Let s talk about it, are you okay now when you marry far away?

I've been married for almost four years, and I'm very happy, and my in-laws are very good to me, not to mention my husband.

To be honest, I'm not having a good time at all now, and I even regret marrying a little far. Now my husband is not at home, I am at my mother-in-law's house, I regret marrying far away, and the baby will be born in more than two months, I do everything every day, and my mother-in-law does not prepare anything for the baby.

If you get married, your mother's family will never go back.

Marrying far away is a woman's suffering in this life, her in-laws can't get in, and her mother's family can't go back. Really, don't marry far away for the love you think you have for a while. How many will you regret it later?

Xi'an married to Yangzhou, I can't feel the warmth of the family, I always feel out of place here, I miss my mother, I often cry, and no one understands. I don't like my mother-in-law, and I want to divorce after being married for more than half a year. I can't stand it.

It's really troublesome to marry far away, I can be regarded as a far away marriage, although in a province, I always feel that I have no friends here, and my mother-in-law is also looking for nothing all day long, but fortunately, my husband is good to me, but life is very boring!

It's inconvenient to go out when you're pregnant, and your mother-in-law is very worried, so now you can wait for delivery at home every day, a few days ago my mother and brother came to visit me on vacation, and tomorrow they are leaving, I am very reluctant, reluctant to them, this farewell, and it will take a long time to see each other again, I am a very emotional person, tears unconsciously gushed out, it is estimated that I should cry my nose again when I send them to the car tomorrow.

To be honest, since I married away from home, I feel like I have changed a person, I always love to wipe my tears secretly after encountering some things that make me feel wronged, and now I am always very tolerant after those incidents, I put everything in my heart and don't tell anyone, even if I am with my mother-in-law, I am also swallowing.

It's been four years since I got married, and I've only been back to my parents' home three times, and sometimes I'm homesick, although now I've fully adapted to life here, and my second child is about to be born.

In fact, I am living very well now, I don't lack anything, my husband and mother-in-law's family are very good to me, maybe it's just because my mother came over and aroused my little sentimentality, for my mother, my only regret is that I don't have time to spend with her, and she will grow old slowly, but I am thousands of miles away, too far, I can't reach it.

It's okay, my parents-in-law are very good to me, anyway, unlike other unreasonable mothers-in-law, it is my mother-in-law who quarrels with my husband, and in short, I am still very happy.

It's not good, my mother-in-law is like a mother, she even stipulates the time to take a bath, and she doesn't say anything good when she buys things.

Mom had already left just now, sending them to the car, and it happened that the store was so busy, so I had to come back in a hurry, although I held back my tears, but I felt really uncomfortable. I really want to accompany them more, but I can't help myself in business, I just hope that I can change the status quo by working hard for a few more years and the economic conditions will be better.

1, woman, please be good, be good to yourself, in fact, you are very strong, even if you marry far away, not everyone can knock you down.

2. A lifetime is not very long. The white horse is just passing through the gap. As long as you love each other, it doesn't hurt to marry far away, but it's up to you how you interpret your life.

3. Don't be like a victim and tell everyone about your misfortune. One day you will understand that your grievances have to be digested by yourself, your story does not need to be told by everyone, there are few of you who really understand, and most people will stand on their own side and peek at your jokes. All you can do is hide the secret and get stronger and stronger step by step.

What does it matter if you marry far away, now that the transportation is developed, it should be very convenient no matter where you go, even if it is a transnational marriage, there is no problem. But many times parents will mind this, and for most young people, they feel that distance is not a big problem, whether it is by train, plane or other means of transportation, it will be there quickly. There are a lot of people who marry far away, and they don't marry very far, and sometimes they go to the next province, but their parents just don't agree, I think this is a very feudal idea, because liking a person is liking, if distance is an obstacle, then this is too much to say.

It's not easy to meet someone you like, if two people can be together, it's the fate of two people, if you have to break up two people you like because of this kind of thing, I think it's a very unreasonable thing.

Although it is said that you will be far away from your parents, you can take your parents over and live with you, so that you can take care of your parents and be with your lover, is it also a good thing? I think that many of them are only children nowadays, and everyone will consider the question of the distance of marriage. In fact, if you marry far away and marry closely, you will eventually live with your other half, so I don't think it's a problem to marry far away, if your parents are really reluctant to let you, you can call your parents over to live in a city with you, I don't think it's a problem.

But the premise of marrying far away is that you have to find someone who is worthy of you to go to the Yuan family, and it is worth you to go so far for him to marry him.

Thanks for the invite; Hello everyone, I'm Peach, a woman who married away from home! As a person who has come over, let me talk about whether it is good to marry far away. My husband met in 2000 while working in Guangdong, he is from Chongqing, and I am from Sichuan.

It's not far away, it's not close, it's not close. At the beginning, there was no high-speed pass, to go the day before and the next day, now the high-speed pass, the whole journey is less than 200 kilometers, and it takes more than two hours to drive, isn't it very close.

But now our family has come to my hometown to develop, haha. Isn't that interesting. changed his position and let him marry once and feel it.

What I want to say is the concept of long-distance marriage. As long as it is not far in China, now that the transportation is so developed, the high-speed rail plane is more and more widespread, and these are not distances at all. The important thing is whether two people have feelings and whether they can tolerate each other.

Marrying far away is just a spatial distance, and it is not easy for girls who marry far away, giving up the environment in which they grew up and coming to a strange environment, which has taken a lot of courage. No matter how far you marry, it is important to be understanding and tolerant. There's nothing that can't be solved.

Thank you for your attention: Shuxiang peaches.

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It is not good to marry far away, after all, you have to live away from your parents and family and in a strange place.

Good evening, dear, and it's an honor to have questions for you. Personally, I think that the premise of marrying far away is that both people are really mature people, people who want to get married with their lives, and people who really love each other, because after a woman gets married, she is not like a nearby daughter-in-law who can go back to her parents' house at any time, because if a woman is wronged after marriage, she can't even find a person to hug for a while, and I hope that mature men and women will marry happily, peacefully and joyfully.

Find the right person who loves you and the person you love, and don't care if you marry far or near!

Whether it is worth marrying far away, whether life is good or not, it all varies from person to person, some people can be happy if they marry anyone, and some people have a bad time when they marry anyone. Therefore, whether you can marry far away, you must also ask yourself a few questions:

1. Do your parents support you in marrying far away?

It is difficult to be happy in a marriage that is not blessed by your parents, and it is best to seek the consent of your parents before marrying far away. If they are against it, consider whether you are determined to resist future resistance. Sun Zhongzhu.

2. Can you live in harmony with his family?

If your in-laws are not easy to get along with, do you have enough emotional intelligence and wisdom to deal with it, and what about self-explanatory ability, after all, it will be more difficult to get along with two generations plus geographical differences.

3. Are you independent, independent of your parents, and responsible for your own choices?

If you still have a "giant baby mentality" and are a child who has not grown up, the psychological gap between long-distance marriage will be very large. But if you are mentally and financially independent and can be responsible for your own choices, then it is no problem to marry **.

4. Are you able to adapt to changes in the environment and be good at making new friends?

Character determines fate, and marrying far away does not mean that there are no friends. Some people are very adaptable, outgoing, sociable, and get along with the people around them quickly, so they will naturally feel much less lonely.

5. Can you accept all the consequences, including the possibility of unhappiness in marrying far away?

Finally, to quote a sentence "You Pei Sou asks me if it's worth it to love you, in fact, you should know that love is not to ask if it's worth it!" "Now that you have made your choice, you must learn to accept all the consequences and have no regrets.

When I was with him, his salary was only 2,800 a month. We live in our own rented house and have a pregnancy test every month. Sometimes I don't have enough money to save money, and sometimes my husband has to look at her face when she gets dozens of dollars for her mother, and even the words are very ugly.

What impressed me the most was that we had no money that month, and the silver model friend took 700 yuan for his mother's pregnancy test, but he was scolded, and asked me to pay her back immediately next month's salary.

When we got married, his parents bought me a necklace and a ring for 3,000 yuan, a red envelope of 60 yuan, and nothing else. And my parents gave me and my husband a red envelope of 1314 per person, and they also bought us a computer washing machine. Even so, my husband doesn't think about my family's good, he just thinks his parents are the best.

Later, I opened a small shop, we all lived together, and the run-in period became more and more depressing for me, and I endured it for more than a year. It broke out that night and my son had a high fever at three o'clock in the middle of the night. We didn't have any cash on us, but his parents opened snacks in Sha County, and they had cash income every day.

I told his mother, "My child will go to the doctor and pay her back after she is paid." "The immediately said with a black face

No, but she still has a lot of money in her hand, and she's counting it. ”

And my husband was silent on the side, I said that I was talking for a long time, and then I got 400, and then I called to the hospital, my husband did not follow, I held the child in the hospital for intravenous drips, and saw that other children were accompanied by their fathers, and I couldn't help crying bitterly.

Thinking about the days I have spent in his house all these years, I regret the decision I made, if I could do it again, I would definitely not choose to marry far away, marry this irresponsible man, but look at the baby in my arms. I had to endure it.

Now many girls have chosen to marry far away, and the elders in the family think that marrying far away will not be good, so they will try not to let their daughters marry far away. They don't want their daughter to marry far away, it's just that they are worried that their daughter will marry far away, and no one will come forward if they are wronged in their in-laws' family. And it's so far away, I don't know if my daughter can get by.

In other words, as long as the man treats the woman sincerely, the woman's parents will also be fulfilled. And today's girls are very impulsive in the face of love, even if they marry far away, they never think long-term when facing love, as long as two people love each other, no one can stop it.

Distant marriage can also be very happy, my sister is far away marriage, married from the north to the man, at first my mother was very opposed, and then I couldn't stand my sister's soft grinding and hard bubbles, my brother-in-law was also very good to my sister, and finally my mother agreed. After my sister got married, she went home at most twice a year, and she could only rely on WeChat to contact her. My mother has also told me many times that she regrets letting my sister marry far away, and she actually hopes that my sister can live well with her brother-in-law.

My brother-in-law loves my sister very much, and never lets my sister do housework, and my sister is spoiled and has "can't take care of herself". Maybe it's marrying love.

For the sake of love, it is also worth marrying far away, if the other party loves me enough, I also love each other deeply, and we have reached the point of getting married, I will also agree to marry far away. I don't think it matters whether you marry far away or not, as long as the other party is good to you. Parents don't want their daughters to marry far away, which is nothing more than worrying that their daughters will not have a good life.

However, some girls who marry close are not as good as those who marry far away. The key is to see how the two people get along and how to maintain their married life.

As long as two people are sincere to each other, it doesn't matter whether they marry far away or not.