What kind of boy will make you feel low?

I hate that kind of angry youth, that is, a boy who is dark and gloomy in his heart, who can't see the good of others, and he doesn't work hard, and at the same time he says bad things about others behind his back.

People who dress sloppily, eat lazily, and don't speak in tune will make people feel unmotivated and low.

People who are seriously slammed have extremely low quality and taste, and they are not pleasing to the eye.

The first is to dress, sloppy, the second is unkempt, and there is not self-motivated.

Low quality, no manners, and scolding at every turn, such a boy is very offensive.

I have a classmate. Sometimes when I meet him, he greets him warmly, and sometimes he doesn't seem to see me. I always thought he really didn't see it.

Until one day, I saw him and a girl standing on the side of the road talking, and then I went over and they were just separated, and he said to me, "What do you think that girl looks like" and I said, "It's okay" and he said:

She's chasing me" I said, "What do you think" He: "I've been struggling for a long time, I don't think it's good looking, and it's shameless to take it out, but today she's dressed up well, so I'm willing to stand on the side of the road and talk to her" I was shocked beyond words, and I suddenly understood why he sometimes greeted me and sometimes pretended not to see me.

Last year, I joined a city foodie group, most of the group are foodies, and we usually exchange good food and other breaks. Then there is a boy in the group, who is very active, what others say, even if it has nothing to do with him, he loves to answer, sometimes no one talks to him, he also likes to send an expression or something. At the time, I was thinking about how idle he was.

Later, one day, I found that someone added me as a friend in WeChat, and when I looked at the avatar, it turned out to be this gentleman. I was a thin-skinned person, and I was embarrassed to refuse someone, so I added him. Then this classmate started chatting with me.

He belongs to the kind of person who can't talk a lot, at first he checked his household registration, then sent good morning every day, and then recalled the events of his middle school days for a long time. Even if I don't reply to him, it won't dampen his enthusiasm in the slightest. Later, a few girls in our group had an offline party, and when we chatted, we talked about this person, and I was surprised to find that he almost added a few of our ***, and to everyone else.

After discussion, we agreed that this gentleman is low, and the low wears the floor.

Everyone is in their early 20s, and there is inevitably a possibility of being influenced by society and admiring vanity. But if a boy is particularly vain, it will make people feel very, very low. It is true that men are judged by money and power in society.

But don't reflect on your own shortcomings and improve them, such as qualities, abilities, or values. It's just measured by money, and it's really very low. For example, a certain senior, the family level is very average.

I don't mean to discriminate, I'll be honest. In front of his classmates, he has to support the scene, such as taking everyone to a place with high consumption, and borrowing money to slap a swollen face and become fat. The degree of food and clothing should be the best, and the apple three-piece set will always feel that I am not bad for money.

But what is particularly ironic is that when he says what brand he wears, you can't bear to say it for a long time, you think this is a normal level of consumption, but this kind of vanity will make girls very disgusted.

People who are inexplicably confident can come across as arrogant. For example, many of the boys in the business department where the respondent is located are very eloquent and have a strong ability to communicate with people. However, they generally lack real technical or professional skills.

Please, don't excuse yourself, I'm a good learner, okay? Do people really know that they are moved by themselves? What you need is to build up your professional skills in the same way as in science and engineering, which is why I don't like to see a guy who talks about business and has no bottom of it.

Comparatively speaking, I think that the kind of people who do practical things in science and engineering are far better than these pompous people.

When I was a child, my classmates were not admitted to high school because of their poor grades in junior high school. When I was a sophomore in high school, he got married, and his family gave birth to three girls in a row, and he often beat and scolded the children at every turn, and commanded his wife, and finally his wife ran away with the only few hundred yuan in the family. Because I was young when I got married, I didn't have a marriage certificate, so there was no divorce procedure.

After his wife ran away, he never found a partner, so his three daughters became a punching bag, and he always thought that it was because of these three children that he was not easy to find a partner. He now eats, sleeps, and surfs the Internet at home every day, and his family is poor to death, and his sister borrowed money to help him build a building in his hometown to facilitate his second marriage, but he went to other towns and villages to gamble during the Spring Festival and lost the building. Now the family is crammed into his parents' small house of less than 10 square meters.

He still eats, drinks, and plays, and dislikes that his parents don't provide good food. When I came home on holidays, I met him, and I picked up my pockets and bags with my hands and feet, and looked for cigarettes to smoke.

Boys have a wide heart because of the expectations given by society, so once you are careful, it is easy for people to think that you are particularly obscene. Hehe, when a senior was pursuing, all the expenses were paid by me at the beginning? Even later?

He said I'll treat you to dinner, OK, I didn't bring a wallet, you can have this meal. I'll talk to you about life, okay, you pay. It really makes people think you're low.

I don't mind AA when men and women are dating, but this kind of deception is really not very moral.

I went into the store and bought a bottle of perfume, cheap perfume, 25 yuan. Said to be used for my girlfriend, when I was about to wrap the perfume, he tore off the price tag and forced me to relabel him with a 98, which I refused. Then he was very unhappy and muttered away.

Because I was more impressed by his behavior, I recognized him as soon as he came the next day, and I wanted to return it, because the confession failed, and the person was not his girlfriend. I rejected it again, and shouted in the store at noon, with the psychology of sending him away quickly, and after leaving, I picked up the perfume and saw that it was already a third less. After that, he came to buy mascara again, and it was also a price tag for me to change the ** position, so I asked him to leave directly and was blacklisted in the store.

The boys who make me feel low to explosive should be the following:

1. Pick flowers and grass everywhere.

This kind of scumbag has a deep routine, and he is very good to girls, and he is considerate and nuanced, and he is simply a peerless warm man. But when you are really familiar with him, you will find that his one is not called considerate, but a routine.

It's basically the same good for every girl.,There's no bad word in what you say.。 I don't know the same small gifts** wholesale, basically the girls he flirts with are the same, and the colors are too lazy to change.

This kind of man changes girlfriends very frequently, and he often changes the next one after playing for a few days without success, and then changes the next one when he has had enough.

2. There is not a word of truth in the mouth.

Relying on high emotional intelligence to flirt with girls, not to mention a hundred shots, the success rate is also admirable. It is often the beginning of the friendship that begins to vow a sea alliance, promising an ethereal and beautiful future.

If you believe this kind of thing, you really fall for it. Their skills are all in words, and it is really difficult for him to put it into action.

3. When you are lonely, you flirt with your sister.

When you chat with this kind of man, you don't have a reliable word, basically just chatting with you to pass the time. And he never talks well, he will tease you, but he will never confess to you seriously.

You seem to be interested in him, but he's always on the go, and if you look for him when he's busy, he'll ignore you.

In his heart, you are the person who doesn't matter at all, and one day when you get tired of chatting with you, you will be replaced.

4. I don't care about my girlfriend.

This kind of man basically only uses dim sum when he pursues a woman, and he doesn't care so much when he catches it. Usually I basically ignore it, and my girlfriend says that the most uncomfortable is to let the family drink more hot water. I didn't say that I took the initiative to buy some medicine and send it over, which was not considerate at all.

On the contrary, if they are not feeling well, they will ask their girlfriends to come over and take care of themselves immediately. I complained a little later, as if my girlfriend became my little slave when she chased after her.

5. Often compare other people's girlfriends.

I always feel that other people's girlfriends are better, and let my girlfriends learn from others every day. Look at how considerate other people's girlfriends are, see that other people's girlfriends never want this and that, look at other people's girlfriends ......

It seems that his girlfriend is good for nothing, and everything is good for others.

But other people's girlfriends are so good, why are you still with your own girlfriends, why don't you change them?

There are a few types of guys that make me feel low to the point of exploding.

The first type is especially those who have never seen the world, those who have no knowledge and no opinions when interacting with people.

Although everyone has different opportunities to see the outside world, I personally feel that if a boy still has to get in touch with some new things, go out more to see the outside world, and have more social life experience, then his horizons will also be broadened, and he will not be too narrow when encountering things or communicating with people.

I have to say how much you walk will have a high vision, if a man just sees an acre and a third of land in front of him, only guarding a little bit of small things he has now and does not want to forge ahead, he will not attract the attention of girls at all, and his circle of friends will become very narrow, a boy only has a very broad vision, even if you have not been to some places, but also more contact with new things, so that you can express your opinions when communicating and communicating with people.

The second type is to pay special attention to money, regardless of whether you are really poor or not, but treat yourself and your friends and relatives very hard, which will make people feel very low.

Money is very important to everyone, but if a boy takes money very seriously, not only treats himself very hard, but also treats relatives and friends very calculating and deducting, at least his interpersonal relationship will be very bad. If a boy has limited economic conditions, we can save some relatively, the province must not be wasted, but must not be picky, if a boy leaves a very picky impression, whether you are making friends or falling in love or colleagues to get along these will be very difficult. It will not be welcomed by everyone.

Third, I personally hate the kind of people who are very hypocritical and like to brag, and who are not very capable of themselves but like to boast about themselves, and I feel that such people are as low as clowns.

There are some boys in order to show themselves, deliberately exaggerate some things or make something out of nothing, in fact, everyone has something or what they have experienced, as long as they inquire can know, there is no need to deliberately put gold on their faces or boast about themselves, and even some excessive bragging is to brag about how good they are, I personally feel that such a person is like a clown in a solo performance, which makes people very annoying, in fact, if a person is full of heart, it will not be a very exaggerated person, Only the kind of person who has an empty heart will deliberately put gold on his face. People still have to be down-to-earth and better, and be sincere, and everyone will be very comfortable.

1. The clothes are not clean and there are no clothes.

The clothes are always dirty, sloppy! It makes people look uncomfortable, there is no trace of clothing, you must know that clothing can reflect a person's taste and cultivation.

2. Don't shave.

I saw that some people had beards, which looked very chic and unique. He also learns to grow beards from others, he knows that his temperament and clothing do not match the beard at all, and he has no accumulation of cultural heritage, so don't easily learn from others, it is best to clean up and tidy yourself.

3. The two nostrils are showing nose hair, which looks really disgusting.

I've lived for decades, and I don't know that there is a nose hair trimmer for sale, buying a nose hair trimmer and shaving your nose hair from time to time can solve this problem.

4. On the bus, in the subway, and other workplaces, the sound of the mobile phone is played, which is quite loud.

This is really annoying, everyone will often encounter it in life, I really don't know what such people think, can't you bring a headphone?

5. A man who picks the door too much.

When eating alone with a woman, let the woman go to the checkout.

Today's young people are more accustomed to the AA system, even if everyone is willing to AA system, you can follow the crowd.

In any case, you and the woman eat alone, and the woman cannot be asked to pay alone.

6. Don't know how to respect women.

Regardless of the occasion, in front of girls and boys, tell pornographic jokes and make inappropriate jokes with girls.