What should parents do when they see others criticizing their children?

If he is malicious and his criticism is too vicious and hurts my child's self-esteem, then I will definitely scold him back, and if the other party is more excessive, I will definitely beat him back, and then go home and educate my own child.

In this case, it is very likely that your child has done something wrong, so let your child apologize to the other party, and you can also apologize to the other party, which can be regarded as leading by example.

He should be stopped from doing this, if his child is not protected, then it will make the child feel chilled, and gradually lose trust in the mother, say goodbye to him as soon as possible, and pull the child away.

When I see others criticizing my child, as a parent, I should ask others to apologize to my child, because his behavior will leave a very big psychological shadow on my child, which is not conducive to my child's growth.

I will stop it, because I feel that my child should be criticized by me, unless it is his teacher, I will educate him better, and I will not let others help me educate him.

In general, I will first look at what the situation is, if the incident has happened, I will take the child out of this environment as soon as possible, and carry out corresponding reflection and education after being appeased, always give priority to standing by the child's side, the sense of security given by the parents is the best education, and reasoning is after that.

If your child is wrong, and it affects the person who criticizes, and he criticizes it in a measured and reasonable way, then let him criticize, nothing, let the child know the consequences of doing something wrong.

Parents should also remind their children according to the content of education, and it can prevent children from making the same mistakes, which has a preventive effect on children.

Parents must speak for their children at this time, and they must stand in front of their children, and then prove to their children, so that they can protect their children.

At this time, you must protect your children, if the other party is right, you can agree with it, if not, then you must protect your children.

Parents should ask about the cause of the incident. If it's really a child's problem, then accept criticism from others.

See if the criticism is correct, if the criticism is really reasonable, then parents should not speak out, and then tell the child that if he is not obedient, not only parents will criticize, but even outsiders will criticize.

Parents should protect their children and protect their children's mental health, so parents should reason with others.

You should keep your child away from this kind of person, encourage your child yourself, and let your child know that your parents are very supportive of your behavior.

As a parent, you should protect your child, don't let others over-evaluate and criticize your child, and solve the problem from the child's standpoint.

Some outsiders are really annoying, I have a good friend, because we have different views on education, it turns out that when we play together, she always uses her educational concept to suppress me, and she likes to look at my child from her point of view, my child is only two years old, because she is naughty she says "barbaric". He also criticized me for the wrong way of raising my children, and then tried to avoid not playing together.

There is also a mother in the same community who is also like this, Liang teases my child and her child are the same age, they play together when they are very young, and she just likes to train my children. Sometimes it's not my child's fault, but she still protects her child and scares my child, and she yells at her, and then we don't play together often.

So what should parents do when their children are criticized by other parents, or even labeled by other parents?

As parents, we should immediately stop each other's behavior, and immediately take over the matter of teaching the child, and we must handle this matter ourselves, which is an important principle of family education.

Never leave homeschooling to someone else, such as a babysitter, driver, friend, or even someone else's child's parent.

Because their abilities, responsibilities, and even the starting point of the former key group cannot be guaranteed. In particular, their understanding of children is often incomplete, and they cannot teach children from the perspective of children's psychological acceptance.

Of course, you can't help but ask Hui Tangerine, for the sake of the so-called face and fairness, bring guns and sticks to criticize your own children with others. Parents must remember this, remember.

Hello dear, when a child is denied, criticized, and hit by his parents, it will have a great negative impact on the child's self-esteem and self-confidence, limiting the child's growth and personal development. To help your child deal with negative emotions, here are a few suggestions:

1.Listen to the child's voice, understand the child's inner feelings, let the child have the opportunity to express his views and feelings, and let the child feel the attention and support of his parents.

2.Encourage children to express their ideas and imagination, give affirmation and encouragement, help children build healthy self-esteem and self-confidence, enhance children's self-awareness and self-acceptance, and recognize their own strengths and potential.

3.Parents' words and behaviors have a huge influence on children, so avoid using negative words and behaviors such as belittling, criticism, and discrimination in front of children, and maintain a warm, supportive, and encouraging attitude, so that children can feel the love and care of their parents.

4.Parents can encourage their children to try new things and participate in various activities, so that they can get successful experience, cultivate children's self-confidence and motivation, and gradually get rid of negative emotions.

In short, when a child is denied, criticized or hit by parents, parents should patiently understand their child's feelings, treat their child with a positive and warm attitude, and let the child get attention, support and encouragement, so as to help the child establish a healthy attitude and self-confidence.

Summary. There is an old saying in my country, "People teach their children in front of them, and they talk about their wives behind their backs". It means that you must save face for your wife in front of outsiders, but children must be strictly educated.

However, the educational philosophy of today's society emphasizes "respect", especially when it comes to leaving enough self-esteem for children, and despite making mistakes, children need to be taught with respect.

There is an old saying in my country, "People teach their children in front of them, and they talk about their wives behind their backs". It means that you must save face for your wife in front of outsiders, but children must be strictly educated. However, the concept of education in today's society emphasizes "respect", especially when it comes to keeping a cautious eye on children, and they need to educate them with respect despite making mistakes.

However, in society or at home, there are always some people who love to be "nosy" or do not know how to respect to criticize children for themselves. So in the face of these three situations, what should parents do? 1. The child really did something wrong:

It's inevitable that children will be mischievous, and if something like influencing others in public happens, then critics may not be wrong about cultivating this group. At this time, parents should first educate their children and tell them what they should and should not do in public places. Then ask the child to stop picking the code and stop the wrong behavior of the orange and apologize to the other party.

2. Criticism is subjective: There are always some people in society who like to find faults, even if they are children. Usually this kind of language will be subjective, such as disliking the children before the Ming Dynasty did not look good, or arguing with the children about whether there is right or wrong in their opinions.

Then, there is no need to argue with the other party at this time, and the best thing to do is to take the child away from the scene. Just ignore the right and wrong that there is in the dark of those who change the oak.

3. There is no trouble to provoke: If someone misunderstands the child, or puts the charge of making mistakes on the child, they will criticize the child endlessly, and even humiliate the child with words. As a parent, of course, you must understand the situation as soon as possible, if it is really quietly the other party is making trouble, it is also necessary for adults to fight back.

In this case, it is equivalent to the child being bullied, and the most important thing to do as the child's guardian is to protect the child. Therefore, it is necessary to set a good example for the children, uphold justice and protect dignity for the children. Parents need to respond in a firm and unceremonious tone, and for the child, he knows more that weak people cannot be bullied by the front socks, and it will greatly strengthen self-confidence and self-esteem, which will also be of great help to future growth.

Summary. In front of outsiders, no matter how young the children are, they must know that they all have self-esteem, and because the children are still very young, they need their parents to take good care of their self-esteem. If you criticize your child in front of many people, it will not only make your child feel faceless, hurt their self-esteem, and will not want to correct their mistakes, but will want to break the jar and break it, but also may cause the child to have a rebellious psychology and affect the parent-child relationship.

In front of outsiders, no matter how young the children are, they must imitate Zen to know that they all have self-esteem, and because the children are still very young, they need their parents to take good care of their self-surrender and respect. If you criticize your child in front of many people, it will not only make your child feel faceless, but the injured person will greatly cultivate their self-esteem, and will not think about correcting their mistakes, but will want to break the jar and break it, and it may also lead to the child's rebellious psychology and affect the parent-child relationship.

Therefore, if the child makes a mistake, parents should educate the child in a relatively private setting, which not only protects the child's self-esteem, but also corrects the child's mistake in a proper way.

The correct way to criticize children should be these two: 1. Learn to listen to children's explanations because children always have some strange ideas, and sometimes children make mistakes because of their own ideas, so parents must learn to listen to their children's explanations.

2. Learn to encourage childrenWhile criticizing children, parents must also be prepared to encourage children. For example, some encouraging words such as "It's okay, Bidan will definitely do well next time" and other encouraging words. In this way, the child will definitely not make a similar mistake next time.

Criticizing children should also pay attention to methods, smart parents are to criticize children as a step for children to grow up, so we must choose the right time and place to criticize children, only in this way, children will become more and more sensible.

Children also have to communicate with their parents and have their own principles and bottom lines.

Summary. If a parent criticizes a child in front of others, then the child's self-esteem will be greatly damaged. Therefore, parents should not criticize their children in front of others. This can affect the child's mental health.

If a parent criticizes a child in front of others, then the child's self-esteem will be greatly damaged. Therefore, parents should not criticize their children in front of others. This will affect the health of the child's heart.

So as a friend with grinding scum, I must talk to this parent quietly, so that parents can understand their children's mental health, and don't blame their children in the case of other people's emotions. Tell parents about the dangers of criticizing their child in front of others. Then parents will pay attention to their children's mental health when they know about it.

In addition, it is necessary to reassure the child so that he does not take it to heart and forget about unpleasant things.

This is also a kind of psychological counseling for the child, so that he does not live in the shadows, so as not to affect the healthy growth of the child.

But I'm that kid, and I have an opinion now but don't dare to bring it up to my mother.

If you are a child, then you have to talk to your mother about it, and you say that although you are at fault, you can educate and criticize you without others and Kai.

I don't quite dare. It doesn't matter, although you don't dare, but your mother is not an unreasonable person, and after she hears it, she will also consider your feelings.

Hello, parents criticize their children in front of others, how to shout at Lao You, you should talk to your parents about Zheng Sheng, otherwise they will always criticize you in front of outsiders. I think parents who pay attention to the way of education will praise their children in front of outsiders, but criticize their children at home. Children also have dignity, and many parents tend to ignore this.

You go directly to your parents and tell them how you feel, communicate with them directly, and say how to deal with this problem, and they will find a way to deal with it, and if you don't say it, they will neglect to think about it so much, and you will become a self-sacrificing person.