An old man in Wanli District lost his grandson playing mahjong and slapped himself on the street.

There is an old man who lost his grandson when he was playing mahjong, and he started playing mahjong at 3 o'clock, and found that his grandson had fallen at 6 o'clock. In the process, he was completely immersed in the joy of playing mahjong, and he couldn't find his grandson on the street, and he slapped himself wildly on the street. The child was eventually found, and the grandmother's behavior was particularly infuriating.

Taking children is responsible, children are more naughty, full of curiosity about the world, anything is a toy in their eyes, and they will play everywhere. So, what exactly is the beginning and end of the incident? Let's find out!

First, the old man lost his grandson by playing mahjong

People who like to play mahjong, even on the night of the Chinese New Year's Eve, have to spend it in the mahjong hall. For them, playing mahjong is everything, there is no mind to think about anything else, as long as they are on the table, mahjong is his parents, and there is nothing in their eyes. This grandmother forgot her grandson because she played mahjong, and she could forget a few hours, proving that her mind was not on her child at all.

Playing mahjong in the chess and card room every day, has become the habit of the elderly, if there are old people at home who love to play mahjong so much, or do not hand over the child to them, such a person said that the next time will not be committed, maybe the next time will still lose the child.

Second, has the child been found so far?

Because they called the police in time, the relevant staff saw the child in red clothes on the road, so they took the child to the relevant department, fortunately the child was found, otherwise the old man would live in regret for the rest of his life. People who love to play mahjong are a mental illness and have an obsession with playing mahjong. Occasional mahjong can also be a small bet, the child can be lost for three hours, proving that this grandma is a gambler, and this situation will still happen in the future.

The child was in the mahjong room for a long time, and the air was not good. Therefore, no matter what way you think, you can't put your children in the hands of the elderly who love to play mahjong.

In short, young people should take responsibility for raising their children and not leave them to others. If you really don't have time, you can hand it over to the custodian center, at least you won't get lost.

Nowadays, young people are busy making money to support their families, so children are often brought by the elderly, which is also a very common thing, and it is understandable that the elderly take care of children full-time and occasionally play cards for recreation. But an old man in Jiangxi lost his grandson in order to play mahjong, and then slapped himself in the street.

An old man in Wanli District, Nanchang District, Jiangxi Province slapped himself on the street** sparked heated discussions, and then a person familiar with the matter revealed that the old man was playing mahjong next door, as early as 3 hours ago, someone told the old man that the child was gone, but the child's grandmother was still addicted to mahjong, and did not realize the seriousness of the matter, until 3 hours later, the child's grandmother really realized that the child was indeed lost, and then slapped himself emotionally out of control.

If you only look at the label of "the old lady lost her grandson by playing mahjong", I always feel that there is an absolute causal relationship between "playing mahjong" and "losing her grandson". But in fact, "the loss of my grandson" was just an accident. In other words, "the carelessness of the old lady" corresponds to "the loss of the grandson".

The main reason for this consideration is to emphasize that it is not easy for the elderly to bring their children to their children. We can imagine that if the child is not found or hurt in the end, not only may the old lady never forgive herself, but her children's family relationship may also be affected.

The aunt was wearing a blue-gray down jacket and a pair of black boots on her feet, which looked very foreign. The aunt was holding a mobile phone in her hand and kept stopping passers-by to ask about something. After the pedestrians shook their heads and left, the aunt stood alone, a little at a loss.

I don't know what suddenly came to mind, the aunt began to fan her cheeks constantly, as if she was very remorseful, and couldn't help crying as she spoke. The pedestrians on the side of the road were also a little unbearable when they saw this, and they stepped forward to ask, only to know that the child had lost it.

Is the old man's act of slapping himself worthy of sympathy? Originally, the child could not leave the sight of adults, and in the case that the child was gone, he still insisted on playing mahjong, and only regretted it afterwards, which is not a qualified parent, or even an irresponsible parent. Fortunately, the child was found, but if he didn't find it, would you slap yourself and the child would come back?

Found it, because the old man played mahjong for a long time, causing the child to be lost, and someone had already notified her three hours ago, and she didn't pay attention.

Now that the child has been found, it is really incorrect for the old man to do this. I was very anxious at the time, and I was still slapping myself in the street.

At present, the child has not been found, and the parents are very anxious and have called the police, but they have not yet obtained valuable information.

At present, the child has been found, and the local traffic police have helped the old man find the child, and this old man is really irresponsible.

Nowadays, many young people like to leave their children in the care of their parents, because they are busy with work and cannot accompany their children, at this time they will send their children to their parents to send their children to and from school, or help take them during the holidays. So what are the potential safety hazards of an old man in Jiangxi playing mahjong and losing his grandson and slapping himself on the street? <>

First of all, I think it is very sad that this old man slapped himself on the street, because he is old after all, so there may be a lot of poor care, and he may accidentally lose the child when he is taking care of the child. These old people have their own things to do, they may have to catch up with some of their old friends and play mahjong, at this time if you bring their children to them, they will forget that they are still taking children, because they forget when they catch up with their old friends. After all, it's old.

The second is that the elderly are very forgetful, so I don't think the elderly can take care of their children. Originally, the old man was slow, and then the child was very lively. When they get along, the old man will not be able to catch up with the child as soon as he runs around, and the child is very easy to get lost at this time.

Besides, I think parents should let them enjoy their families when they reach a certain age, instead of handing over your responsibilities to them, because they are older and have more experience, and they have to help you take care of your children in their old age, which I think is very bad, so I think you can choose to hire a nanny if you can, because it is more reliable for a nanny to take care of children than for the elderly. Then if you don't have the time to take care of the child, then you should not have a child, since you gave birth to him, then you are responsible for him.

Because the old man is old, the old man with the child will be powerless first, easy to lead the hail bureau to cause the child to be injured, and secondly, the old man with the child has some bad habits that can not be corrected, which will affect the child's deep health, and finally if the old man who loves to play with the child may lead to the child being abducted, if there is a Lasong condition, it is recommended to take the child by himself, which is helpful to the child's physical and mental health.

It is easy to lose the child, let the child Xingkuan get injured, etc. It is easy to lose the child, and the energy of the elderly cannot take care of it, and the child may be lost with silver; Let the child pretend to be injured at the banquet, and the education method of the elderly is relatively backward, which will lead to the injury of the child.

It is easy to spoil children, be obedient to children, and easily lose children, which will lead to psychological disorders in children, cause family conflicts, and so on.

The grandson was recovered from the police station.

An old lady in Jiangxi took her grandson to play mahjong, the old lady lost her grandson at 3 o'clock, found it at 6 o'clock, and finally found it at the police station at 8 o'clock. Although the grandson was found, the old lady should still be criticized. Fortunately, the child was found, and if she couldn't find it, the old lady should apologize for her actions.

First of all, playing mahjong and taking grandchildren is very irresponsible. Some people may say, then you have the ability not to let grandma take grandchildren. This statement is moral kidnapping, in traditional Chinese culture, that is, grandma should be allowed to take grandchildren, according to traditional culture, this is the obligation of grandma.

It is not possible for the parents to fulfill their traditional obligations after the children have fulfilled their traditional obligations. In this way, it is too double standard. No one wants to be a double-standard dog, and people who say this kind of thing that have the ability not to let grandma take grandchildren should also shut up.

Through this old lady's incident, we learn three lessons from it.

1. Be sure to wear a positioning device for your child:For example, positioning bracelets, positioning ankle rings, if the child can't find it, you can locate the child through the smartphone. It can be said that the positioning device is the last straw for the child, and if the child is really lost, it is expected to rescue the child quickly.

If you don't have a location, it will be difficult to search for your child.

2. Don't take your children to entertainment venues:Because the entertainment venues are mixed, everyone has them, maybe if one is not careful, the child will be gone. As a responsible parent, parents who care about their children will never take their children to mahjong parlors and other entertainment venues.

3. Be sure to trust yourself to your parentsIt is necessary to make parents aware of the heavy responsibilities and risks they shoulder, let them be vigilant, do not let them think that taking care of children is just an easy and pleasant thing, and give them a certain amount of pressure, so that they do not be too self-righteous and take their children seriously. As long as you pay attention to the three points on or off, you can avoid the loss of the child and improve the safety of the child.

Her grandson has not yet been recovered, and this grandmother is very obsessed with mahjong when she is playing mahjong, and she has not taken care of her grandson's own safety at all to cause the child to get lost. Since the grandmother promised the parents to help take care of the child, she has to pay a certain amount of responsibility to the child.

Got it. The elderly must be attentive and responsible when taking care of their children, and the safety of their children is related to the happiness of the whole family.

I found it back, and I finally met my grandson at the police station.

I don't think it's safe to give the child to the elderly, and I should take him well according to whether the old man has confidence in the child in his daily life.

As far as my own family situation is concerned, I am very relieved to hand over my children to my parents-in-law. Because my parents-in-law are very attentive people, their love for their grandchildren is from the heart, so they take care of their children in daily life, which makes me feel very relieved to hand over my children to them. However, for the elderly who do not pay much attention to taking care of their children in their daily lives, they still do not feel at ease to hand over their children to them.

1. What is it?

There is an old man in Jiangxi who loves to play mahjong very much, and usually takes his grandson to the mahjong gathering place to rub two handfuls. On December 18th, the old man still took the child to play mahjong, she thought that the child would be fine when he played, so she concentrated on playing, but when the game ended, she learned that her grandson was gone. It was already 6 o'clock in the evening, because in winter, it was getting dark very quickly, and the old man couldn't find his grandson, so he slapped himself on the street and stomped his feet in a hurry.

In the end, fortunately, it was the traffic police who saw the child and sent him to the public security bureau to avoid the accident. <>

Second, I will rest assured that I will hand over my children to my trusted elderly.

Seeing this scene, do you really suspect that this grandson is born to your grandmother? Even if you want to play mahjong, you can't go to the place where the child can walk around, and for 3 hours, you don't find out that your grandson is gone, which is really hateful. Fortunately, nothing happened to the child, otherwise the family would have been shattered, and the son and daughter-in-law would have complained about the death of the old man.

Therefore, I think that if there is such an elderly person in the family, it is too irresponsible to worry about handing over the child to her. But in general, there are still a lot of attentive old people, just like the old people in my family, and I am very relieved to bring my children to them. <>

3. If your own conditions allow, it is best to take your own children.

In a sense, it is better to bring children to whomever than to bring them personally, whether it is from the safety aspect or from the child's education considerations, it is far better to take children by yourself than the elderly with children. Of course, the actual conditions do not allow, and we can only hand over the child to the elderly, but the premise is that the old man must be responsible and take the child well. <>

Not all old people are so unreliable.

We can't be killed with a partial generalization.

If you don't have a sense of responsibility, or if you don't have enough enthusiasm for your grandchildren, you should bring your own peace of mind, and vice versa, you don't need to worry too much.

I don't feel comfortable letting the children be brought by the elderly, because some of the elderly are really sloppy now. Although they didn't mean it, if the final result was like this, they couldn't accept it.