I got my girlfriend back, but I don t want to hurt him, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You don't want to hurt him.

    But you've hurt him.

    It doesn't matter what your relationship is with him.

    You are a third party, and your intervention has caused him pain.

    If I were you.

    I went back and faced him directly.

    And tell him very frankly.

    him"with"her"Finished.

    her"It's you who like it.

    Hope he can forgive you.

    And let it with practical actions"her"Proof"her"It's you who love it, it's not"him"

    OK, after all, man, you have to be responsible for what you do, and the fault is you, so you should take the initiative to face him.

    If you disappear.

    But as a man, you should bear it.

    Isn't it? The three of you have a good time together.

    No matter what kind of affection you have, you can't force it.

    If"him"Understood.

    him"Will let it go.

    After all, if"them"If you really have a deep affection for the two, you can't put it"her"from"him"Snatched from the side.

    So you have to be emotional.

    Xiao Zhili told"him"

    her"It is you who love.

    and"You guys"Together you will be happy.

    You'll make"her"Happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He's already got a girlfriend, right? He could withstand the first blow and think there would be a second.

    If he dumped the woman the first time, then don't worry about him.

    If everyone is so sympathetic. Qin Shi Huang died as early as he was a hostage. And not the emperor. Some people can't talk about each other. If he's not talented.

    If he's talented, you don't have to care about him.

    Show your girlfriend what I said.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    To be merciful to one's enemies is to be cruel to oneself.

    1.Don't contact and comfort that man, if you call him, you will think that you are laughing at him, and it is easy to get up***.

    2.Be careful on National Day, don't go and your girlfriend will become someone else's girlfriend in the future, and you should be dumbfounded if that person sleeps with your girlfriend again!!

    If I were that man, I wouldn't let go of the opportunity to sleep with your girlfriend, and I would not make others comfortable if I forced me to sleep too. Listen to me right, at least you won't regret it later. Find a way to get your girlfriend to cut off contact with the man, preferably if they never contact each other, to prevent them from rekindling their old relationship and give you a green hat to wear.

    If you love her, you must not give up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's better not to communicate with rivals in love It's a hundred times long as the two of you get along well and he doesn't appear again in the future It's better to ignore him anymore Kindness to the enemy is cruelty to yourself.

    I once saw a friend like this, and they were told by the girl directly to the boy, and then the girl was very sad, and my friend comforted the girl for three days, and now they are still fine.

    As long as the girl is firm that it's you, you don't care about others.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Brother, if you are in a stable relationship with her, then it is recommended that you go for Plan B. Moreover, in plan B, she doesn't need to play with him, right? After all, breaking up is not something to be comfortable with. It is recommended that your girlfriend find him to make it clear, and there is no need to play together.

    I hope you are happy, and I hope he can cheer up soon. I hope you can tell him that in society, a man has nothing without a career.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You have to respect your girlfriend's choice.

    No matter how good you think you are to her, it is useless for her not to accept it.

    Love is consensual.

    If she says in person that she would like to be with that person.

    It is advisable that you give up or respect her choice if you really love her.

    I don't care about your scores, I just hope you don't continue to cause pain for three people.

    Give up, free yourself early, and still have the time and energy to find a better one. Otherwise, entanglement only adds to the pain.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Girls say it's better, don't say it too badly. Just tell him. She hopes for a better life in the future.

    So that the boy understands. It's best that you don't stay together all at once.

    If you really don't want to hurt him, you give up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This kind of thing should be handled by yourself, you kidnapped other people's girlfriends, and you have to let the woman deal with it, your B plan is too lacking in morality, right, you go over and tell people like this, this country can still play, plan A is okay... It is recommended to talk about it on QQ first, or you can just find another object for others first.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I agree with the first sentence on the second floor, don't communicate between rivals in love, you have to know that from the time you know that they are good and you decide to pursue the woman, you have no qualifications and no position to comfort the man, since you have done it, you have to bear it, and now to comfort the man, he will only think that you are laughing at him, and it will be understood by a person It is a person who understands it like this, don't care if the woman is sad or not, because this is an inevitable process, to put it bluntly, it is the choice of the two of you to be together now, and it is not your responsibility alone, you don't need to feel guilty at all You just have to prove that you are indeed a better fit for your current girlfriend than that guy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's too complicated, just be happy yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your heart is very good, remember to be tactful when you say it, say it slowly, remember to say it in a good environment, preferably in a quiet place, sometimes no one will be hurt if you say it clearly

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    See who she chooses. Don't always be superior ... Everything depends on her. I hope you understand. But you also have the right to do your own thing?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Sharing can solve all contradictions.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can't have it both ways.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your girlfriend gets fast

    I think it's better for her to say it herself, she has already done something hurtful to others, why not make it clear herself?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You and your girlfriend go together to say it's better, let him understand that you really like each other, he will understand, he won't want to lose two friends.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Look for it with your heart, see what you have done wrong, and chase it back with sincerity.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can't rush it, you have to behave well if she gives you a chance, and she is feeling it at this time.

    What you said goes back to the past, as long as you can be as good to her as before, 2 months, half a year, or even 1 year, can you persevere, can you have the same enthusiasm and persistence as when chasing a beloved girl?

    It's not like you're wrong, you're really wrong, and you're done, you know.

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