I have an emotional dispute, who will help me

Dear, according to what you said, then your girlfriend should care about her own face, after all, everyone doesn't want others to know that they are very gossipy, tell others everything, your girlfriend won't let you ask, you still ask, this will make your friends mistakenly think that your girlfriend is very gossipy, and, your girlfriend will definitely feel that you don't listen to her, don't care about her, so, I feel that you should coax your girlfriend well, usually at this time to say good things to her, You must not give her time to think alone, because she is already angry, and if you give her time to think, then she will feel that you don't care about her even more, so, come on

Landlord, love a person sometimes feels very powerless, although our love is so sincere, but love is not so simple, perhaps we are too persistent in feelings, in addition to our love, we have to cherish ourselves. When you see that your love hurts us like this, shouldn't we let this love continue, after all, we are more than just this love.

Let it be, landlord.

When we ask ourselves, I am so serious and serious about this feeling, but at this moment we want to part, we are so powerless, look up to the sky, what kind of god is hidden behind the sky, why do you make this world so hurt, so hurt...

Girls don't like boys to be too careful.

First of all, ask a few words about this matter, and you have to hold back if you want to ask, otherwise you will be really a "woman".

You asked your friend directly, didn't you embarrass your girlfriend, it's a little stupid.

Sometimes you don't get it if you care too much. Learn to learn and indulge.

Legal analysis: You can ask the civil affairs department or the women's federation for help.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and it is forbidden for either party to coerce the other, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050:After the marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.

Article 1051 Marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:

a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.

First of all, age is not an issue! Since you genuinely like her, you should respect what she means.

Treat her as your best friend!

You have to make your first position clear, you are his current boyfriend, the one who is out of luck.

Next, what you should think about is not whether your girlfriend rejected him outright, but to see your second position clearly, your girlfriend is still by your side now! In other words, your girlfriend didn't propose to break up with you, right? Then you are the one who has the initiative!

Now I'm going to tell you about the stakes and methods during the period:

First, ex-boyfriends generally come back to find their old girlfriends by digging up the good memories they once had between them, so as to remind your girlfriend of some of their good memories and let your girlfriend start to reminisce.

Second, ex-boyfriends generally know a lot about your girlfriend, of course, why they broke up in the first place, which is where the gap in their relationship chain breaks.

Thirdly, girlfriends generally hate to be entangled in the jealous war between the old boyfriend and the new boyfriend, you have to be more considerate of your girlfriend, you have to remember that if she breaks up with his ex-boyfriend, it means that they don't get along! The fact that she's with you now shows that you're compatible with him! So don't be afraid of him!

So all you have to do is:

First, believe in your girlfriend, tell her that you believe in her, believe that she loves you, and don't put any pressure on her!

Second, take your girlfriend out more often to create some new memories between you and your girlfriend, which is good for preventing your ex-boyfriend from recalling your girlfriend's memories.

Third, grab the point where your girlfriend and ex-boyfriend broke up and fight this battle well! The reason why her ex-boyfriend broke up, you must not commit! For example:

If they break up because the man is not considerate enough or doesn't care enough about the details between them, then you have to be considerate enough to care about every sweet detail of spending time with your girlfriend. Not only will this get you points, but it will also inadvertently remind your girlfriend what kind of person her ex-boyfriend is!!

I understand your girlfriend very well, and it proves that your girlfriend is not a ruthless and unrighteous person, it doesn't matter, in fact, there is no need to make everyone look like strangers when you break up, as long as your relationship is good, and your girlfriend is firm, I think there is no problem.

Of course, it's okay to get in touch, you can still be friends after a breakup, maybe your girlfriend has already regarded others as friends, you think too much.

You can ask your girlfriend directly, and if she truly loves you, she will tell you why they are in contact. The second is to wait and see, when your girlfriend fights with him, you sit silently on the side, believing your girlfriend. To be a man, you have to look like a man, don't have a small belly, maybe your girlfriend only thinks of him as an ordinary friend.

Maybe you don't like to hear what I say, but I'm telling the truth. It's not easy to use the phone party code word either, so be it.

Then you have to tell him well that if he still has that person in his heart, I advise you to give up, man, there is something to be afraid of.

Ask her why she is still in contact.

If she is vague and wants to have an affair, break up with her directly.

You just talk to her about it and you tell her you're going to be jealous! Your girlfriend will tell you what she thinks! But you can't always be jealous....Otherwise it won't work.

I have seen what happened to you, and I deeply sympathize.

The main reason for this kind of problem is that it is possible that your recklessness will cause secondary damage to your girlfriend.

Throughout your opponent is a rogue player, target this kind of person.

1. Don't talk about benevolence, righteousness and morality. Clause.

2. Don't follow the crowd. Clause.

3. Use effective means to control. What is effective, the police and court accusations are the most effective. Don't worry about affecting your work or anything, because you're afraid of him so arrogant. This kind of thing must be acted upon decisively, and the damage will be less. Clause.

Fourth, the other party has no social experience, and only relies on thick skin to play prestige, so you have to retaliate. The next time he sends you a private **, you reply to him, "Thank you for your incompetence to make me, you didn't cherish such a good girl, I will cherish it and have it for a lifetime", let him go crazy, do excesses, and then pass the law to sentence him for a few years, and he will be obedient. If you don't know the specific details, you can ask me.

You are competitive, have strong self-esteem, are afraid of failure, lack self-confidence, love to drill into the horns of the bull when encountering problems, have weak psychological resistance to pressure, and feel ignorant. You have a strong personality and ideas, but because of your lack of self-confidence, these strengths of yours cannot be shown at all.

Suggestions: 1. Do things in a high-profile manner and be a low-key person;

2. Don't take yourself too seriously, so that others will not take you seriously;

3. Observe more, learn more, do more, and talk less;

4. Be honest and calm with colleagues and friends, don't care about small things, the more you care, the more troubles you have.

5. Do the above four points, and your confidence will slowly build. Then a virtuous circle is formed. That is, the more confident you are, the stronger your aura will be, and the stronger your aura, the more confident you will be.

Actually, it's not difficult for you to do this. The point is that you don't have the following points in mind:

1. If you love your girlfriend and you want to understand the matter thoroughly, don't be afraid of the impact expanding. First of all, it's this scumbag who is sorry for this woman. To tell you a simple analogy: like a mad dog bites you, do you want to go to the dog theory? And there will be no result.

So there are two options: aAlarm BFind a lawyer and sue the man for defamation and moral compensation for the loss of your girlfriend's reputation. You can sue him for this, and you don't need to be polite.

2. As for the problems that will affect your work unit, you can take a long enough vacation to settle the matter. Do not disclose your home address, work address and the names of all your friends and loved ones, address to the Internet, close the space. Some of the news was blocked, so he had no chance to take advantage of it.

3. Finally, in fact, your girlfriend washes her face with tears all day long, and she was completely hurt by this scumbag. If you really want to ** this scar of hers, you have to stand up like a gentleman and give him a hard result. There's nothing to be ashamed of here.

In the event of a lawsuit, the privacy of the individual may be required to be kept confidential. Both lawyers and police officers have an obligation to help protect your girlfriend.