Why do most of the girls who get pregnant out of wedlock have bad results?

I've seen people who have children out of wedlock, but they don't usually end up being particularly good.

Because it is obvious that the child is born out of wedlock, that is, the two people do not have a more formal legal procedure, that is, the two people give birth to the child directly without getting married, so the child actually has no name at this time.

So at this time, even if the child is born, the child will not be very formal, and there is no way to settle the household registration and other situations like others.

And the two people are not married, and it is a burden to give birth to a child, and it may make the relationship between the two people suddenly bigger, because it is possible that they are not ready or do not know what to do after having a child, so the road ahead may be a little worse.

And having a child out of wedlock is actually a test for the two families, if the conditions in the two families are very bad or there is a person who has a very bad attitude towards the feelings of the two children, then I believe that the two people will not be able to go very far, and the children will be a problem in the future.

So that's why most of the children born out of wedlock do not have a good result, because this kind of illegitimate children themselves are uncivilized, so it is especially good when it is difficult to do some things again, and it is a great test for both men and women.

And having children out of wedlock is actually the biggest victim.

It's just a child, and the child didn't make any mistakes, but in the end, it's very likely that some bad things will be put on this child.

Because I can't get the blessing of my family.

This depends on the individual's situation, some of them marry their sons; Some will be unprepared and beat the child to continue dating; And some didn't end up together. So depending on the situation, the end result will be different. But I think girls should still protect themselves, do a good job of protective measures, and try not to get pregnant before marriage, because if there is no stability, there is not enough certainty, and in the end it is themselves and innocent children who will be hurt.

Now there are indeed many unmarried girls who are pregnant, but in fact, because they believe in the boy they like too much, they don't take protective measures when dating, and they get pregnant with a child. If you are not prepared, most couples choose to go to the hospital to get the child out, which is not good for your health and may have a certain impact on the relationship between the two parties. If Fengzi gets married, it's okay, both parties will have their own families, and the child will be born smoothly, and it will be a happy family of three in the future.

But if both parties are not prepared and choose to beat the child, or the two are not married in the end, or even separated and become strangers, it is very cruel to both the girl herself and the innocent child. And the boy who left I don't think he was hurt much, and it was the girl herself who was hurt the most.

So in my opinion, girls are still self-respecting and self-loving, don't get pregnant easily, although you can't avoid wanting sex during the relationship, but the most basic thing is to do a good job of protective measures. Since you are not fully prepared, don't easily conceive a child, this is responsible for your own body, and it is also the responsibility of a girl for her own life.

Children are the hope of a family, the continuation of life for parents, and the most beautiful testimony of love.

Getting married and having children is something that most people have to go through, whether it is for a mother or a family, the appearance of a small life will make people feel happy.

The times are advancing, thinking is also changing, and now many young people are living together in love, so there are many unmarried pregnancies.

For some people, getting pregnant out of wedlock may not be a problem, but it's not the majority. In life, I believe that many people have heard, seen, and even experienced unmarried pregnancies.

Some people will say that this is for love, some people say that it is fate, but I believe that some people can't accept it, so what happened to those unmarried and pregnant girls?

Many examples in life tell me that they end up tasting the bitterness of life.

Not long ago, I heard a friend talk about her sister, who worked in a bubble tea shop after graduating from high school, and it was at that time that she met her current boyfriend.

At that time, I was young and my income was unstable, so I didn't think about getting married. Later, they had a little savings, and my friend's sister wanted to get married, but her boyfriend never mentioned the word marriage.

Just a year ago, my boyfriend mentioned that he wanted to move in with his sister, so that he could save rent and be together every day, and my sister agreed.

That is, five months ago, my sister was pregnant, and she should have prepared for marriage according to normal thinking, or she had to kill the child when she met a scumbag, but her boyfriend was neutral, and he couldn't kill the child and didn't say marriage.

The reason for him to do this is very simple, because his sister's family asked for a bride price of 100,000 yuan, and he felt that it was too much, so he dragged on like this.

To put it mildly, my sister can't beat the child when she is a month old, and even if she kills the child, it is not good to find her in-law's family again, so she can only marry him like this, and in the end, her sister's family will always regress in the bride price.

You think that getting pregnant out of wedlock is love, but what if it is your one-sided love? Then the child in your belly is not the crystallization of love, but a threatened bargaining chip.

In the end, you chose to regress for the sake of your children and yourself, but don't you think such a pillow person is too terrible? Will you be happy for the rest of your life for decades?

There is no girl who is willing to accept it, she gets pregnant before she gets married, what if her boyfriend is not sincere to you, how do your family think of you in your mother's house.

I don't think the ones around me are good. Many people get pregnant before marriage, it's just a curiosity or a man's immaturity. After all, many people just start to get in touch and then they don't understand each other, so the two families forcibly form a new family.

Just a lot of things look in different directions. So it also led to a flash marriage and a flash divorce. Or if there are also abandoned children, they will be thrown to the old people.

There must be some good ones, but some people are not very good