In a relationship, the heart is relatively hard, why is it also an advantage?

Because it is not easy to get hurt. Hard-hearted people are more rational, and they can quickly get out of the predicament when they encounter emotional setbacks, and the injuries are relatively small.

Because your heart is hard, you won't want to go back when you quarrel or break up. The other party also knows your personality, so they don't dare to hurt you easily.

Because if you are soft-hearted, it will not only hurt yourself, but also cause harm to the other party, for example, the other party always asks you for money, if you always give it easily, it will make the other person lazy, and you will slowly lose patience, and the relationship will break down.

Because the heart and intestines are hard and there is less damage. Others can't control it, and you're very soft-hearted, and you will only let others take advantage of you.

Because hard-hearted people are usually more decisive when making decisions, which is not only a protection for themselves, but also a harm to others, there is nothing wrong with being hard-hearted.

Hard-hearted people will not have emotional disputes that are cut and tied. Such a person, when it is difficult to choose between the two, will quickly cut through the mess and choose the one that is most beneficial to him, and the state of cutting off the other party is also good for his life.

Because if you have a hard heart in the relationship, then you can better protect yourself, and you will also have a good impression in the hearts of others.

Summary. Hello, the so-called hard-hearted is nothing more than that this person is more rational, and some people are not very kind by nature, and some people have suffered some injustice, psychological distortion, and they are more indifferent to the world. has experienced too many winds and waves, and has seen too many people's warmth and coldness, and his heart is cold, so he has become hard-hearted.

What hard-hearted people generally go through.

Hello, the so-called hard-hearted is nothing more than that this person is more rational, and some people are not very kind by nature, and some people have suffered some injustice, psychological distortion, and they are more indifferent to the world. has experienced too many winds and waves, and has seen too many people's warmth and coldness, and his heart is cold, so he has become hard-hearted.

Some people are born with a hard heart, they are naturally cold-blooded, more indifferent, they don't like to care about others, and they don't like others to care about themselves, such people are just withdrawn by nature.

Hard-hearted people generally experience too much disappointment and despair, and even turn back to injury. I saw through the warmth and coldness of the human world and looked down on the misery of the world.

Life is a process of slowly hardening the heart. I often say that I am not a good person, but I just learn to be a good person.

At the beginning of man, nature is good. In my eyes now, it can be understood that people are like a blank sheet of paper at the beginning, and the balance of good and evil is drawn by the acquired, not the inherent goodness. Parents are kind, the environment in which they grow up is kind, and children are relatively bad in the world.

Some people mature early, and they are no longer naïve in looking at problems.

Compassion is not in charge of soldiers, love is not in charge, righteousness is not financial management, and kindness is not an official.

Life is a process of slowly hardening the heart.

When the sensibility slowly becomes rational, the limbs are tempered by life. Why not harden your heart? Some people should not be lenient with themselves and be harsh with others.

People with double standards are always disgusting to me. For example, we want you to be childish and innocent. I also hope that you will be bold and mature.

Guo Degang: If you don't understand any situation, I advise you to be a generous person, and you have to stay away from him. Because when lightning strikes him, it will affect you.