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You think that others are unhappy, in fact, you have no confidence in yourself, and your own thinking is more conservative and pessimistic, so give you a few suggestions:
1. Be able to put down your face, don't take your face too seriously in front of your friends, and don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself.
2. If you don't know your friends, then make fun of yourself and tell some ugly things about yourself, which can make everyone laugh and make people think that you are an open-minded person.
3. It doesn't matter if you don't speak, help others with your heart, a smile from others, a thank you will make you happy, and it will also make others happy.
4. Don't be taboo too much when talking to friends, think too much, you can talk about anything, and it's okay to gossip.
5. Don't live in your own world, learn more about the things around you, be good at observing the things around you, and have your own unique vision, so that you can talk to others and talk to others.
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Compare your heart to your heart and empathize.
Be honest with people you consider to be true friends.
In addition, at work, being helpful is more likely to ease interpersonal relationships.
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Hehe, that's a tough question. It's hard to make an introvert an extrovert in a short period of time, or to make a person who is not good at humor funny. Thinking in the negative may have a lot to do with your experience and the environment in which you grew up.
If you have to find some solutions, you might as well watch more humorous jokes and jokes. Blend in more with the cheerful crowd to feel that atmosphere, mobilize your less sensitive humor cells and increase your interaction with others, so that it should improve over time! Hope it helps!
I really hope you are happy!
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You can think of making the people around you happy when you're not happy – you're a good person.
The practical approach you are talking about is actually one word – do.
Thinking can't make the people around you happy, only if you do it in a down-to-earth way, will you be happy and happy.
Do what you have to do, do what you think is meaningful, do your part, do something to help others, be a responsible person, and be a person who matches your words with deeds.
Doing what you have to do, a sense of identity, a sense of accomplishment, blessings, admiration, these can make you happy and the people around you happy.
Regardless of introverts, unsociable and other unconfident words, introverts don't have to be extroverts in this world, and there is no statistics that introverts are happier than extroverts. You're concerned that others may have a better sense of humor than you, can say words that amuse you, and feel more welcome. Do you want to do that too?
Then do it, go to life, the wisdom of life can only be ** life experience and life accumulation, as long as you pay attention to your own growth, you also have a day to make everyone around you happy.
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If you are not humorous enough, read more jokes and laugh out on your own, so that you have the opportunity to talk about humorous things with others;
Happiness itself has no fixed scope, and if you don't make others suffer, it is actually a kind of happiness in itself. The most important thing is your mindset when looking at these issues. Generally speaking, a person who can bring happiness to others is first and foremost happy and full of sunshine.
You say that you have no money, no wife, no good job, these things are really very realistic, and you are easy to think negatively about the real environment, and you can find that these show that you are a person who knows how to think. So to break through this bottleneck, you have to have your own fun, no matter how poor people are, as long as they are not poor in spirit, they can live happily. Fun is spiritual sustenance, you can do volunteer work, help others, in this process you can understand your own value to this society, you can also cultivate your own interests, such as taking pictures, taking pictures of the joys and sorrows in your life, reading books, and enriching your spiritual food.
Exercising, while making yourself healthy, can also make you more cheerful. There are many ways, you say you want the workable way, there are too many ways, but the most important thing is that you have to really take action. If you move, life is alive, and if you nest, there is no hope in life.
Let's move.
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1. Comfort them when they are down; Show them a warm smile and give them a hug if the relationship is good enough.
2. Be a listener; Try to understand their thoughts and put yourself in their shoes. When they are talking, ask a few meaningful questions appropriately, don't interrupt them, and communicate with them when you don't understand something, don't say nothing.
3. Give a meaningful gift; Take the time to pick a gift that works for this friend. The more you put your mind into this gift, the more you can convey positive energy to your friends.
4. Lend a helping hand; Another way to make friends happy is to help them, not to do all the dangerous things for them.
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Let's go on a tour. Or get some sleep.
In addition, it is to really care about the friends around you, accommodate your friends more, and don't worry about small things, which hurts your feelings. Don't go to him when you say you need the other person, and contact him more often.
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