Will a woman who has children out of wedlock end well?

Women who have children without getting married are often easily despised by their in-laws' family or those around them. In the old society, it was even more intolerable by many people, and generally speaking, the end would not be too good, but it could not be ruled out.

This will not end well, after all, it should be detached from the previous cognition, no matter what the purpose should not be, the child needs a complete home, otherwise there will be many defects in the future, especially character.

There are really a lot more women who have children out of wedlock now than before. Because now it is easy to have a child out of wedlock. Some people don't want to get married, but they want to have their own children.

In fact, this method is not good, because in a single-parent family, it is not good for the mental health growth of children. Children are prone to low self-esteem. Boys, in particular, tend to be feminine if they do not have their father's education and influence around them.

It's hard to say, according to the law, there is generally no good result, unless you meet the right person.

Children are the hope of a family, the continuation of life for parents, and the most beautiful testimony of love.

Getting married and having children is something that most people have to go through, whether it is for a mother or a family, the appearance of a small life will make people feel happy.

The times are advancing, thinking is also changing, and now many young people are living together in love, so there are many unmarried pregnancies.

For some people, getting pregnant out of wedlock may not be a problem, but it's not the majority. In life, I believe that many people have heard, seen, and even experienced unmarried pregnancies.

Some people will say that this is for love, some people say that it is fate, but I believe that some people can't accept it, so what happened to those unmarried and pregnant girls?

Many examples in life tell me that they end up tasting the bitterness of life.

Not long ago, I heard a friend talk about her sister, who worked in a bubble tea shop after graduating from high school, and it was at that time that she met her current boyfriend.

At that time, I was young and my income was unstable, so I didn't think about getting married. Later, they had a little savings, and my friend's sister wanted to get married, but her boyfriend never mentioned the word marriage.

Just a year ago, my boyfriend proposed to move in with my sister so that I could save rent and be together every day, and my sister agreed.

That is, five months ago, my sister was pregnant, and she should have prepared for marriage according to normal thinking, or if she met a scumbag, she would have to kill the child, but her boyfriend was neutral and couldn't beat the child and didn't say marriage.

The reason for him to do this is very simple, because his sister's family asked for a bride price of 100,000 yuan, and he felt that it was too much, so he dragged on like this.

To put it mildly, my sister can't beat the child when she is a month old, and even if she kills the child, it is not good to find her in-law's family again, so she can only marry him like this, and in the end, her sister's family will always regress in the bride price.

You think that getting pregnant out of wedlock is love, but what if it is your one-sided love? Then the child in your belly is not the crystallization of love, but a threatened bargaining chip.

In the end, you chose to regress for the sake of your children and yourself, but don't you think such a pillow person is too terrible? Will you be happy for the rest of your life for decades?

I know a young lady. I'm not entirely sure if it was born out of wedlock, but there should be a 9 percent chance of it.

Her family and personal conditions are very good, she has also studied abroad before, and she has accepted the Western concept of freedom.

This young lady has high requirements for spirituality, and she feels that she must find a soul mate in order to have an intimate relationship and enter marriage together. It's a pity that apparently she didn't find such a soul mate.

As she got older, one day she came to me out of the blue to ask about holding a baby.

Because my family has a doctor in the obstetrics and gynecology department, she asked me if the hospital has any healthy babies that are not wanted by parents and can be adopted through legal channels.

At that time, I had a conversation with her and learned that as she grew older, her parents saw that she had no hope of starting a family and hoped that she could have a child. She thought about it for a while and felt that she would like to have a child, so she began to gather information on how she could legally have a child. She considered two ways at the same time, one is to do it manually and give birth to one herself, and the other is to raise one.

However, as an unmarried woman, it is very difficult to operate in these two ways in China, so she also went to learn about some situations abroad.

After a while, she jumped ship and went abroad. Before leaving, we had a casual meal, and she whispered to me that she decided to go abroad to do it, whether it was adoption or artificial, and she was going to go and then decide slowly. Her parents are fully supportive and will help her with the child.

Then after a long time, I didn't see her have children, and it was all some work dynamics. I thought she had given up on the plan in the end. Until one day, I suddenly saw her and her parents with the child's **.

I didn't ask her if the baby was planned, Plan A or Plan B. But I think it's probably because there's no news of her getting married or having a significant other.

As for her family, they don't care, they are the main force with the baby. The young lady has a strong family background, and her career development is also very good, and she seems to be living a very happy life at present.

I had a schedule to go abroad for a meeting and planned to get together with her, but when the epidemic came, I never went out. Her baby is also very good, and we usually occasionally exchange parenting experience.

Overall, in her case, it is estimated that it is still not easy to operate in China, and I don't know if there have been any changes in the policy in recent years.

The three outcomes of a woman who is pregnant out of wedlock are as follows:

1. Reluctantly abortion, both physical and psychological damage. In the face of her boyfriend's irresponsibility and sadness, abortion is the first and helpless choice for many women, and it will cause heavy psychological baggage after abortion. 2. The matter was revealed, and the family's face was gloomy.

When the matter of unmarried pregnancy was discovered by family members, relatives and friends, not only could they not hold their heads up in front of everyone, but even their parents would be involved, and they were pointed at by neighbors and their faces were disgraced. 3. Have a child alone and become a single mother. Many women have repeatedly caused the endometrium to become thinner and thinner, and the difficulty of getting pregnant again has skyrocketed, once the abortion exceeds the physical limit, if the abortion is repeated, it may lead to the inability to conceive a child for life, and in this helpless situation, I have to give birth to a child and become a single mother.

Legal analysis: Citizens who do not comply with the relevant laws and regulations to give birth to children shall pay social maintenance fees in accordance with the law. If the social maintenance fees that should be paid in full within the prescribed time limit shall be paid in full, a late fee shall be imposed in accordance with the relevant provisions of the State from the date of non-payment; If the payment is still not made, the family planning administrative department that made the expropriation decision shall apply to the people's court for compulsory enforcement in accordance with law.

Legal basis: Population and Family Planning Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 18: The State encourages a couple to have two children. Where the requirements provided by laws and regulations are met, arrangements may be made to arrange for the birth of another child. The specific measures shall be formulated by the people's congresses of provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government or their standing committees.

Ethnic minorities should also practice family planning, and the specific measures shall be formulated by the people's congresses of provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government or their standing committees. Where there are inconsistencies between the provisions on the reproduction of children between the provinces, autonomous regions, or municipalities directly under the Central Government where the husband and wife are registered, they are to be applied in accordance with the principle of benefiting the parties.

Article 41: Citizens who do not meet the requirements of Article 18 of this Law to give birth to children shall pay social maintenance fees in accordance with law. If the social maintenance fee of Shixin is not paid in full within the prescribed time limit, a late fee shall be imposed in accordance with the relevant provisions of the state from the date of non-payment; If the payment is still not made, the family planning administrative department that made the expropriation decision shall apply to the people's court for compulsory enforcement in accordance with law.

This will lead to a lot of irresponsible.

The reason why more and more people have children out of wedlock is because some young people are exposed to love too early and have a certain lack of values for married life, which leads to more and more such phenomena. For many young people nowadays, almost all of them are in contact with love very early, and it is difficult to hold back love in the process of contact with each other, which leads to unexpected things. In addition, I am also full of curiosity about all kinds of things, which will also lead to more and more such emotional groups.

Many young people who are now in love don't know the difference between falling in love and getting married, and for some people, they fall in love for the purpose of getting married. However, there are also some young people who have not reached the age of falling in love, and they begin to try to fall in love, but they are lost in love and cannot extricate themselves, which will largely lead to the phenomenon of having children out of wedlock. Because out of curiosity about love, he didn't plan for many things in the future, but was satisfied with the existing status quo, so he did such an uncontrollable thing.

And when it happens, it is impossible to joke with one's body and a new life, so the phenomenon of having children out of wedlock is becoming more and more common.

Parents don't talk about their own experience in falling in love, and children often learn relevant knowledge on their own. At the beginning, he will keep it a secret, and in the future, he will let it go with the flow. For two people who are in love, their values have not been formed.

And in such an ignorant flower season, many people will start to fall in love when they are in school. At the same time, there are many people who want to start falling in love in adolescence, and there are also some people who kill themselves because of their curiosity, so the values of early withering are very important. But in any case, the practice of having children out of wedlock is indeed a bit too hasty, because there are indeed many bad consequences, such as the responsibility of the marriage, etc.

So I think it's still underconsidered.