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I think sometimes I feel a bit of a loss after working in a position for five years without a salary increase

Seeing that the people who changed jobs were getting better, but they still received so much salary, I felt that I was at a loss, and I thought back to why I didn't change jobs in the first place and pursue a better job.

Every time it was time to get paid, I was in a state of collapse, wondering why I didn't change jobs in the first place, and if I had done so, I would never have been paid this salary now.

It's that once I encountered a problem, I was very broken and regretted, why I didn't choose to change jobs in the first place, and now I have to stay in this broken company and continue to work.

My own salary has always been at a level, and there has not been a big increase, and the relationship between my colleagues is also very average, and some people are very malicious towards me.

I have been doing this job for more than ten years, although there are many times in the middle of the job, but after all, I did not leave, the most devastating thing is that I was almost laid off when facing layoffs, and the company did not consider the contribution I have made over the years.

I feel that I have paid a lot for this company, but I have not been treated well, and I have not been treated well, and I feel very tired when I work overtime every day.

Working for five years is really long, and you will encounter all kinds of people and things at work, such as not paying salaries, not giving you holidays, and making you work overtime, which is really speechless.

In the face of the company's difficulties, and the sudden situation of some companies, some problems, not their own mistakes, but also scolded dogs, and have to solve these problems.

At this time, because you are very familiar with the working environment, you repeat the boring life every day, you feel very tired and have no fun, so you have to change jobs.

I insisted on not changing jobs for more than 5 years, and the most devastating situation I encountered was that I worked overtime for three days in a row, ate and slept directly in the company, and slept no more than 5 hours a day.

insisted on not changing jobs for more than five years, but there was no salary increase, no promotion, and I struggled for a long time, but I didn't make up my mind to change jobs, because I was worried that the next job was not as good as this.

Today, I will answer to you about working for three or five years and not changing jobs, is it strange?

I think you should jump ship, but I doubt you'll have the courage to do so. Everyone expects their income to meet their family life and their career to develop on a good track. However, in real life, life often has a hard time meeting people's desires.

When faced with difficulties at work, it can be a tangled matter to persist or leave. When the income from work is not enough to meet the needs of life, it is inevitable to feel uneasy. I'm at this awkward stage of the title.

Although I don't like my job, my income is relatively stable.

But when there are old people and villains in this world, my salary has not risen for several years, and it is unlikely that it will rise for a long time in the future. I've always felt very entangled in my heart. I want to quit my job, but I don't know what to do, and I'm not sure if I can find a more stable and higher-paying job.

But if we persevere, the job will no longer meet the needs of life. Financial stress brings mental stress, and the end of life is unsettling. At this stage of life, no matter which direction you go, there is no bottom in your heart.

I think you should change jobs, but not according to your actual situation. For a person over the age of 30, the salary income is not increasing, in fact means that it is declining. Hard work is no longer enough for a better life, and there seems to be no better option than quitting.

But every family has its own difficulties, and everyone's actual situation is different. If you are still burdened with a mortgage and car loan, if you still have children to raise, I don't know if you have the courage to quit your job and start over, and if you are ready for a difficult time. It is up to you to decide based on your actual situation, and you need to make your own choice.

It may be a difficult choice, but you are responsible for your own life after all. Of course, everyone understands the truth, but in this case, entanglement is inevitable. I'm like that now, I'm not sure if I want to quit, but I don't seem to have the courage to quit.

It is not surprising, this shows that the development in the company is very good, and I am also very satisfied with the current working environment, salary and treatment are very satisfied, so I will not change jobs.

It's not surprising that if this company has what you want, can learn new skills, and has opportunities for development, you feel that you can be satisfied and competent to work, and it is okay to work steadily for a long time.

It is normal to work for three or five years before changing jobs, and it is not surprising that it is normal to choose to change jobs when you encounter a better company and a better development space.

I don't think it's strange that 35 years of work will not change jobs, some people have worked in a position for a lifetime, done a lot of great things, and made a lot of miracles that others can't imagine, I feel that the solution is not a miracle produced by job hopping, for anyone, it is a loss to their career, there is no legitimate reason, I advise you not to choose.

It is actually very normal to work for three or five years without changing jobs, and it is not surprising at all, if you are comfortable in the existing working environment and atmosphere, and there is enough room for improvement, then there is no need to change jobs.

It's not surprising that you won't change jobs after working for 3 to 5 years, because you must be doing a good job and enjoying yourself in this company, so you won't choose to change jobs.

It's not surprising, I think it's probably because I'm used to a stable life and don't like job hopping, so I don't think it's strange.

It's impossible not to regret it!

If you think about it from the perspective of personal development, you should spend more time on work, because work itself is a good learning process, put yourself in the process of work, and the process will lead you to grow and improve. Similarly, if you're happy with the job now and have a good future prospects, focus on your work. The times are changing, the market is changing, and the technology is upgrading, which makes us feel uncertain all the time.

Only when we keep up with the trend and have the ability to make the tide will we not be eliminated.

In other words, if your current job is what you have wanted for a long time and that is your interest, then it is meaningless. You can achieve your dreams, gain recognition, and improve your life through work, which are all the meaning of work.

You don't have to be like this for the rest of your life, but you have to have a period of time (about 3 years) when compared to your almost 35 years of working life.

Judging from my personal growth experience, there is no shortcut in life, and the harvest of other people's filial piety that you see is not formed overnight, but a process of accumulation.

The other day, when I was consulting with a client, I gave an example of wheat. In our hometown, wheat is sown after October every year. After October, the weather will only get colder and colder.

After the wheat sprouts, it grows a few leaves, but it is only 10 centimeters high, and it is very weak, and it has to meet the coming winter, including the coldest time of the year.

During the long winter, the leaves of wheat do not grow and can even freeze. If the weather is dry, you see the green layer of wheat on the surface, but the leaves are already dry, and they will crush if you pinch them with your hands.

But, don't worry. When spring arrives in March of the following year, these wheats will grow rapidly, tiller, and turn from a weak seedling into several seedlings, or even a dozen seedlings, and then tassel and fill until they mature, which only takes 3 months.

To sow one mu of wheat, no more than 10 kg of seeds are needed at most, and the yield per mu is generally 500 kg after maturity. The output is 50 times the input. The core key to achieving such a high input-output ratio lies in the coldest three months of winter.

At that time, although the leaves did not grow and were even freeze-dried, the roots of the wheat were still growing slowly in the ground and growing into a large patch. In this way, when spring comes, they will have enough roots to absorb nutrients, and they will complete their life's mission in 3 months. These three months are the coldest and most difficult moments, but they are also the most important moments.

The same is true for human growth. Whatever you want to gain, you have to put in the hard work and effort to deal with it (except in the case of family wealth inheritance or other fortuitous outbreaks). Even if it is practiced deliberately, it takes 10,000 hours to become a talent.

If you want to achieve more than 90% of the results, you have to work so hard for a period of time that it takes root like wheat to ensure that the nutrients are absorbed in order to ensure that you can harvest later.