Why do you find a partner, why do you go to great lengths to get someone s attention?

Eventually, people need to start a family. Because their parents can't accompany them forever, they usually leave this world before themselves. Brothers and sisters will also start their own families, so if they are not married by that time and they are old, then there will be no one by their side, and sometimes they will indeed feel a little lonely and desolate.

Although it is said that marriage is not necessarily happy. But at least there is a relative. It doesn't necessarily mean that you have to go out of your way to get someone's attention, some people just want to be very low-key and find someone they love to be with, so not all of them are so high-profile.

But dealing with a partner, that's a very common phenomenon, because if you don't find a partner, how can you get married? So I will be the same in the future. Some people feel that living alone now feels very chic, but when they are older, then they will understand some truths, people always need to have a loved one by their side, and they will leave this world when they are old in the future, and there are also people who help them take care of their funeral.

I think it's normal and understandable for people to have this thought. Otherwise, if everyone does not get married, then how can the ancients continue to the present.

Let me talk about my current experience.

I didn't have a desperate desire to find a partner before. I've always been single, but now I'm starting to find a partner.

At first, I realized that I needed to find a partner, because the master's students around me also began to enter the social age, they gradually began to enter marriage in the past year and a half, just in the past six months, my circle of friends, QQ space, often have marriage certificates, wedding photos, wedding photos, show boyfriends, show husbands, show children. This is a very obvious trend, that is, most of my classmates and friends have begun to enter marriage and start another stage of life.

It's not uncomfortable to watch other people's shows, and the most uncomfortable thing is probably that you will find that your former friends and classmates are gradually moving away from you in life. Once a friend of the opposite sex has a partner, it is not in contact, and once a friend of the same sex has a partner, it is often impossible to remember you.

All in all, you will gradually be forgotten by everyone, and even if you struggle to contact them, no matter how close you used to be, you will eventually feel sad because you find that you are no longer the center of other people's lives, because you feel that they no longer need you in their lives, and you will gradually not want to contact them. At this time, as long as your heart is fragile for even a second, it will produce a sense of loneliness that you are alone in this world.

Therefore, why do you need to find a partner, probably to find a companion for your lonely soul and share each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows. When they want to talk, there are still people who are willing to calm down and listen carefully.