I always felt that my classmate was scolding me, whether I had a problem or he really scolded

Patient Information: 19 years old.

Description of the condition (time of onset, main symptoms, etc.):

I always felt like the boy in my class was scolding me. Once, I gave candy to my classmates. Three boys sat behind me.

Because my arms couldn't reach his desk, I put his candy on his table. But he didn't give him a table to share with him. I took it all myself.

I'm still thinking about whether this will make him think that I didn't give it to him. I'm depressed. I heard him at the same table with him, and I didn't know who to scold, saying, "I've seen something cheap, but I've never seen someone so cheap."

I wondered if it meant me, and then I thought it shouldn't. After class, the two of them ate candy at the same table, and I saw him sitting there alone. When I ran out of sugar, I gave him another piece of chewing gum.

Then he said to his tablemates, "I give people candy, why don't you give it to others" They all laughed, and I thought it was all right. Later, in the second class, I heard him say to his tablemate, "She must have heard me scolding her, and she felt that she was scolded so badly, so give her one quickly." Oh, he actually thought like this, and I realized at that time that he was really scolding me.

Then he saw me and avoided me. Don't dare to look me in the eye, don't look at my eyes, don't talk anyway. Of course I hated him very much, how could he say such disgusting things.

Maybe I've already provoked him, many boys in the class like me, and he used to be courteous to me, praising me for being beautiful and so on. He also said, "I'm good to other boys, and he's jealous." He also said that he always peeked at me when I wasn't looking.

Actually, I noticed it too. Anyway, after that, he kept avoiding me. I met him and didn't look at him.

It's a stranger's attitude. He would still look at me sometimes, and I would pretend I didn't know. No one speaks anyway.

When I saw him, I thought of his disgusting words, and I avoided him. Later, I felt that he was always scolding me. Our seats change every week, and he's not far from me.

I don't know exactly what he said, but my brain translated it into something like "cheap" because I think it's really insulting, and I'm very sensitive and afraid of being scolded like that. But as long as he says something that I can't hear clearly, I always hear it scolding me. I can't hear clearly, judging by the one or two words I hear.

How can I get help:

When he looked at me later, I thought he must have scolded me, and I wanted to see if I heard it, what kind of expression. I don't know, it's painful. I'm not sure he's not scolding me.

So I've been forbearing. It's so uncomfortable. Don't know what to do anymore.

Ever had ** conditions and whether there was a history of allergies and genetic diseases:

In the next few days, I had a fight with my tablemate, and sometimes I couldn't hear what he was saying, and I thought he was scolding me for being so unpleasant. Occasionally I hear him say a word or two, and I don't know what it is. Anyway, the brain translates to words like cheap.

But I'm sure my table mates felt like I misheard.

This is not a symptom of mental disease, the current social pressure of all sizes gives people a very uncomfortable feeling, most of the guys have not lived freely in the past, and are more constrained by work or many aspects, it seems that you are still a student in school and conflicts between classmates are not a rare thing, but commonplace, some people always love eggs and pick bones, you can directly ignore it, there is no need to fight with this kind of person, and hurry up!

Then you go and talk to him well Be a good friend The difficulty lies in this point If he is friends with you, how can he scold you If you don't want to, there is always a reason There is a reason There is a right and wrong If you are wrong, you will correct it If he is wrong, you will forgive him generously or despise him in person, as long as you don't always think about it in your heart and think about it, the key is to think about it and make yourself comfortable.

Hello, this is a psychological problem, if it seriously affects the normal life, you should consider seeking help from some psychological institutions.

Summary. At this time, you should continue to reflect to the teacher, if the teacher does not act, you can reflect to the leader above, you must not do it, because he scolds you for being reasonable, you must be reasonable, you can't do it, this kind of student who likes to scold people should not pay attention to him, reflect to the leader, he will get the corresponding punishment, if you do it, the wrong hand will hurt you, it will be difficult to get it, you must not do it.

At school, a classmate kept scolding me. I scolded every day, and I scolded me for my class problems, and I scolded when I met (usually I returned it), and sometimes I did it. How to deal with it?

Every day. Tuan Yu and yesterday they scolded me while walking, went to the toilet and scolded each other, and then attacked me first. I didn't even have time to exert my strength and hit me several times.

Finally pull it away. This is not something that can be solved by saying a few words from him. I've been scolding for two months.

The teacher also talked about him during class, but it didn't work. I've had a lot of chances to hit him in lethal positions, but I don't want to get into trouble. What to do at this time, I only reacted with the teacher two or three times.

Do you want to continue the reaction. What should I do at this time?

At this time, you should continue to shout and report to the teacher, if the teacher does not act, you can reflect to the leaders above, you must Zheng Li do not do it, because he scolds you for being reasonable, you must be reasonable, you can't do it, this kind of scolding students don't pay attention to him, report to the leader, he will get the corresponding punishment, if you do it, the wrong hand will hurt you, it will be difficult to get it, you must not do it.

He has been scolding for two months, and he has also scolded in public for illegal and criminal behavior.

There is insulting behavior.

If the situation is serious, it will be a violation of the law.

Which item is constituted, it is to be abusive as soon as it is encountered, and it is also in class. Sometimes I find faults.

Is he still underage?

is underage. Insulting and insulting others is a violation of the Public Security Administration Punishment Law when it does not constitute a criminal offense.

You can go to the leader to reflect, don't do it yourself.

Since the beginning of school, he has received several punishments (vocational high school), plus this. Can you ask the school to expel you?(Yesterday he cautiously attacked me in the toilet, but quickly pulled away.) ）

OK. If the punishment is sufficient, it can be expelled.

Reflecting with the teacher, he regarded it as invisible. Is it OK to call the police while scolding?

If you call the police, it is not very useful, because he is a minor, and this matter is not too serious, it is best to want the school leaders to reflect it.

If the situation is serious, you can choose to call the police to force the treatment.

When the police arrived, they told him the truth.