What to do if you don t dare to face life 20

Thick-skinned, you are good to people, what others ask you to do for him, you do it seriously, because your congenital conditions are not good enough, then you must be kind to people to make up for your congenital deficiencies, and you treat anyone, to greet you with a smile, as the saying goes, reach out and don't hit the smiling person, you are good to people, good temper, good character, then in this way, they can't talk about you, there may be a small number of people will talk about you, but the people who say more still have to say that you are good, I hope mine is helpful to you, so that you can face the reality as soon as possible, Huh,

In fact, people are born with their looks, and they were given to you by your parents! You shouldn't have any bad influence on yourself because of your looks. If others say it, they will say it, and the mouth is born in others, and you can't force others not to say it!

And you also found your own shortcomings, then you should change your own shortcomings, specialties can be learned, you don't have the courage to stand in front of others, because you lack self-confidence, the brain is not flexible is what you think, as long as you think more about this shortcoming, you can correct this shortcoming, lose the shortcomings of the three or four is even easier to correct, as long as you carry a small notebook, write down important things, it's OK! If you don't know how to think about others, you try to think about the people around you first! Selfishness is something that everyone has, as long as it's not too selfish!

I used to think like this, but have you ever noticed that the people around you, no matter what kind of people they look like, will be liked and loved. This shows that in the eyes of a certain person or some people, she (he) has an attractive side to the other person. So you have to be confident in yourself first.

I believe you have a lot of good things that you just don't see for yourself ...

Think about opening up a little, be strong, be confident, follow your own ideas and let others say go, God will always have mercy on the weak.

Then exercise, you can always change, and you can change it the day after tomorrow.

Starting tomorrow, smile in the mirror every morning and say to yourself, I'm going to be confident, I'm going to believe in myself. In fact, appearance is not important, confidence in yourself is the most important thing. And don't give yourself a hint that you're inflexible, be nice to others.

Learning to help others from life is actually a beautiful life.

Think more about your strengths and be more confident. While learning to care for others, you should also care for yourself. I believe that life will get better and better.

Just do your own thing.

Don't care what others say.

The direction of the headwind is more suitable for flying, and there is always something in the world that moves you, go and observe.

In fact, people's biggest enemy is themselves, they dare not try anything, they are afraid of failure, so they choose to escape, and numb themselves through short-term pleasures again and again, but they blame themselves and are unwilling, so the vicious circle.

First of all, you asked a question, which proves that you have a plan to face it, and I hope that others will give you some advice, which is just a good direction. At the end of the day, you don't have a clear understanding of yourself, what you want, what you are doing, what you are capable of.

Recognize yourself, from the above words, it can be seen that you have low self-confidence (feel that you have failed, escape the status quo), lack of career planning (it has been a long time since graduation, and you are still wandering), and you are at a loss for your ideals (what is a decent job?). And maybe this statement)

Recognize the situation, you have graduated for a long time, if you don't hurry up to find a job, you will make yourself too out of touch with society, and then your university knowledge, academic qualifications will become a page of waste paper (to let them play their own role) The most important thing for you in front of you is to first find employment and then choose a job, in the work, study, dig out what you want to do. And now the biggest problem, China's terrible employment army, under the premise of employment pressure, it is quite important to find employment first and then choose a job (to support yourself first, the most important).

Recognize your abilities, you have a graduate degree, work conscientiously, and have a certain degree of professional ability. However, many workplaces now require candidates to have a certain amount of work experience, so even if you are on par with others, they will consider people with rich work experience first.

In the end, the most important thing is to accept yourself, admit your imperfections, stop running away (the reason for escaping is that you don't want to accept reality), and then start to change, transform, and live as you should be (life is not so long, don't waste on preparation and hesitation).

Hope you can make a difference.

You should learn to be confident and try to say to the mirror every day that I can do it! You can also watch inspirational movies such as: Kuiba, Desert Island Aftermath, Wind and Rain Harvard Road, Pentium Age, Iron Fist Man...

Courage and perseverance, true intellect is the ambition of fortitude. — Napoleon.

Don't ask yourself to make every step you take is right.

I only ask myself to be unapologetic every step I take.

Life is enough!

Find the value of your existence while you are alive! Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once!

To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life!

If you can't find the value of your own existence.

Just think about it. Myself.

Give yourself an account.

To parents. Friend.

The one I love the most in my heart is explained to her!

Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset.

Smirk. Draw a perfect picture of your life...

The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself. Meaning is working towards one's own goals.

Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy. On the contrary, if a person does not have an ideal, what to do is to do it for others to see, and he can experience what the finch turns, people can not even live these can not go to the friends of the year to experience, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you are okay to close is to feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, It's a day to be unhappy, so why not be happy every day."

3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.