How to find a high quality partner?

Although everyone wants to find the best partner, which is the so-called high-quality partner, I think that finding a partner is not necessarily to find the best, but to find the most suitable for yourself, and the most suitable for yourself is the best, but it must be the best for you, not necessarily for others.

If you want to find a high-quality partner, then you must also be good enough, which is why the older generation has been saying that you must be the right person, because the right person can treat the two families fairly, rather than always helping the other, and this family is not only money, but also the way of thinking and lifestyle of the two people.

So you also have to be good enough, generally speaking, a boy will find a girl who is slightly weaker than himself, and a girl will find a boy who is a little stronger than himself, except for female men and boys with weak personalities, but the difference of a few levels is definitely too far away.

I remember I asked the girls around me who were 160 tall, and their request was to find a boy with a height of 180, and I asked the boy who was 180 tall, and they said they wanted to find a girl who was 165 or older, and I asked a girl who was 165 or older, and they said they wanted to find ......a boy who was 185 or older

In addition to height, there are other criteria that are the same.

So in fact, everyone has a standard, and if you want to find a high-quality partner, then you must also be high-quality in the eyes of this person.

I remember someone asked a question, that is, if you are a member of the opposite sex, would you like to have a relationship with your current self, I think if it were me, I would definitely not want to, because I myself can't meet my own requirements (goals), how can I make the other person meet my own standards?

First make yourself high-quality, become excellent, so that you meet a high-quality partner, the chance of being together is great, we all hope that we can meet a good other half, and even sometimes, our requirements for the other half are often higher than we can match, which is normal.

It has an advantage that your vision will become more critical, and it may be that your request will help you judge by this standard when looking at some people of the opposite sex, and in this case, it may be very large that you find a partner who is of high quality.

But it also has a disadvantage, that is, if you follow this standard too completely, you may miss a lot of things that are actually very suitable for you, which is actually the reason why many excellent people are still single. As a simple example, a female colleague next to me, because she is 165 tall, has been looking for a boy above 1.8 meters, but several male colleagues of 1.7 meters chased her, all of them were rejected, and even many of these people are actually in good condition, but she always adheres to this principle, so she is still a single aristocrat, I think it's a pity, obviously a little lower this hard standard, everything is perfect.

This kind of situation should not be an exception, many people should have this situation somewhat, on the one hand, complaining that they did not meet the suitable, but they insist on the principle of a certain selection in their hearts, so it also makes onlookers feel helpless.

So I think to find a high-quality partner, sometimes you can lower the threshold appropriately, don't say that because of this and let you miss a lot of excellent people, you can have a judgment in your heart, but don't rely too absolutely on this, many people to really meet love, in fact, they will find that their so-called requirements, the other party may not meet them at all, but there is no way: you love him!

I don't know why, everyone seems to be getting harder and harder to find their other half, whether it is a man or a woman, they are becoming more and more picky about their other half, maybe they are really too demanding of their partner, maybe they really just haven't found the person they belong to! So, how exactly do you find a high-quality partner?

I don't know what a high-quality partner looks like in everyone's eyes, whether it is cultural and connotative, or a particularly good character, maybe everyone has a different definition of a quality partner! However, in my opinion, I think people who have culture, connotation, and a particularly good character are high-quality partners. Maybe everyone wants to find a partner like this, at least such a person knows how to love themselves.

First of all, I think that if you want to find a high-quality partner, you must know how to improve your own quality, you must know that not only you want to find a high-quality partner, but others also want to play to find a quality other half! Therefore, if you want to find a high-quality partner, you must have a certain level of cultural literacy, and no one likes a woman who bluffs or even makes trouble all day long.

They are also picky about their partners, they also hope that their other half is gentle and considerate, can go to the hall and the kitchen, and also hope that their women can give everyone a particularly good impression. Everyone says that a good marriage is a good marriage, yes, maybe this is the so-called family match, two people together sometimes may really not care about the gap in the family, but these two people must have a common language, two people must have the same level of education, if you want your partner to be a high-quality person, you must learn to improve your quality.

Secondly, we must realize that it is actually difficult to find a high-quality partner in the current society, I don't know if the atmosphere of the whole society is bad or what's going on, everyone seems to have become less real than before, and it seems that they have learned to disguise themselves. Therefore, in order to find a high-quality partner, we must be careful enough when choosing a partner, polish our eyes, and not be confused by the appearance of certain people.

You know, now people look very good on the outside, wear glasses, and are very literate, but in fact, they are a wolf in sheep's clothing. Those people may not have read any books and can't do well with people, but in order to achieve a certain goal, they will disguise themselves very well, even if you have been with them for a long time, you can't see the clues.

At this time, you need to have a pair of keen eyes, and when you get along with others, you should observe all kinds of small details, and you must know that even if someone is well disguised, there will be times when you don't pay attention. In addition, don't be too anxious to determine your partner's relationship, make sure that you know enough about him, and observe him enough to meet the requirements of high quality before agreeing to be with him.

All in all, if you want to find a high-quality partner, you must learn to improve your quality, and secondly, you must keep your eyes open and have a keen insight. Only in this way can you go and find a high-quality partner.

If you want to find a good partner, the most important thing is to improve yourself first, only if you are good enough, can you find an excellent partner and find a high-quality partner!

First of all, enrich yourself. You have to really aim for a higher purpose and a better self, and first improve yourself within yourself. "There is poetry and books in the belly, so read more books, learn a little more knowledge, not only to learn those lofty knowledge, but also to know the knowledge close to life, must not become a "pretend" person, people are eating grains, you can feel anything in life.

Not only to be knowledgeable, but also to be self-contained, temperament is really important.

Second, highlight your skills. Everyone has to have a skill, so find a few hands you like to learn, such as piano, drawing, dancing, etc., always use it when needed. Learning enough of these things is not for anything else, but simply to enrich yourself.

Thirdly, it is necessary to have the correct three views, to have a peaceful attitude, and to have good cultivation and conduct. To be a human being does not have to be great, but you must not be selfish and narrow-minded, at least you must be worthy of heaven and earth and conscience. Your attitude and character determine what kind of person you are, how high your pattern is, and how far your path is, so be sure to be a kind and sincere person.

Finally, elevate your outwardness. When you look at a person, you first look at the outside, and you can feel the inside only after contact, so the impact of the outside on a person is really great. Let you improve your appearance is not for you to go for plastic surgery, liposuction or something, your appearance is naturally given by your parents, I have no objection to your choice of plastic surgery, but you still have to support people who face themselves, if it is not any devastating flaws, don't go under the knife, natural beauty is the real beauty, you can change yourself in dressing, choose a hairstyle that suits you, choose makeup that suits you, and make yourself look comfortable, generous, clean and tidy.

In short, if the flowers are in full bloom and the butterflies are coming, you are good enough to attract excellent partners!

Companion is a lifelong companion, he is the collision of your soul, the destination of life, when we were ignorant of it, when we grow up we yearn for it. But you must know that in this vast population of more than one billion, and even with gender, country, race, age, etc., it seems to be an unattainable luxury, but if you master the right way to find it, you may still be able to have a glimmer of life, let me talk about my opinion.

First of all, we are looking for a high-quality partner to check whether we are of high quality, people like good things, men and women are no exception, but partners are different, this is a person who lives together, not a simple co-tenant, a partner at work. The three views are inconsistent, the family background is incompatible, and the economic income gap will mostly cause your breakup, whether you are high-quality in love is also a premise, all say that the family is right, even if you love each other, there will be various problems, not to mention the essence of these people, things that cannot be easily changed. In love, it is nothing more than the two major problems of matching or not being compatible and not loving each other, we can't decide the latter, but we can do the former, and even make others unworthy of you.

When we are high enough quality, we can find these potential stocks in high quality places, libraries, gyms, tea ceremony halls, everything you think is high, there will be these high-level people. There's no denying that you can pick up treasures in the garbage, but why not pick pearls in a jewelry store? If the starting point and direction are wrong, then no matter how hard we try, it will be in vain, so we must face up to the direction we are pursuing.

In our pursuit of these high-quality companions, we must not lose ourselves, even if he is your solumate, living not only for others, but also for yourself.

I think in fact, the most important thing for love is to find a partner who suits you.

I saw a report before that the post-90s generation pays more attention to whether the three views are consistent in mate selection, rather than those materials and the like, so I think that in fact, many times when we are looking for a partner, what we pursue is whether there is an eye or a feeling, and many times it does not mean that the first thing is material, money, social status, etc.

So many times I think that in fact, as a post-90s generation, our concept of love is more like a relatively pure feeling when we were a student, and many times we just want a more idealized love in this era.

Love itself is a topic that has been praised in this world, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, throughout the ages there have always been a lot of poignant love stories around us, so we may feel that we are actually affected by these, so many people will pursue such a feeling, hoping that their other half can love themselves sincerely, so I think a lot of times we are pursuing a pure, sincere love, In fact, a lot of love is mixed with a lot of material and monetary interests, and we don't pursue such a view of love.

So I think a lot of times, we are pursuing a love of our own, but often there are some gaps and contrasts between our feelings and reality, at this time we need to balance the relationship between the two, how to adjust may need us to face it ourselves...

In fact, the pattern of the original family has basically determined the quality of children's marriage and love.

Let me tell you the story of an opinion leader who killed an improper dog licker after retirement.

I don't know if young people have ever heard of 3 turns and 1 ring, have they ever heard of getting married with a color TV, a washing machine, and a refrigerator.

This is all left over from people born in the 50s and 60s of the last century.

No matter what age it is, there will always be these thresholds that can show strength and sincerity to screen - who has a greater sense of superiority and who has more choice?

People who have the right to choose naturally want to pick the one that will allow them to live a good life first. And those who can provide these conditions will inevitably have a greater choice among their peers.

Tell a story that has been coded and artistically processed by fan contributions, there is such a thing, not the individuals described. But the conditions have been replaced by the same amount, and the difference is very different.

At that time, my mother was a top match in the marriage market.

Parents are university professors, he graduated from college and has a decent job, white skin, beautiful appearance, intellectual temperament, gentle and generous, and was almost pulled by the director to film after interrupting his studies.

It's simply a hexagonal warrior, with no shortcomings, and the cliff is a goddess among ordinary people. The appearance belongs to the number one in their foreign language department.

And then my dad's condition was like this:

Grandpa Director, Father Engineer, Mother Hospital Director of Internal Medicine. After graduating from college, he has a decent job, is handsome, has a good sense of humor, and will earn money.

At that time, my mother's suitor water balance fibrillation belonged to the upper cap.

So my dad fought with his rival and fought a really hard battle.

The most ** rival is the mayor's son.

In order to wrestle with the mayor of the city, my dad immediately bought the third motorcycle in our city.

Converted to now, if you think about it, in an ordinary small city, if a car is so rare that only a few people can afford it, my dad is the ruthless character of the young and promising entrepreneurial party.

Actually, my mom lives in their dormitory, and my dad is about the same, both of them are walking for 10 minutes and then failing to go to work, and the car was really bought purely for pretending and driving.

In addition, TVs, electromechanical refrigerators, washing machines, and cassette recorders are almost ready.

Shelving may now belong to the top match in the marriage market.

Young children don't understand, back then, buying things was based on tickets, which was also called purchase qualifications.

That is to say, not only do you have to have money,You may also have to have a little person and a little way,In order to prepare these things,Back then, our TV was able to let people from a large courtyard come to watch the Sony color TV,Remote control。

Back then, just the qualification to buy a color TV had to kill a month's salary of ordinary people.

And the black and white one with a knob in ordinary people is already good.

And my grandfather also gave them a set of European-style mahogany furniture, which was really foreign in that era.