How can parents get along with their children in order to cultivate their relationship as soon as po

As long as you can accompany you often, you can develop a good relationship, intergenerational relatives are a very common phenomenon, they themselves are very good, very easy to have good feelings, a little effort can be better than the father-son or mother-son relationship.

One is to respect the child, parents should not be in a hurry, let the child be alone when he wants to be alone, and appear in time when he needs his parents; The second is to give children high-quality companionship, accompany children wholeheartedly when playing with children, and do not accompany children while playing with mobile phones.

Spend a lot of time with your child. The children appear intergenerational because their parents do not have a lot of time to spend with their children, so there are intergenerational parents.

Recently, a reader complained that the husband and wife had cultivated a lot of good habits with children. As a result, not long ago, because I was too busy with work, I took my grandmother over to take care of the children's daily life, but the old man doted on the children too much.

The couple couldn't stand it, so in the end they had to communicate well with the old man, so that they could send the old man back to his hometown and take the children again.

However, the child's original personality is sometimes gone, not only does he not have good habits in life, but he also becomes arrogant and has a lot more temper. As soon as something is not satisfactory, it will make a big noise.

"Raising babies across generations" is a very common family phenomenon in Chinese society. Usually because parents are busy with work and can't stay with their children all day, they have to ask the elderly to come and help take care of the children.

But most grandparents or grandparents, because they cherish their grandchildren very much and take care of their children in every detail, lead to "spoiling" them: children are not allowed to do a little simple housework and do everything for their children. Even when parents are educating their children, the elderly often come forward to "protect" their children.

As a result, many young parents have a headache and even conflict with the elderly because of their children's educational problems, which they think are not doing well. However, the gap between the two generations is not conducive to the development of children.

At the end of the day, there is no right or wrong when it comes to educating children. The two generations experienced different cultures and educational concepts, which led to differences in parenting methods.

Parents should be aware that the elderly actually love their children as much as they do. With this sense of identity, we should communicate with the elderly.

Some parents will try to reach an agreement with the elderly, for example, when educating their children, if the elderly are not used to it, they choose to avoid it. Of course, everything must be done in a good and correct way of communication. If parents and the elderly have an argument in front of their children, the children may misunderstand their parents and think that they have a bad attitude towards their grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents; or under the influence of this, slowly develop unfilial behavior; Or they may think that adult quarrels are caused by their disobedience and misconduct, and thus develop low self-esteem.

Of course, there is nothing trivial about children's education, there are no small problems. Parents should strive to create a harmonious environment for him so that it is more conducive to his physical and mental development.

If you encounter a spoiled child, you should be more patient with the child. The child's personality can be coached. For problems that are emotionally uncontrollable, parents should not be too eager to stop or blame, but should first learn to calm themselves down, and then teach their children how to face emotions, so that children can recognize their own problems, and then educate their children.

Just go with the flow, it will not affect the harmony of the family, but will help you take care of the children and reduce the pressure of your life.

I think I can make myself better with my child, give him more love, and naturally become closer.

Spend more time with your children. Intergenerational parenting is often formed because parents do not look after their children and give their children to their parents to take care of. When there is a situation of intergenerational parenting, parents should get along with their children more and care about their children.

Parents should educate and guide their children correctly, start with small things, and cultivate their children's good attitude and self-discipline.

Parents should be listened to, because parents are the guardians of their children, that is to say, if something goes wrong with the child, the first thing to find is the parents, not the grandmother of the next generation.

I think that parents should be understood, and then they should be grateful to their parents for bringing you children, and the young and old should have the same concept of young children.

The child's parents should be the subject of the child's education, as the parents are the first person in charge of the child.