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Foreword: There are many women who don't want to get married, and they don't like to take the initiative to socialize with the opposite sex, maybe they are afraid of rejection, or they feel that their crush is more conservative, so they don't have too much of the opposite sex around, and they haven't talked too much about love, but they are under certain social pressure, especially forced to marry by their parents, so they will choose to marry their male girlfriends when they are about 30 years old. Many women think that this is an option to try, at least to fool their parents, but it is difficult for their marriage to be happy for the following 3 reasons:

1. Male girlfriends know themselves too well.

Women and their male girlfriends know each other too well, they share everything, they say everything, they may have exposed their fatal shortcomings, and some shortcomings are not suitable for men and women's emotions, but if they say it and think that he is their best girlfriend, it is actually easy to let themselves have no chance of winning in the emotion.

And in the future, he will be very accurate by the other party, just because he tells his male girlfriend everything, if he becomes his husband, then he may have no privacy at all.

2. Feelings will be confused.

When the two are still friends, they are very close, and this intimacy is only limited to friendship, so the two people are still relatively simple, there is no emotional ambiguity, and there is no physical contact, and they are relatively polite.

But if two people are married, then it is easy to change emotions, it is difficult to turn friendship into love, this kind of discomfort will be very embarrassing for the two of them, even if they are under one roof.

3. The other party will be kidnapped by morality.

Many women marry their male girlfriends, just because they have reached the marriageable age, or just find someone to marry, no matter who he is, it is best to be with his male girlfriends, so that it is more reassuring, and then deal with their parents, which may cause a kind of moral kidnapping to the other party, because the other party does have a good relationship with you and does not reject you, but suddenly changes his role, and is disturbed too much by your parents, he will sacrifice a certain amount of personal freedom and privacy, Then he can't even be friends with you in the end.

Summary: Some women can naturally switch from friendship to love with their male girlfriends, and get along very sweetly. But once more women marry their male girlfriends, their marriages are not very happy, so they must be cautious about following this pattern.

Yes, because the two of us have been together for so many years, and we know each other very well and know what each other wants in their hearts, so we will definitely be happy.

I think I'll be happy because we know each other very well, and he's also a very careful person, so he should be happy if he gets married.

Yes, being able to be a girlfriend means that everything is compatible and accepted.

I think I'm going to be happy because my boyfriend knows me very well.

He only respects me and has no love, and the master said that our marriage may be harmonious and happy at 90 percent, which is already considered a marriage, but I don't know how to start this relationship, let alone how to be worthy of this careful relationship.

I can accept falling in love with a good friend, so that I know the roots, I will be very comfortable and happy together, and I will not be deceived because I don't know each other. I think lovers should get along with each other as follows!

1. Rely on each other to reassara thoughts.

Since two people are together, if they want to get along for a long time, the most important thing is to trust and rely on each other, if both people can't trust each other and rely on each other, then being together will only make each other very tired. We are looking for someone to be able to face all the storms together, not all the storms are brought by the other party.

2. Understand each other.

It's true that there is no empathy in this world, but we can understand each other. When two people get along, they need to think about each other and don't impose their own will on each other. Only by understanding and tolerating each other can two people get along better.

3. Be tolerant of each other.

When two people are together, you should not only appreciate each other's strengths, but also tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. Everyone has their own habits and shortcomings, so don't just blame others. Two people are together to help each other and constantly complete themselves.

No matter what the other person has lacking, we must tolerate and accept, and then we will work together to change.

4. Respect each other.

If you sneak through their phone today, and they also peek at your phone, and they don't respect each other, it will inevitably cause a round of quarrels. Everyone has their own space and privacy, and knowing how to respect and protect each other's privacy is the greatest respect for each other, so that the emotional life can be more harmonious.

5. Praise each other.

Anyone likes to be praised by others, because it is an encouragement and recognition of the other party, no one likes to listen to good words, and mutual praise can promote the relationship between the two very well.

Some people will be happy, some people will not.

In fact, there are no male girlfriends, pure friendship.

Has there ever been such a person in your life?

He is the type of person who is called "male girlfriend".

You can't remember when you started talking to him, maybe it was a long conversation on the train, or maybe it was a drink after that career promotion.

You don't know why you, who are introverted and don't talk much in the eyes of your loved ones, have become a chatterbox in front of him.

You are perfect and elegant in front of your boyfriend, but unscrupulous and heartless in front of him.

In front of your classmates, friends and even family, you can always pretend to be very strong, but you cry in front of him like a person.

When you are happy, he laughs with you, and when you encounter difficulties, he can always stand up, even if he can't help you, he will always be with you and comfort you.

You have good things and always want to share them with him, and you like to read books and walk with him.

You're going to get married, call him as soon as possible, and he, Piki, will also actively help you prepare, accompany you around, and sincerely wish you happiness.

You always introduce your friends to him, and tell him over and over again how to pursue girls, but you never thought of having a relationship with him that goes beyond friendship. Perhaps, in his words, it is: too familiar, embarrassed to start.

But slowly, you find that after marriage, your focus is on your husband, and his work is getting busier and busier, and your contact is getting less and less.

Suddenly, one day, you saw the news of his license in the circle of friends, he got married, but he didn't tell you, let alone invite you to his wedding, but you didn't have the courage to ask him why.

You are happy for him, and finally you are no longer adrift alone, and you finally have someone to take care of him. At the same time, you are also asking yourself, will you still contact him in the future?

How many times do you want to hit him **, but you don't have the courage; How many times have you wanted to message him and didn't know what to say; You're even fantasizing about walking down the street one day and meeting him.

If you also have such a male girlfriend or confidante, if one day he or she gets married, will you still contact him and her?

It may be because the two people are not actually in love, but just friendship, so they can't get married.

It's not good, because this kind of getting along mode belongs to the unfulfilled love, friendship first, and the time to get married is still a little bit away.

Not good. Because love requires a sense of mystery. And these two people are too familiar, and marriage is not suitable for them.

Of course, it won't be very good, because the relationship between girls and male girlfriends is really good. It will be very embarrassing to get married.

I think it's certainly not good for these two people to get married, because girlfriends are best friends, everyone is just good friends, no matter how good the relationship is, they are just friends, and there will be no such feelings between men and women.

No, if two people have a very good relationship and know each other very well, they may lose a lot of interest in life, so try not to marry a male girlfriend.

You can't get married, because even if they have a good relationship, it's an ordinary friend relationship, and you can't get married, and even if you get married, you will end up divorced and end up in nothing.

I also have a little experience of that kind of relationship, although the relationship between the two families is good, and they have traveled with each other, but that kind of relationship is still not quite the same as boyfriend and girlfriend, although they can also have some physical contact with each other and enjoy some romance, but that feeling is different from love.

A girl and a male girlfriend have a good relationship, which does not mean that the two are in love, and the two are suitable for falling in love and getting married. It's possible that you can just play together and not fit into life.

Yes, maybe he's too smart, he probably tested whether I like him, he thought I'd ask him after hanging **, he wanted to see me care about him, but I saw his tricks, deliberately pretending not to care about him, and he went home disappointed, I don't know if I'm too smart or he's too smart, so he didn't get what he wanted and thought I didn't like him, but I lost the opportunity to express love because of stubbornness. Sometimes I can't figure out whether a boy likes someone is restrained or presumptuous, I think he respects me very much, but he doesn't seem to love me, maybe I'm older than him, right?! And he didn't mind that the woman was older than him, so it didn't work out.

Now that they have a family, I guess they even have children, and I don't have that idea anymore.

Yes. In fact, there is no simple friendship between the sexes, if it is commensurate with a male girlfriend, then it is better to get married, anyway, the relationship between the two has come to this point, and it is almost time to get a certificate.

It's really good, and the relationship between the two of them is quite harmonious, it feels like a normal husband and wife get along, but the two sides will not become husband and wife.

Let the two of them get married, the two of them must be unwilling, because in the usual process of getting along, the two people are too familiar, and they don't want to be restrained by relatives, that is, they hope that it is best to eat and drink together through friends.

If two people don't have love, they won't be happy when they get married. Being friends is the best option.

I will be happy for him, and I will slowly distance myself from him.

In the relationship between opposite-sex girlfriends in real life, although the two people are very close, this relationship is also very fragile. When he finds his own happiness, of course I am willing to bless him, but I don't want to be an obstacle to his happiness in life, I will choose to take the initiative to alienate.

As one of his close friends, I would certainly be happy that he had found happiness. I had a friend of the opposite sex when I was in college, and the relationship between the two of us has always been good, and when I knew that he was married, I was very happy for him. As a good friend who has known me for so many years, of course I hope that he can be happy, and now that he has found happiness, there is no reason why I should not bless him.

Maybe there is a trace of regret in the blessing, but at the moment of joy when he is about to get married, I will carefully hide all negative emotions and sincerely wish him a happy life.

That's the last thing I can do for him, and our relationship could change a lot later in life.

I will be happy for him, and I will choose to stay away. When he walked into his marriage, my friend of the opposite sex was definitely not a good existence in the eyes of his lover. In order not to affect his happy life, I will take the initiative to stay away from him, and in the future we will become ordinary friends, and then slowly become strangers.

I can understand his lover's thoughts, after all, whoever loves someone with a close friend of the opposite sex will be extremely anxious and feel extremely uneasy.

Although I will regret this friendship, I still wish him happiness. I think the pure friendship between the opposite sex may just be the self-righteousness of the two of us.

When a friend walks into marriage, I will definitely be happy for him. But when the opposite sex girlfriend gets married, while being happy for him, I hope to fade out of his life as soon as possible, which is the best ending for our friendship.

Everyone should have a sense of proportion, and this is perhaps the most important reason why the opposite sex can become girlfriends.

Of course, I will be very happy, because the other person has achieved the happiness I want, which is something that should make people happy.

I'm not going to be happy for the other person because I think I still had a chance, I used the other person as a spare tire, but now I have lost the other person.

I won't be happy, I'll be very disappointed, because the other person won't have time to hang out with me anymore.

I will definitely be happy for her, after all, I have a very good relationship with her, she is happier and happier, and I will feel very happy in my heart!

When my best friend of the opposite sex gets married, I will be happy for him and send sincere wishes to wish them happiness in old age.