Neighbors often beat and scold their children, what should I do, do I need to call the police?

Updated on parenting 2024-08-13
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    This kind of thing has happened exactly around you, and publishing the topic also shows the kindness of not wanting to ignore it, but it is really inconvenient for outsiders to participate in other people's family affairs, so you can only deal with it objectively in accordance with the process and report it to the relevant institutions, such as the neighborhood committee for adjustment.

    2.Comfort the child.

    Childhood is the most important part of a child's life, we only try to create a good meaning, so that the child also has a beautiful world in his heart, the icing on the cake is superfluous, and the charcoal in the snow is the truth, such as chatting with the child, talking about ideals, so that he can have more beauty to the world.

    3.You can also hint to your neighbors in a moderate way so that they can master the correct education methods.

    As a first-time mother, there is also a lot of helplessness, because she is caught off guard, there is no reasonable way to deal with it, reasonable communication to alleviate her anxiety, and create a better future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    You can try to call the police quietly, as a neighbor, and tell her family directly that it may be ineffective, or even more serious, or report anonymously, so that ** will come forward to educate better, and there is another point, whether the child's parents suffer from mental illness. Notify the relevant personnel in the community to work to understand the family situation, and appropriately solve some practical problems, so that the children will be less harmed. Otherwise, as a vulnerable group, children may be overly abused in their formative years.

    In today's social trend, people face pressure in all aspects of life, and sometimes it is inevitable to take their anger out on their children. There are not a few innocent children who have been harmed, and it is because there is no timely stop from others that too many tragedies have occurred. Therefore, when we find that a child has encountered some inappropriate behavior, we should do our best to help the child.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    It's nothing to do with the police. Go to the neighborhood committee.

    People will believe this evidence, such as taking pictures, recording videos. The child is still young and does not know the law and to protect himself. Custody is the parents', and it is useless to call the police if the evidence is insufficient.

    Your next-door neighbor brutally beats a child in violation of the Minor Protection Regulations, and you can call the police to intervene.

    Ordinary profanity is often overlooked, but if there are serious consequences, such as serious harm to a child or other serious consequences, the police should arrest someone.

    No need to scold, you can beat, but it will cause unnecessary trouble. If you call ** frequently, you should call the police.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Neighbors can call the police for domestic violence, and the specific process of calling the police:

    1. Call 110 as soon as possible

    Normally, comrades in the police are very busy, and the speed of the police depends on the importance and urgency of the case. The operator will record every word you say on the computer while listening, and then transfer the situation to the police station in the corresponding jurisdiction for processing.

    Therefore, it is very necessary to explain the circumstances of the beating to 110 in a concise and concise manner, and clearly inform that the strong threat and fear he feels is very necessary.

    2. Answer the police officer** at the police station.

    As long as the police are called, the police comrades will deal with it no matter what.

    3. Communicate with the door-to-door police.

    When the police come to the door, they can actively communicate the specific situation to them.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You should go and persuade. 。Said that he shouldn't be beaten and scolded, but it is more rebellious You said that your relatives often beat and scold their children, and then he grew up with low self-esteem, loneliness and depression. I can't get along with anyone. Wait for your own editing...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This kind of thing is so difficult to do, you can only tell the community or call the police.

    Some parents are too demanding of their children, and if their children can't meet them, they will often abuse and scold their children, especially crying at night, which makes the neighbors uneasy.

    If the scolding is too intense at night, you can take the initiative to call the police and let ** educate and punish.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Personally, I think that doing homework will beat and scold children, and it should be that children are more passive in learning. As a parent, as long as it is not abusive to the child, it is appropriate to basically discipline the child. You have to empathize with everything, haven't you ever hit or scolded your child?

    Telling others not to beat and scold children feels a bit nosy. Parents can't educate their children anymore, who has the right to educate their children? Sometimes adults scold children because they hate iron but not steel.

    Everyone has ways and means of educating their children, as for how people discipline their children, you can save your worries! However, each child's education problem is actually a presentation of family education problems, and parents beating and scolding their children actually reflect the lack of parental education methods and strategies, so parents need to learn and improve. In today's environment, beating and scolding children every day may result in the child being very withdrawn in the future, unable to adapt to social life, and may be sharply vindictive when he grows up, feeling surrounded by enemies, and what is even more terrible is that the child does not feel hope and goes to a dead end.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    All you have to do is mediate, and if it's serious, call the police.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you know a neighbor, you can communicate with the neighbor why you are beating and scolding the child. There are very right ways to educate children, and hitting and scolding children is not the only one. If you don't know each other, take your time to get in touch and then find out about the situation. Are there still parents who often beat and scold their children?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can quietly report the situation to the neighborhood committee, and protect the relationship between yourself and the residents

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Did you call the police? The next time the landlord records her scolding the child, and when you scold again, you turn on the speaker and put it outside her window. Look at her shame is not ashamed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Neighbors often reprimand and hit children, and you can call the police.

    If the parent's discipline is too rough, it will lead to psychological dissatisfaction and even vicious growth. Frequent scolding of children will lead to character defects, character injuries, isolation, not communicating with others, on the contrary, there is also a situation of rebellious psychology, the more you beat and scold, the more you continue to make mistakes.

    Frequent beating and scolding of children will also cause psychological inferiority, feeling that everything is wrong, and everything will be beaten and scolded. On the contrary, it is a serious psychological distortion and extreme work.

    Frequent beating and scolding of the child will make the child lack social skills, and gradually he will not want to participate in group activities, because he will feel that he is often reprimanded by his parents at home, and will he not be affirmed by others in talking to others, and even laugh at him.

    Article 13 of the Anti-Domestic Violence Law of the People's Republic of China: Victims of domestic violence, their legally-designated persons, and close relatives may make complaints, feedback, or seek assistance from the perpetrator or victim's unit, residents' committees, villagers' committees, women's federations, and other such units. After relevant units receive complaints, feedback, or requests for assistance or assistance from domestic violence, they shall provide assistance and handle it.

    Victims of domestic violence, their legally-designated persons, and close relatives may also report the case to the public security organs or file a lawsuit in the people's court in accordance with law.

    Units and individuals have the right to promptly dissuade them from discovering acts of domestic violence that are occurring. Article 14: Where schools, kindergartens, medical establishments, residents' committees, villagers' committees, social work service organizations, aid management bodies, welfare establishments, and their staffs discover in the course of their work that a person with no or limited capacity for civil conduct has suffered or is suspected of having suffered domestic violence, they shall promptly report the case to the public security organs. The public security organs shall keep the information of the informant confidential.

    Article 15: After public security organs receive reports of domestic violence, they shall promptly dispatch police to stop domestic violence, investigate and collect evidence in accordance with relevant provisions, and assist victims in seeking medical treatment and evaluating injuries.

    Where persons who lack or have limited capacity for civil conduct are seriously injured as a result of domestic violence, face threats to their personal safety, or are in a dangerous state such as being uncared for, the public security organs shall notify and assist the civil affairs departments in placing them in temporary shelters, aid management institutions, or welfare establishments.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, it is recommended to take some means to stop, after all, parents always beat and scold, loudly reprimanded children, will have an extremely bad impact on the growth of children, I have a case like this, because the parent's discipline is too rough, resulting in psychological dissatisfaction of children, and even malignant growth, the neighbor's child is now insulated from the home, completely broken. However, considering the quality of the parent, your suggestion may lead to bad words or even slander from the parent, so it is recommended to contact other neighbors, and maybe a few people will go together to give some advice.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A few days ago, I witnessed another on-site education of children. Suddenly realized that parents educate their children, the method is not right, children are more disobedient due to rebellious psychology, parents can't bear to beat people, at this time they are in a state of anger, and when they are angry, they don't realize the importance of their hands, and they can't do what I'm talking about is moderate education. As a bystander, such a young child was beaten like this, I really don't know how the parents can do it.

    It's unbearable to bully a kitten or a puppy, not to mention that this is your own child. It is said that love is deep, responsibility is earnest, and it hits children, and parents feel pain in their hearts. So why can't there be a better way to educate, and you have to do it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My baby, to be honest, I have done it more than once, of course, all of them are greeted by ass. But growing up, my parents didn't do a single thing to me. In the process of children's growth, I believe that every parent has a few times of hating the itchy feeling of the root of the teeth, after all, children are children, each child is an independent individual with their own thoughts, how can it be the same channel as parents' thoughts.

    Words come down to words, hating iron is not steel, and sometimes I can't help but do it. However, I strongly oppose the fact that parents often beat their children, and that the fights are indiscriminate and severe.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is necessary for the mother to be truly aware of her own problems, and she herself is aware of the consequences of doing so in order to solve the problem fundamentally, and then understand the reasons for the quarrel and eliminate the causes. However, if you are not an acquaintance, it is difficult for any mother to communicate well with you. As you said, the police can only persuade, not change.

    In such an environment, the future of children is indeed worrisome.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your neighbor is not a good person, you go to talk to him and the final answer is definitely "I'm educating my own children, it's your business", it's really helpless to encounter such a thing, if you don't want to hear it, go out and avoid it. Such parents are used to scolding their children, and it is difficult to change. If you really can't do it, call the police and deal with it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is a family of three living upstairs in my house, and the child's father is very short-tempered and loud, and every time he comes home, I can hear him talking clearly downstairs. His children were also naughty, and his father often reprimanded him, sometimes beating the children. One time I couldn't listen anymore, so I went upstairs and knocked on the door, but the eldest brother said, "What does it matter to you that I educate my children?"

    I was speechless. Later, I reported to the property that the upstairs disturbed the people and scolded the child, maybe the property was looking for him, anyway, it will be better after that.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    We can't control scolding children loudly as long as they don't disturb the people, so let's hit the children...It's not abuse, it's not frequent, it's not ruthless. I can't take care of other people's children. If I had seen the abuse, I would have called the police. Children can be educated well when they make mistakes, and it is useless to hit.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What to do? What else can I do, that's someone's family matter, outsiders like us must not interfere too much, if you really can't stand it, go to persuade it, if the persuasion is fruitless, then call the police, if you have difficulty finding the police, this sentence is still very useful.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, you have to care about your child first, and then ask him why he was scolded, if this matter, it is the neighbor who is responsible, it is indeed his child who did wrong, then take him to the door to apologize, if the neighbor is wrong, then you must protect your child, to cultivate the child's sense of right and wrong.

    1. Establish a child's view of what is wrong.

    The child has a small injury, do you want to know that it is caused by the play between the children? Or is it another kid bullying your little one? It is not necessary that if your child is injured, there is no mistake, so we must know the cause and effect of the incident before we can talk about how to do it.

    2. Let the child resolve the conflict on his own.

    If a child is injured while playing, parents should not find another child's child to reason or take action directly. Everyone has a childhood, children play together, sometimes it will inevitably cause a little injury, if parents to intervene at this time will make your child lose friends, so that other children dare not play with your child, you help your child out in front of classmates, but your child may be isolated by other children.

    3. Educate your children.

    We need to teach our children how to protect themselves and how to protect themselves. Teach your child that you can't let others bully, and at the same time, you can't bully others, and comfort your child when he is hurt, instead of talking about his own child.

    Fourth, be good at observing children.

    After some children are bullied at school, he does not dare to say to his family, and becomes less talkative, usually parents should pay more attention to their children, when you feel that something is wrong, you should communicate with the teacher, and communicate with your own child.

    5. Respond to your child's teacher.

    When you find that your child is often injured a little, or always feel scared when you go home, you have to respond to the teacher in time, don't be careless, let the teacher educate the disobedient child, let the teacher contact the other party's parents, don't contact the other party yourself, causing deeper contradictions, I believe that disobedient children will become good children under the teacher's education, and you must fully trust the teacher.

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