What kind of people do you like to work with?Be friends?Working together?

In the real society, people are becoming more and more hypocritical, and almost everyone wears a veil and acts as an insincere self.

The word "friend" has become more and more abstract. The meaning of friend has different concepts in the eyes of different people.

Friends, no matter how long they have known each other, no matter how many times they have met, as long as they treat them with sincerity, they are friends. Some people, when they use friends, try to compliment, and when they achieve their goals, they scoff at them, and even laugh and sarcasm in front of other friends, in fact, this is not a friend. It's just a tool you want to take advantage of when you're struggling.

Friends, not every day to contact, not everything to report to you, friends, the longer the more true, the more plain and pure, the more sincere the longer.

A true friend, he won't laugh at you when you're making a fool of you, he won't look at you coldly when you're in trouble, he won't be jealous of you when you're good, and when you tell him your secrets. He won't spoil you. When you are sad, he will have sincere words to persuade you, and when you are worried about work, he can accompany you to relieve your boredom.

A true friend, only one step worse than a lover, only one level lower than your parents, a true friend who can accompany you through your life until forever...

A true friend, when you are in a difficult situation, will not just take it as someone else's business and listen to the joke. A true friend will try to help you, understand you, and pull you along

A true friend who never forgets your name and what you do.

True friends, let alone scolding, because friends respect each other, even if there is any contradiction is held in the heart, at most it is estranged from the relationship, and it will not be scolded, if you can scold your friends, then you are not real friends

True friends, there are many sayings, in my eyes, this is true friends, if a person has two such friends, then I feel that this person is really happy and lucky. However, lucky people are always very rare. `

I like to be like this in the workplace. Colleagues work together: 1. Integrity, with clear standards for judging right and wrong.

Integrity is the most basic moral quality, and an upright person has his own halo and is respected in the group. Because of this respect, most people are willing to associate with him and hope that he will "do justice" at certain times. And those "good old people" who are submissive and have no position seem to offend people on the surface, but in fact they are not popular.

2. Professional, with a high level of business. A master in the business, showing a talent that is different. The admiration of his colleagues will also be converted into liking.

Colleagues may need to learn from him, ask him for advice, or become dependent on him for his business skills. 3. Enthusiastic and willing to help others. This type of person is good at observing the needs of colleagues, enthusiastic, proactive, dedicated, and willing to provide help to others within their ability.

Warm-hearted people "Whoever doesn't like it, maybe one day they can help themselves." Fourth, humor brings happiness to the group split celebration. Humor is actually an ability, which depends on the activity and resourcefulness of the person's thinking.

An action can bring a burst of laughter when everyone is tired, and in a word, it can resolve the embarrassment caused by colleagues' mistakes. People with a sense of humor are charismatic and approachable. 5. Listen and know how to pay attention to the hearts of others.

Listening makes the other party feel valued, and people who are good at listening must also be good at communicating. Grasp the scale, listen to the ideas of colleagues, pay attention to the hearts of each other, and give rational analysis and suggestions. This kind of person is called a "warm-hearted person" by his colleagues.

6. Tolerance, being able to face the shortcomings of others correctly. Everyone will have shortcomings, a tolerant person, with a very big heart, does not care about trivial things, is good at understanding others, and gives the impression of being reliable and safe. 7. Talent, plus points for people in the workplace.

In addition to their own work, people who have certain specialties in culture and art are easily welcomed by their colleagues. This is the attraction formed by differentiation, and it is also the embodiment of the fact that culture and art can be more recognized by the public. 8. Be neat and tidy, pay attention to personal image.

Handsome guys and beauties are generally popular in the world, because it is human nature to love beauty, but the appearance and body are natural. Then, what can improve the image is to pay attention to words and deeds, clean and tidy, and reasonable collocation. Those who pay attention to the external image of the limbs convey a neat and fresh impression to the team and win the favor of their colleagues.

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What kind of people do you like to work with?

Publisher: He Yingjiao.

Publisher: He Yingjiao.

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Article **101Smart people.

The smart people mentioned here are people who are sensible and understand common sense. It's so cool to get along with such people, you don't need to talk nonsense, you don't need to mumble secretly, they will make all their concerns and principles clear. This is to be innocent and innocent, to be an open and bright person.

It is better to fight with smart people than to quarrel with foolish people. Confused people will mess around, the reason does not make sense, the meaning cannot be understood, and the understanding is not at the same level. So, for this kind of person, it is better to stay away.

Article **202Excellent people.

This kind of person has his own goals, and has the right way to achieve them, is willing to work hard, does not complain, knows what he should do, and can do what he needs to do well. This kind of person does not necessarily have a high IQ, but his EQ must not be low. Regardless of the setbacks and achievements ahead, they can maintain a decent mindset and keep moving forward.

In general, this kind of person has a long-term vision and has the right way of thinking. Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black, and with such people, you will become better and better.

Article **303Reliable people.

It doesn't matter what you say, it matters what you do. Reliable people are united in words and deeds, and actions speak louder than words. With such a person, you will be down-to-earth, rest assured, and do not have to worry about the future.

The person who coaxes you to be happy with words and then does not follow, do not let him succeed in front of you a second time. Because that's simply an insult to your intelligence.

Article **404Altruistic people.

This kind of person does not only think about himself, he will think of others, he is a person with kindness and love, in fact, he is also a person with wisdom. Because, when you help others improve, you actually improve yourself; When you bring value to others, you will reap double the sense of happiness. In fact, altruism is the greatest self-interest.

As a simple example, if you feel the same as the feeling of giving a beggar on the side of the road a dollar, and the feeling of picking up a hundred dollars in the crowd, will you feel the same loss? After losing the money, there is a sense of satisfaction, and after the quick time of getting money, there is a deep uneasiness in the bottom of my heart.

Everyone is both an individual and a social person, and it is inevitable to interact with people in life.

What kind of people are you willing to associate with in life?

This is a problem that everyone has to face.

As the saying goes: things gather by like, and people are grouped. This is true, but it is not absolute.

Although they are divided into groups, people who are not in a "group" do not die in old age, and sometimes, people who are not in a "group" have closer contacts.

Some people say that the essence of human interaction is value exchange, which does not sound very pleasant, but it reveals a truth.

The interaction between people is really not as simple as ideally, and there is too much utilitarianism mixed in it, but some people like to give it a beautiful whitewash.

In fact, the utilitarian nature of communication is not terrible, as long as it conforms to public order, good customs, and moral norms, it is not impossible to take what you need. I'm afraid that some people will collude with each other because of their interests and do things that hurt nature and reason.

It is easy for people to interact with each other normally in life, but it is difficult to get along sincerely and for a long time, and there are different requirements for the object of interaction.

If you want to further develop the relationship with the person you are dating and create a career together, then the requirements for both parties will be higher, and only people with the same ambition and philosophy can plan and work together, otherwise it is impossible. As Confucius said: The Tao is different, and it is not the same.

Without the same aspirations and goals, it is impossible to get along and work together for a long time without the same aspirations and goals, and without a common ideological foundation, what should we do? It is best to follow your own aspirations.

Of course, the interaction between people in daily life cannot always add utilitarian calculations, but it is undeniable that many people still have their own considerations about who to associate with and who not to socialize with.

Most people will grasp a principle: socialize more if they get along, and socialize less or try not to socialize if they don't. Some people attribute their willingness to associate with another person to the fact that the personalities and tempers of both parties are not on the right path, and they want me to say that the important thing is whether the "three views" are compatible.

In life, there are generally several types of people I like to associate with: understanding people and being grateful; Have a sense of justice and compassion; Positive and self-improving; Tolerant and generous, informal; Bright and open. I am the same kind of person who has these characteristics, and I am willing to deal with such people.

As for other types of people, I dislike and even despise them from the bottom of my heart, such as: blindly complaining, only knowing how to take; There is no sense of right and wrong, and there is a lack of empathy; negative pessimism, self-pity and self-pity; Small-bellied chicken intestines, calculating; Flies camp dogs, ill-intentioned. These people, even though I have no moral purity, still psychologically rejects associating with them, and even more so in action.

Fu Xuan, a writer in the Wei and Jin dynasties, said: Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black; The sound is clear, and the shape is straight.

There is a saying in Confucius's Family Sayings: Living with good people, such as entering the room of Zhilan, and not smelling its fragrance for a long time, that is, it will melt with it; and ungood people, such as into the abalone, for a long time without smelling its smell, but also with it.

Since ancient times, interacting with people has been an important life topic, who to interact with in life, and how to interact with people.