Don t be afraid of losing, losing is actually the beginning of gain, do you know why?

Don't be afraid of losing, losing is actually the beginning of gain, do you know why?

If you have recently lost something, it could be a relationship, it could be a job, or anything else, don't be afraid, because this could be the beginning of the get.

Because it's human instinct not to want to lose. When you get used to something, you don't want it to be changed. But trust me, change can be realized. It's like the wave of layoffs in the 90s.

A large number of people have lost stable but visible jobs, but this has also created a group of self-made entrepreneurs, who have been forced to start their own businesses because they have lost their jobs and have a better life.

In fact, compared to the sadness of loss, the biggest sadness is missing out. You lose a job, but instead you get an opportunity to rethink what kind of job is more suitable for you, **insufficient, **promoted. When you lose a relationship, you get a chance to examine yourself and experience a new relationship.

Jobs. I got cancer at a very young age.

He said that he spent every day as if it were his last, so he also brought us many products like works of art. You see, we will all end up losing our most important thing--- life. But when the loss comes, of course, you can be filled with sadness, anger, and complaints, but you can also see what kind of unexpected opportunities you can get from this loss, and turn the loss into gain.

Just like Jia Pingwa.

As he said, "A person who can live, or a person who has achieved success, actually understands two words, and that is."'Reluctant'。"Life is a ticket without a return journey, and we cannot go back to the past from the moment we are born.

We are pushed forward by time all the way, while constantly losing and gaining, losing innocence and gaining sophistication.

Lose your childishness and get mature. Gain is the beginning of loss, if there is no regret, probably not really lived. There is no unavoidable pain, there is no sinking that cannot be ended, and all that is lost will return in another way.

For example, if the person who made you let go of all your pride and accommodate is gone, it doesn't matter, there is another person who will help you rebuild your pride and protect you for the rest of your life. Every heartbreak you have ever had, in the end, someone else will come to help you pick it up piece by piece and piece it together until it was the same.

Because when you lose, you actually provide yourself with a new beginning, so that you can give yourself a chance to try new experiences, so it is the beginning of gain, there is gain and loss, and there is also a heart to gain, so a person does not need to be entangled in losing something, because at this time you may gain something more beautiful.

It is because when we lose one thing, we can have the courage to gain another, so there is such a saying.

The first is that you yourself are strong enough, and then there is the fact that everything is insignificant in front of you. If you don't care about it sometimes, then these things will get you.

Because when you are afraid of losing, it means that you do not fully trust the other person, and there is still a certain gap between you and the other party.

Because you're no longer afraid, you don't care, you're strong, and the more powerful people are, the easier it is to attract others, so it's easier to get.

What is said in the original text"Don't be afraid to lose in order to really get it", in fact, expresses a state of mind. Only by getting rid of the nervous, anxious, and attached state of mind can we truly gain and have. Specifically, there are mainly the following aspects:

First, let go before you can grasp it. This is true both physically and interpersonally. If you are too afraid of losing, you will only worry too much and have it, and lose nature.

And if you can let go first and no longer fear the results that you may lose, your needs and requirements will no longer be limited to owning, but more based on your inner expectations and passions. At this time, it is easy for things that are truly compatible to come and stay.

2. Have an open mind and a bright mind. When we are no longer self-bound because of a certain outcome, our mindset will be more open and accommodating. In this way, we can embrace sudden changes and convince ourselves to live with any outcome and process. At this time, opportunities often come one after another.

3. Have a firm belief in self-worth. Only when we truly affirm and believe in our own intrinsic value can we not force ourselves to let go and resist and lose. We know that we will eventually meet someone more suitable, so we can let go, and we can happily accept and enjoy the process in front of us.

Fourth, separation from the object and self. Letting go of attachment and attachment is to understand that what you get is temporary in itself and that there is no real thing"All"。So the arrival or non-arrival of these external things should not shape our state of mind at all.

Accept it with the fate, let go with the fate, and you will be able to wander in it without being tired.

In fact, while owning something, we have actually tacitly agreed to the possibility of slipping. So, it's good to have it now and cherish it, and you don't have to be in the future"Lost"Photographed.

In general, we are not afraid of losing to really get it, and it also tells us a very important life lesson: only by letting go first, can there be more possibilities. Only by abandoning obsession can we gain some kind of spiritual freedom. The inside can remain whole only if it is separated from the outside.

So, don't get too attached to it"Get", you should let go of your expectations and anxieties, and just live as you wish. The meaning of life is not how much you have, but whether you can draw solace and joy from it.

May you open your heart and be separated from all things and self.

When you stop chasing what the outcome is, it's a real relief.

It's definitely not right to do that, because if you don't start, you can't lose anything, but you can't get anything you want.

I don't think it's right to prepare for the skin like this, and you can't choose not to start because you're afraid of losing it, if you don't try, you won't be able to grow sooner or later, and you'll be hurt in the end.

This must be the wrong thing to do, that is, because of the fear of losing, Lu Jian never started, so what is the difference between it and loss, to change this point of view, only by trying, can you know how not to lose.

It's not right to do this, because no matter what happens, we must be brave to face it, not retreat, only after choosing the socks to choose we know right and wrong, and the choice is never good to know whether it is right or wrong.

Because of the fear of losing, so choose not to start, this approach is definitely wrong, I think people should still have the courage to try, don't choose not to start because of fear, maybe in this it will make us brave, or need to work hard to take the first step, so as to reap happiness.

That's not right, because you can't refuse to do something for fear of losing it.

This is not right, even if you are afraid of losing, you should be brave enough to try, if you don't try, you will never start.

No, people should try more so that they don't have regrets.

Don't be afraid of losing, it's not yours after all.

1. The heartbeat is only a moment, and the heartbreak is only a blink of an eye.

2. Are you not persistent enough, or am I not deep enough for you?

3. Don't stop, or you won't be able to help but miss you.

4. In life, there are people who can make you smile even when they are not around you, which is really good.

5. If you can't find the right person, in fact, it is likely that you can't change your wrong self.

6. When I think of it, thousands of rivers and mountains are skillful; A thought is extinguished, and the vicissitudes of life.

7. Sketch life, what you are looking for in your life'It is this magnitude that is tranquil.

8. Good friends won't let you do stupid things alone, they will always be with you.

9. Some people are lonely in the bustle, and some people are bustling in the lonely.

10. If a person is important to you, then distance is no longer important to you.

11. If it doesn't belong to you and no longer belongs to you, there's nothing to be sorry about.

12. The average of a person's life should be said. Ten thousand lies, the easiest lie to blurt out is: "It's okay, I'm fine." ”

13. Don't blame others for always hurting you, ask yourself why you would allow this to happen.

14. I only pay once, and if you lose it, it's gone.

15. What does it mean to be brave to know that you are afraid, and you are brave to move forward with tears.

16. Suddenly find that some people will have a particularly good relationship with you at a certain stage. After that, I didn't contact for some reason.

17. The depth of your thoughts determines the happiness of your life.

18. If you have to wait until one day you are injured and figure it out, then you think of my benefits and want to be good to me, I am not uncommon.

19. Don't make any promises to me easily, I'm afraid I'll take it seriously!

20. Sometimes, although I can figure it out, I just can't accept it in my heart.

21. We really don't have to hold it that much, we are not that important to the world.

22. I'm not lonely at all, because my world is full of people who are alone.

23. Let go is, the misunderstanding that I have always wanted to explain before, now I feel that it doesn't matter.

24. There is always a person who has always lived in the bottom of his heart, but disappeared into life.

25. Don't be afraid of losing, what you can lose is not your eggplant after all.

26. Behind the tears is another kind of understanding, and behind giving up is a kind of fulfillment.