Why are men reluctant to spend 5,500 a month s salary on women?

First, they don't trust you and treat you like an outsider.

Men are willing to give you money, first of all, the feelings for each other must be very good, and they have absolute trust and recognition of you.

When a man doesn't trust you, he will never give you the money, because in his eyes, his wife is an outsider, for fear that one day you will take the money and run away.

So he will take interests very seriously and distinguish them with you very clearly, at least in his heart, money is more important than his wife.

Second, it's not about living with you sincerely.

In fact, if you want to know whether a man is really living with you, it depends on whether he is willing to hand over the money to you, how can a man who doesn't even feel at ease about handing over the money to you will live with you sincerely?

In his heart, he doesn't want to live with you for the rest of his life at all, and he feels that if he lives one day at a time, he really can't live it, so he will divorce, even if the divorce money is in his hands.

This kind of man would rather give the money to the woman outside to spend.

I don't want to give it to my wife, because if you give the money to your wife, how can you buy gifts for other women, to put it bluntly, you are a spare tire.

Of little consequence. Third, fear that you will spend money indiscriminately.

Men also have very "stingy" times, such as when their wives buy an extra piece of clothing, they will be very distressed.

This kind of man just takes money very seriously, and feels that he is more housekeeper and better at living than his wife, so he will definitely not hand over money to his wife.

There are also some women who really don't know how to live and spend lavishly, such as buying clothes today and bags tomorrow, and the money may have been spent in a month.

This kind of woman is really not suitable for managing money, spending money without moderation, I think it is more suitable for a man who runs a house.

Fourth, there is machismo.

Machismo men are more feudal in thought, and feel that the money in the family should be managed by men, and women are not qualified to manage it, and he has the final say in big and small matters, and women must obey his arrangements.

So no matter how much a woman runs a house and is thrifty, the man will not give you the money, because in his subconscious.

There is no such thing as a woman in charge of money, and a man should be in charge.

In fact, in a family, it is not the standard for women to manage money, but relatively speaking, women are better at managing money, delicate, diligent and thrifty, while most men spend money without moderation.

I don't think it's a problem who will take care of the money in the family, as long as the husband and wife trust each other, regardless of you and me, whoever is more good at managing money and living will be in charge of money, because in this way life will get better and better.

Instead of for the so-called dignity, two people fight for money, you win and I lose, and in the end, the relationship is weakened, and life is not good, why bother, the gains outweigh the losses.

Because women are idle and spend lavishly, men need to be careful in spending money to support their families. 5500 are given to you, drink the northwest wind to go.

First of all, it depends on the relationship between this man and this woman, if it is not a relative, it is just a friend relationship, then this man's approach is understandable. After all, the salary of more than 5,000 is not too high, and there is no need to often spend it on friends with ordinary relationships. If the relationship between the two is husband and wife or lovers, it is a different matter, regardless of the salary, you should not be stingy with your wife or lover, as long as it is a legitimate and reasonable consumption.

Because men are stingy, unwilling to spend money for women, they care about money very much, they are reluctant to spend their own money, and there is that this man does not like this woman.

I don't love her, for this reason, there is no why. If you really love her, let alone have a salary, you are willing to borrow money and spend it on women!

No. It's really not easy to make money now, women and men can't spend too much money and need to be saved. And women can't always spend men's money, they have to earn it with their own hands.

He didn't care about this woman in his heart.

It depends on what the relationship is, and whether it is worth spending for her.

Women should think about their men! Men have low incomes and are not voluntary! Men are working on it too! Although a woman is not a loser when she uses money like this, men will slowly lose confidence.

Actually, it's nothing, it's important to live a life, and happiness is the most important.

Forty percent of a woman's income is used to buy luxury goods, which is indeed a bit of a loser.

It's good to live differently and like it.

He doesn't understand you, or you really need to take care of his feelings.