Hello everyone, my current girlfriend is 7 years older than me, can we last long ??

Updated on amusement 2024-02-09
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It won't last long, when you reach your 30s, you are in your prime, she is already an old woman, she looks like an old woman, even if you are still embarrassed to dump her, the eyes of the world will make you unable to raise your head. You have to think carefully and don't harm others and yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Whether you can be together or not is not up to others, the most important thing is to depend on the two of you. Many people may tell you that as long as two people truly love each other, age is not a problem at all. That being said, the reality is that things are not as simple as we think.

    A very simple example, also my own experience, I had a boyfriend who was born in the same year as me, but he was two months younger than me, because he was shorter, so he looked smaller, and I was like a big sister.

    When I first started with him, I didn't think our age was a problem, but after being together for a long time, the problem came out. I went out with him, sometimes I didn't even dare to hold hands, because I was afraid that others would look at me, as if telling me that I had found a very small boyfriend, and over time, this psychology would affect me, and of course our relationship would be affected by this, and in the end, I still couldn't accept the reason that he was younger than me, and I proposed to break up.

    Of course, everyone looks at the problem from a different angle, and the idea will naturally be different, depending on how you and your girlfriend look at it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To put it bluntly, you shouldn't ask us this sentence, because you should ask the gods.

    It's like, if you ask us, who knows if it's going to be sunny or cloudy in 100 days?

    I don't think anyone will be able to make it.

    Some vows, this is what girls love to hear.

    But it's not a sentence that can be sure of future feelings.

    Whether it can last for a long time can only be said that the more you work hard, it may last for a long time.

    With less effort, it may not last long, or it may not last as long.

    Where there is marriage, there is divorce.

    You first think about what conditions you have to be together for a long time, and then talk about whether you can last long.

    If there are no conditions, then what can be talked about for a long time?

    For example, whether your parents oppose it or not, there is a lot of difference in work income, status, whether the two personalities are suitable or not, life details, etc., if you haven't thought about it, then don't say anything for a long time! These are all built on a long-term basis, don't get married after 3 days of a big quarrel and 2 days of a small quarrel, any little thing in life can affect whether you can last a long time! That's why it's still very common to want to get married if you're not married, and want to divorce after you're married.

    Marriage is a great joy in life, and divorce is also a great tragedy in life.

    Often at the beginning of marriage, it is destined that the divorce is about to begin, the only difference is that it depends on which way you go more, and whether you can achieve positive results depends on your joint efforts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on your feelings, if it is particularly good, then even if someone else says that you will be able to withstand the test, it will be long.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My wife is five years older than me, so seven shouldn't be a problem. The key lies in caring, respect, and tolerance in life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm against people who look at this through the eyes of the world, because I'm in a relationship with someone who is two years older than me.

    Whether it can last long is not just by looking at age to see the problem, and I don't want to talk about many through my experience.

    The most unacceptable thing for a woman is not that you are younger than him, but that you are younger than her and immature, you know?

    Since she's in a relationship with you, she won't mind that, because you're going to get talked about (including me).

    But you can't live your life on other people's terms, at least I feel like I'm happy now, we've been dating for 3 years, and I'm 21 years old.

    You're going to prove that you're younger than her, but you're going to be protective and considerate of him, and you're going to be sensible and mature, and I'm being practical.

    Loyal advice: Attentiveness and thoughtfulness are things that all girls crave.

    If you want to live without him for a long time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Perhaps the conventional wisdom will feel absurd. But now society has progressed. Ideas have also progressed.

    Turn aside the eyes of the world. As long as the two truly love each other. Age is not an obstacle.

    The main thing is that two people have to get along. I wish you all happiness!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It seems that it can't be anymore.

    You don't even know what's most important together, can you last long?

    If you can ask such a question, I guess you are still very conservative, since you are conservative, why do you try this kind of love?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Age is not a problem, the most worrying thing now should be her, and you can still maintain your love for her when you are mature. You'll be admired by a lot of people. Love knows no age boundaries.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    As long as you truly love each other, you will be able to do it for a long time

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'd love to have a girlfriend who is seven years older than me. That's good, sister and brother love, brother takes advantage, sister has to let brother go, hehe, very happy, more considerate of my sister's side, more care about her and pay more attention to her. Sometimes she may feel that something is wrong, and you need to pay attention.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Just fall in love, age is not a problem! I wish you all happiness!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When I really get married in the future, as I get older, my sex life will be very discordant...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Asking this question means that you don't have confidence, and if you don't have confidence, your success is half as low, and you should think about it yourself, your girlfriend is not as young as you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hey. The female big seven hug the gold bricks. There is no age in the realm of love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Is it appropriate for a girlfriend to be 7 years older than me, as long as the two of you really like each other, it's suitable. Your girlfriend is older and loves you like a little brother. As long as you don't dislike her for being older. But there will be a bit of a gap in the future.

    Is it appropriate for my girlfriend to be 7 years older than me, as long as the two of you are sincere to each other, Bi Yuan is happy and happy, it is suitable. Your girlfriend is older and loves you like a little brother. As long as you don't dislike her for being older. But there will be a bit of a gap in the future.

    Some people like girlfriends older than themselves, and some people like younger than themselves, as long as two people love each other, age is not a problem. But I personally think it's better to find someone older than yourself, after all, if the age is not comparable, there is a generation gap, and there will be a balance of difficulties in communication, if you find someone younger than yourself, you can play together, and you can go crazy together, but the age difference is too much, it's not good, after all, if the age difference is too much, there will be a feeling of sister and brother love, and such a relationship will not last long. So I think it's better for a guy to find a girlfriend who is younger than him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. My dear, then you have to understand the other person's thoughts, and then try to meet the other person's needs.

    Honey, as long as you're in a stable relationship, none of this is a problem.

    My girlfriend 24, I 16, she said that in the future, she will get married, let me pretend to be my son-in-law, but what about my family hall Zheng only has one son, her family is an only daughter, I don't want to be a son-in-law, how should I choose a bend.

    My dear, you're still young, and it's hard to say what will happen in the future.

    My dear, if you want to be a son-in-law, you can do it.

    My dear, since you choose the other person, then you should consider these questions.

    Her family is from Guangdong, and I am from Guizhou, but my parents only have one son, I don't know what to do, I think it's me who hail to marry her Tu Feng, and then in the future, Yuanshousun will go to her house to work, and she doesn't want to.

    My dear, you must discuss this matter, and don't let these problems affect your feelings.

    My dear, then you have to understand the other person's thoughts, and then try to meet the other person's needs.

    So how do I choose?

    Honey then you should be with the woman's opinion as the main.

    What about my parents.

    Honey, then you can only choose one end, dear, if you want to continue to be with each other, then you should still take care of each other's emotions.

    Is it just for me to be my son-in-law?

    Honey, this can also be considered, but you are still young, and you can slowly convince the other party in the future.

    I just feel that after all, I am a man, I marry her, and I will go to work for her ** in the future.

    Honey, if you have such an idea, you can talk to her about it.

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