you love, how to look at it?
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Two layers, love others, others love you.
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Don't review, as long as you tolerate each other.
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There are many meanings, depending on which one you ask.
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