How are the post 90s generation who experienced typical campus rebellion doing now?

graduated in 16 years, and this year's salary has just risen to 6,000. After working for a year last year, I feel that people are a few years older, and the salary is from 2,000 to 10,000, which fluctuates too much, and it all depends on sales. If I hadn't shouted to resign, I guess my boss wouldn't have given me a salary increase and kept me.

The major is so important, I really regret studying fashion design, first of all, my family conditions are not up to that level, and I don't have the experience of going to a good university and studying abroad. Secondly, this line of work is really tiring.

Married, has a daughter, lives in a small city in the 18th tier, a full-time mother, because no one helps me take care of the children, it's okay, I have a house but no car, I am ready to save money to buy a car, and the pressure in the small city is small.

With a monthly income of 10,000, I quit my job, my monthly income was minus 3,000, I want to live a different life, I occasionally miss him, and occasionally I don't want him. I probably took the joke about being 30 serious, so I wanted to get married before I was 30, and I didn't want to make alternatives. In the past two years, I gave myself more time to do what I wanted to do, and then forgot about him.

I opened a small shop in the city, the business is okay, I have my own family, I am not rich, and I am okay.

When I was in junior high school, I dropped out of school and didn't study, because I didn't like to study, so I started my own business and opened a small restaurant.

94 years old, a boy who did not go to high school and college, only studied a technical secondary school, and entered the society in 2012. At that time, I was studying in Xinyu, Jiangxi, a city of secondary school, as a salesman selling building materials, selling wooden floors, riding a small electric car every day in the newly built community of the city, the sun was dark, the basic salary was 1800, and when it was good, I could earn 3000+ without food and accommodation, and the rent would be 500, and I had to solve three meals a day. Now that my girlfriend has broken up, I decided to come to Shanghai to break through, I don't want to do sales anymore, I am really tired and tired, and I am ready to try to work as a general worker in the factory.

You don't have big dreams, just work hard and live well.

Married, the child is two years old. Life is getting worse and worse than I want. Only children are I can be happy.

My husband is busy every day and can't make money... The relationship between the two of them with her husband also slowly faded. It's like who's who's.。。

I want to get divorced, but I still have children. If there are no children. I think I might be able to pluck up my courage ...

After a few years of floating out, I suddenly found that I didn't make any money and didn't have a girlfriend. From time to time, I have to face the urging of my family to get married. . . It's hard to put into words!

At present, I am working as the most difficult general worker in a factory, with an annual salary of about 7w... 7788 is deducted a month, and there is not much money left. Seeing the age increasing year by year, helpless.

I work every year, and I work overtime every day like a monkey. There is no reason to work overtime without pay, and to be scolded every day. When I saw the boss bowing his head and paying his salary, he shook his head.

At the end of the month, I was worried, and I don't know when I came out.

Prices are high, housing prices are high, everything is high, and wages are not high. I want money but no money, I want a house but I don't have a house, I want a car but I don't have a car, I want a girlfriend but I don't have a girlfriend. What a terrible word.

Personally, I feel that I am barely like a person, except for the pressure of a little more, after graduation, I went to a tutoring agency, and the trial lecture was more excellent and gave a monthly guarantee of 6000 (that is, if you don't earn 6000, you will send 6000, earn more), but there are requirements, if you don't earn 6,000 for three consecutive months, the guarantee will be canceled, and you will start from the base salary of 2,005, obviously, autumn is really not a peak season, only in August barely passed 8,000, in addition to taking advantage of the company, of course, the guaranteed salary in November was canceled, Then I changed to the next one, resigned after more than three months, ran around to attend classes, and opened a small place. Today, it has been almost a year since I started my business, and my parents gave a down payment to buy a relatively partial house (Chengyang), with a monthly payment of almost 5,000 yuan, and the rent is 1,700 yuan a month (20,000 yuan a year, because I want to live with the object, and I also have to consider that someone may come to the family for a few days, so I rented a two-bedroom apartment) The cost of food and accommodation at home is basically paid for by myself, and I don't want to let such a big pressure be passed on to others, especially the daughter-in-law who has not passed the door, usually not very saving, and I have to get a grilled fish or something in a day or two (grilled fish is cheaper, About a hundred yuan for a meal), I watched all decent movies (daughter-in-law good movies). This year's New Year, I have 10,000 yuan left in my hand, and I tossed it for a year, and it's hard to say whether I'm doing well or not, but I came over, I didn't wronged myself, and I didn't ask for money except for the down payment.

I think I'm still alive, but it doesn't seem like anything big will change, and it's the ideal state to spend all of my life and leave the object behind.

High school does not allow early love, mainly because of the fear of delaying students' learning, and also for fear that they will be immature and guided by bad emotions, but there are still some high school students who are secretly in early love, and they are usually criticized and educated when they are found to be in the faith, and even more so they are punished by demerits, and the price is not small, even so it cannot stop the throbbing of some adolescent students.

And in college, love can be above board, and there are many students who have this plan in college, but in the college campus of Lukong today, single people abound, many students have never been in love in four years in college, and there are many students who have good looks and conditions in all aspects.

In the matter of love, usually boys take the initiative more, there are many beautiful girls on the college campus, and even if you don't fall in love, you can become friends, but many college boys would rather play games in the dormitory, and they don't go far out of the dormitory to make friends.

College students would rather live in dormitories than make friends, why are they so "rebellious"?

Not only boys, but many girls would rather stay in the dormitory than go out to meet new friends, naturally there is no way to fall in love in the dormitory, high school does not allow non-early love, college let and single, can't help but wonder why college students are so rebellious?

One of the reasons for the analysis is "involution", it is said that today's college students are really easy to mix, and they will graduate after playing for four years, but you don't see everything.

Today's college students take college as a high school a lot, not only to take care of their studies, to ensure the results of each subject, but also to continue to enrich, improve the overall quality, but also to participate in various organizational activities, enrich personal resume, a week down there is no free time at all, finally can have a relaxing time, boys play games, girls are chasing dramas, but not just don't want to go out.

During their school years, many people go through a rebellious period, which is a process of self-exploration and independent thinking. However, many people will worry that the rebellious period will have a negative impact on the future, so is the rebellion of the student era really the result?

First of all, the rebellious period can help people develop the ability to think independently. At this stage, people begin to question everything around them, including family, school, society, and so on. This kind of questioning and challenge can help people develop their own independent thinking ability and no longer blindly follow the opinions and opinions of others.

This ability is very important in the future in the workplace and in life.

Second, the rebellious period can help people understand themselves better. At this stage, people begin to explore their interests, values, and life goals. This self-exploration can help people better understand their strengths and weaknesses and thus better plan for their future.

Finally, the rebellious period can help people adapt better to society. At this stage, people begin to come into contact with different people and things, learn to get along with people and solve problems. This social skill is also very important in the future workplace and life.

Of course, the rebellious period can also bring some negative effects, such as strained relationships with family members, declining academic performance, and so on. However, as long as rebellious emotions can be properly channeled and managed, the positive effects of the rebellious period can be maximized.

Although the rebellious period of student life will bring some challenges and difficulties, as long as it can be properly guided and managed, it can help people form independent thinking ability, understand themselves and adapt to society, so as to lay a solid foundation for future development.

Rebellion in school is usually a form of adolescent facing growth and independence. Although at the time, rebellion may be confusing and annoying for parents and teachers, in reality, some rebellious behaviors may also lead to good results.

Here are some rebellious behaviors that can yield good results:

1.Gaining independence across the self-key: Rebellion is sometimes an adolescent's attempt to explore the world, acquire knowledge, and become independent.

Through this behavior, young people may discover their potential and succeed in achieving their goals. There are many examples in life, such as certain entrepreneurs and artists, who have become leaders and successful people through unconventional and unconventional ways.

2.Enhance self-awareness and self-confidence: Through rebellious and rebellious behaviors, young people will also become aware of their ability to think independently, thereby improving their self-confidence and self-knowledge.

3.Pursuit of self-worth and meaning: By rebelling against traditional authority, young people may also gain a deeper understanding of the shortcomings and improvements of existing social systems and authority. This awareness helps them to invest more meaningfully in their future lives and studies.

In short, rebellious behavior during the student period is a process of growth and development, which does not necessarily bring bad consequences, and of course it also needs to be properly guided to avoid the emergence of extreme behavior and criminal behavior.

Those students who often contradict the teacher, insult the teacher, and shout at the teacher when they were students often have two trends in their later development:

1.One is to go astray. These students may be rebellious, not good at accepting authority and norms, and prone to falling into crooked paths such as crime or drug abuse.

It may also be that you are not good at obeying management at work, and it is difficult to balance and settle down in a job for a long time. Although such students have a spirit of reflexivity, they do not translate well into positive motivation, so their future is often worrying.

2.The other is to be a successful person. This type of student is also relatively strong and assertive, but through self-adjustment, he can turn his rebellious spirit into a positive motivation and innovative spirit.

They show a strong sense of responsibility and initiative in their work, have strong leadership potential, and are able to achieve considerable success and achievements in their careers.

In general, the future development of students who abuse and defy teachers depends on whether they can properly transform their personality and attitude. If you can't change, it's easy to go astray; If you can adjust yourself to a sense of responsibility for your work and career, and be self-motivated, you may become an excellent leader and a successful person.

This also reflects the important role that teachers play in the development of students' lives. An important function is to teach students how to adjust their attitudes and turn their energies into positive motivation, positive behavior and positive values, so as to maximize their potential and become useful people in society. This requires teachers to both seriously point out students' mistakes and gently guide them to change in the teaching process.

Therefore, if the rebellion of the student period is not transformed in time, it is likely to become a stumbling block in the path of life; And if it can be channeled and harnessed properly, it can be extraordinary. This depends not only on the students' own consciousness, but also on the teacher's educational guidance.

Rebellious behavior as a student can lead to different results, depending on the specific situation and personal attitude. While rebellious behavior is often seen as a problem behavior or a negative behavior, in some cases, it can also lead to positive results. Here are some of the possible impacts:

1.Self-exploration and independence: Rebellious behavior can help teens develop independence and self-awareness. By questioning and challenging existing social norms and authorities, they can better understand their values and goals.

2.Pioneering and innovative thinking: Some rebellious behaviors reflect a questioning of traditional methods and concepts, which may lead to innovative ways of thinking. This challenging attitude and way of thinking may lead to new perspectives and problem-solving.

3.Build confidence and resilience early in the face of challenges and opposition, adolescents may develop the qualities of self-confidence and resilience. They will learn to stand on their feet and stand up for what they believe.

However, rebellious behavior can also have negative consequences. If such behavior results in harming others, violating the law, or undermining personal growth, then it can have a detrimental effect on the individual's future. Therefore, it is important to find a balance when rebellious, to ensure that while exploring the self and challenging authority, it does not hurt yourself and others, and to build good relationships and a sense of responsibility.