Every time I see a girl I like, I don t want to take the initiative to talk to her, why?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-02
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It's not that I don't want to, but I don't dare. People are afraid of unfamiliar things. It's like that for everybody.

    In fact, in your heart, you are expecting her to take the initiative to talk to you. But the reality is harsh. She won't.

    So I don't want to have any regrets. Just be proactive. It is also an exercise in the ability to challenge the unknown.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    You can't let go of yourself, afraid that you will make some mistakes in language and cause the other party's impression of you to change, in fact, you should give yourself some confidence and courage, what is there? It's a big deal not to be a boyfriend and girlfriend, why should you restrain yourself? Let it go, it's okay.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Don't dare to face reality. The heart is beating fast. You like her so much.

    Not anymore! Boys just have to take the initiative.

    Believe that you will get her arousal.

    Go ahead! Prove your heart with your actions.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Lack of confidence! It's dangerous!

    Be bold! Otherwise, you will regret it for the rest of your life!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Be more natural, if you don't talk to her generously, then there will be no chance, if you chat with him generously, love can be cultivated! Will always fall in love!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This is certainly not the girl's problem.

    Are you an introvert?

    Or do you want her to take the initiative to answer you?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because you like her so much.

    I'm afraid that if I say the wrong thing.

    And she will leave you.

    Love is all shy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Earthen hats, not to mention that there will never be a chance.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After a long time, the girl will not be satisfied, be vigilant!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Pretending to be cool, expecting too much from yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My boyfriend was like this at the beginning, but I didn't know what to do with me. If that girl is worth your giving, then you should take advantage of it and have confidence in yourself, don't be afraid! How does she know if you don't tell it?

    Take the initiative to be tactful first, don't go straight to the goal at the beginning, so that girls are easy to be scared away.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love her, you have to say it, otherwise it's too late to regret it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It shows that you don't hate her, it's just that you feel good a little bit, and you feel that the girl likes you at first glance, which is your advantage, I don't feel this way!

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    One is that she doesn't like you; One is that she is shy; One is that she pretends to be reserved; If it's the latter; You talk to her often in the future; And then suddenly I didn't pay much attention to her; Then she will take the initiative to find you;

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    We're really connected by the same fate! I'm having the same problem as you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe she's thin-skinned and reserved, maybe she's only using you as a spare tire.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not going to be just such a girl talking to you...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your heart has acquiesced to her!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    From the bottom of my heart, I think of her as my own relative.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You like her, but you don't admit it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I already have him in my heart, but I don't want to admit it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That's probably you're making a fool of yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1.Just because you like her doesn't mean she likes you too.

    2.It's polite to meet you and talk to you.

    3.If you don't take the initiative to contact you, you think it's too ordinary with you.

    4.What to contact without something?

    5.People don't mean anything to you, so don't be sentimental.

    6.If you like it, you can chase it, and it's better to act than to be excited.

    7.Wishing you happiness.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, people like to be passive.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Three words: bold, careful, thick-skinned! To be bold is to take the initiative, if you like a girl, you have to confess to her, don't be shy, otherwise you will regret losing the opportunity.

    Careful is to know how to observe carefully, understand what your favorite girl likes and what she doesn't like, be a caring person in the process of dating, always care about her, ask for warmth, and let girls feel that you are very considerate. Thick-skinned means that if you are rejected by a girl, don't be discouraged, and immediately regroup and enter a new battle.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'll help you analyze it. I'm in the same trouble as you myself. Guys get nervous the first few times they like a girl.

    Originally, there was a lot of talk. But when I see the girl I like, I don't have anything to say. The head is empty.

    It shows that you like this girl from the bottom of your heart. Take it easy. Maybe a sentence will open your chatterbox.

    You don't take the initiative, and other girls don't take the initiative.

    To chase a woman is to be cheeky. If you don't have anything to say, it would be nice to chase more girls in the future

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Be brave enough to express yourself!

    Hidden in the psyche no one knows!

    It's impossible to wait for that girl to say I like you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I didn't want to say that I had the same problem as you, but what I did was confess to her, and she could give you a slap in the face, and of course you could get better, but you'll know the answer you want.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You should be glad that you still have a chance, and don't wait until the opportunity is gone. Friends, never let your heart hesitate, dare to love and hate, Fang is a man, the result may be a surprise or a disappointment, but it is never a regret.

    People, don't give yourself a chance to regret it

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Big brother, you can't be like this, you must say it, you can't bury it in your heart, what age is it now, you are still like this, very unlikeable, remember my words, you must say it. Trust me and give me points.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What, you let go and pretend to be a good friend to her.

    You're so shy, she can definitely see that you like her.

    You let go of getting along so that you can see if you have a chance.

    She's sure to respond to something interesting about you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Start with her friends. Also, it's okay to call her out to play! The most important thing to remember is that if you don't talk about it now, you won't have a chance later! Think of yourself as a two-skinned face!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    See if you really like him, and if you like it, you should strive for it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't say it! Go with the wind

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's going to start again.,If you really like it, work hard.。。。 Be brave ...

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You like her, she snubs you, but she sucks you in front of others. From love to hate,

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Love is deep, hate is deep. The line between love and hate, you will understand when you see through it, love and hate are actually not important.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I'm not introverted, but I just can't talk in front of the girl I like, probably because I look like I'm very powerful for her, and I say very powerful things, but I can't think of it, so it's hard to talk to her.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I care too much, I'm like this, I obviously want to ask her out, but I'm too cowardly.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Maybe you haven't communicated with a girl very much.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Because of love, I don't know how to start.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I'm afraid that if I confess to someone I like, I won't even be able to make friends.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The boy has no self-confidence, which is also called a crush.

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