When you off someone you like?

Whatever the reason, it would be very sad to hear such words at the time, and it would be very worthless for yourself.

When two people are together, men are usually more generous, and if a man says such things at every turn, what does a woman think?

1. There is no way to live a life.

2. I really regret finding someone like you.

3. You have changed, and you are not as good as you were at the beginning.

My husband said something like this right in front of me, no matter what the cause of the matter is, a man doesn't think about a woman, these words are mostly about women, but women don't say it, then men are too stingy.

Any idea what I told him? It's like this: "You've said something like this a few times, you may think it's nothing, but I can't stand it, if you really think you can't get by, then solve it now, if you think it's going on, don't say it next time."

Women don't say this, what do you say as a man".

If you really like him, believe that it is angry words, unless, you agree with his angry words.

First, reflect on what you have said and done to him. Then, apologize to him. No matter who is wrong first, he must have hurt him, so he said such things.

He explains that it is a momentary speech, but you also have to tell him how you feel when you hear it, tell him how you feel. But don't use a theoretical tone, just talk to him.

I think this kind of thing is really hurtful, tell him not to say it easily in the future, you say it because you care.

Anyone who likes to brush Douyin will know that there is such a dialogue in Douyin, where a man asks a woman: "Do you like me?" "Woman:

like", the man asked again: "Then do you like others?" "Woman:

I don't like it", and the man said, "Then you're still angry with me?" "At this time, the woman's was very unexpected:

If I like you, I will be angry with you! ”

Indeed, the more people like you, the more they will make you angry, this is a truth, and no couple can be surprised.

Because the person who loves you, she will care about you a lot, and when she stays by your side, she always wants to get your attention, so she will do a lot of things to attract you, and if she does too many things, she will naturally go wrong and make you angry.

Someone who really loves you, she will be afraid of being ignored by you, so she always does something incredible out of nothing to make you feel that she has changed and become different from before.

The person who loves you, in order to enhance the relationship with you, will get along with you with the most authentic side, so in daily life, you will see a lot of her bad side, and you will feel angry about it.

In fact, gentleness and politeness are reserved for strangers, the person who really loves you, she can't be so gentle with you, being together all day long, facing the trivial things of life, it is inevitable that you will be compared.

When you don't really understand, you will feel that she is very gentle, and after a long time together, you will feel that everything has changed, and she doesn't seem to be like her before.

In fact, she has really changed, she cares more and more about you, and loves you more and more, so the person who loves you will easily make you angry.

When anyone likes someone else, they will find a way to get the attention of the other party, just like the second female in many idol dramas, if they like the male lead, they will do a lot of things to gain the favor of men.

But if it's a wrong performance, so many injustices will kill themselves, so many female second women framed the female protagonist and did a lot of bad things, and in the end there was no good ending, not only the male protagonist would hate her very much, but even the people around her would not like her, so she became notorious.

Many times, the more people like you, the easier it is for her to make you angry, because she cares too much about you and wants to get more attention from you, so she will be out of her control when she does a lot of things, and there is a feeling of going crazy for you.

Each of us wants to be able to be with the person we like.

Because it is very happy and happy to be with the person you like. In this way, we will be able to have a sweeter love.

In sweet love, boys can take the initiative to care for girls and love girls, and it is under the constant care and love of boys that girls will feel very happy and happy.

In this way, girls are also willing to get along with boys. Let two people be able to better care for each other and love each other in their daily interactions, which will make the love between two people sweeter.

But even so, although love is very beautiful, although we are with the person we like, getting along is a very happy and happy thing. However, after a long time of interaction between people, some problems will inevitably occur.

So a lot of people are worried. If you are with someone you really like, will you get angry with us if something goes wrong?

Actually, this is a very normal thing. You must know that getting along with people will inevitably cause some misunderstandings or frictions. Even if our parents have been together for a long time, they will have all kinds of problems, and occasionally there will be some disputes, in fact, there are not terrible problems, as long as we can solve things well, so that we can be together and get along more harmoniously.

So when we have some problems with the person we like, then we should be better with each other and solve the problem. Resolve it as soon as possible. Because the other party likes me very much?

Because they like me so much, even when there are some problems between the two of us, I believe he will definitely be able to come to us as soon as possible. Then two people will be together, and mutual communication and communication It is through such mutual exchange and communication that we can better solve the problem.

Sometimes, even if we have some misunderstandings with the people we really like, we are very angry with each other. Because the other person really likes us. People who like us, he will definitely take the initiative to ease the atmosphere at the first time, and he will show his sincerity to care about us and love us.

It is his constant care and love, and it is also under the mutual understanding and support of the two of them, that the two of them will be able to solve things better. This will also allow us to have a happier and sweeter love with the person we like.

Many people think that they are angry because someone else has provoked them? Do people make you angry? A closer look at the details reveals the truth.

First of all, what did others mess with you? Dignity, self-confidence, and so on, whatever it is, must have touched a very sensitive place, so you are in pain or very uncomfortable, so you must fight back, in the form of anger and accusation. So, a quarrel arose.

Many times, we confuse ourselves with other people, with things, and get entangled in them. Whether or not to provoke you is someone else's business, and whether someone else makes you angry or whether you think someone else really wants to make you angry are two completely different things. To be angry or not to be angry, how to choose is your own business, and a person really can't decide your own affairs because of other people's affairs.

If you belong to the "two kicks", others will definitely go to heaven when they ignite the fire; If you are a "bomb", then you will definitely be ignited**.

So, are these "two kicks" and "bombs" attributes of people coming from? Can the phrase "I was born this way" make sense? I'm afraid not. I think there are three main scenarios:

1. One is oversensitivity. Most of these "two kicks" and "bombs" were not treated well when they were children, and they developed a sensitivity that would hurt when they touched it. This kind of sensitivity that hurts as soon as it is touched has always been there, and it is wrapped in good care by yourself, because it hurts too much and is too uncomfortable, so once you are mentioned and touched, you will think that it is someone else's violation of yourself, and you will be angry and depressed with yourself, and you will be angry and blamed with others.

Therefore, when it comes to getting angry, you play the main role, and others in the outside world are just the fuse.

2. The second type is unreasonable expectations. The more right and wrong, right and wrong, are indoctrinated in the mind, the less tolerant the world becomes. Therefore, you have to correct what you think is not right, and you have to save people from fire and water.

Imagine what would happen to two people who had diametrically opposed understandings of right and wrong in the world? Or, the strife is constant and endless; Or, respect each other and go our separate ways.

3. The third is comparison. When others are better than you, you will have many psychological distortions such as anger, low self-esteem, jealousy, etc., which are difficult to detect and control; Even if you are aware of it at times, it is difficult to break through the shackles. Comparing this thing is not bad, but to see who you compare with, if you compare with yourself, it will make yourself better and better; If you compare yourself with others, you will get worse and worse.

In fact, if you compare yourself with yourself, you are angry that you are not good enough and don't work hard enough, it's nothing, but you have to tell yourself that "anger hurts your body".

There are some more clever options, that is, not to fall into the "trap" of anger, you can say to "angry": "Fuck your uncle, Lao Tzu has more things to do, and I don't have time to get along with the matter of being angry."