Will a person be defensive about someone they like?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
55 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think that the people closest to me don't need to be defended, and other friends still want it.

    There is an old Chinese saying, that is, "the heart of defense is indispensable", which is also the experience of our ancestors for thousands of years. However, if you also guard against the people closest to you, then your life will be too boring.

    And of course, I also think about this from the common people's mind: I don't have anything to fear people knowing. That is to say: don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts calling the door in the middle of the night.

    If you have something that you are afraid of people knowing, or if you don't want people to know, of course, it is "to prevent everyone".

    This is also to say: whether to prevent or not to prevent depends on your own mind!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you just like it, and you don't know too much about it, then I think it will.

    Only after a certain amount of time together, we can understand each other and not dislike each other.

    Then it's time to open up to that person.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Absolutely. The first need of man is a sense of security, and based on the need for security, fortification is understandable. Because, liking doesn't mean having security.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, for fear of being deceived and hurt.

    Because it is more sad than ordinary people to deceive and hurt.

    It's just more and less.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's too likely, everyone's principles and bottom lines are different, you go beyond the bottom line, others will look at you again, and fortification is inevitable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not because she's someone you like: it's okay to be on guard with someone you like.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That depends on the actual situation!

    If he or she already has someone in mind. It will be "fortified"!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It depends on what kind of person he is.

    Generally speaking, though, there are very few adults who don't have to guard against others.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe it won't, depending on how much you like him or her, or whether you're willing to defend it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it's true love.

    What is there to guard against?

    To defend is not to believe.

    Untrusted love Don't do it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Some people will and some won't, it depends on the individual's personality, are you talking about yourself or the one you like?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Some people will. Some people won't, depending on how they deal with it!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you like it, you will care, and if you care, you will worry, so the answer is yes.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Generally, but especially when you don't know much about it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, nothing can be trusted.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes. It just depends on whether there is more or less fortification.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If necessary, it will, if it is true love, it will not.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No, if it is, it's not like.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There are no absolutes.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First: I would like to say that security awareness is a must.

    All right. Let's start by talking about why it is undefended? Anyway, so many people don't defend against you, which means that you have some meaning in his heart. i.e. prey or lover. It's either a ** or someone who is interesting to you.

    Second: How would you think he is defenseless against you? What behaviors do you see or feel (Premise: Women sometimes feel wrong. Such as this).

    Third: Love you If he really loves you, it is not to be unguarded but to be kind to you and gentle to you. I care about you.

    If there is someone who is really defenseless against you. Quite possibly a wolf! Because I love you, it's not so unpredictable, but I can really feel a little bit.

    All right. Every woman wants someone who loves her. So I also hope that you are a happy love.

    Love. It's like you've noticed that he's defenseless against you. You should get off to a good start. Bless you all.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you say something like that, you must like you! Otherwise, I won't be defenseless against you!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Like a person will have these 5 feelings.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What does it look like when you really like someone?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you ask someone if they like you, I can only tell you that if a person likes you or not, you will feel it yourself! When you are liked by someone, you will feel that the person who likes you is always trying to get close to you, care for you, love you, make you happy, and eager for you to understand all aspects of him.

    If I ask you whether you like a person or not, I can only tell you that whenever there is hesitation, there is a gap between you and him that you think is very important, maybe you are very clear, maybe you haven't figured it out. Some people can cross this chasm, some people stop there, and there are good results and bad results.

    Of course, there are some very individual examples, such as a person who is cold, or how, but in fact, if he has a heart for you, I will also think that you will feel it, if he has bad intentions, you will hesitate in your heart; But on the other hand, if you measure it from the gift, you should also consider whether he can afford it, and whether his personality is the kind of person who is very generous.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's normal to like someone, we're all normal people and we all have the power to love and be loved, like and dislike. Like, love is human nature. Like a person, we have to look at the specific situation, if the man is unmarried, the woman is unmarried, the status of the two families, the property is about the same, or matching, and the appearance is also right, then bravely chase, I push from the door to the door, although it is a bit cliché, but I also want to express my own opinion:

    The class level is the same, there is a common language, the cultural heritage is the same, the ideas are easy to communicate, the two can always love each other, not only to operate, but also to attract each other, of course, since ancient times, there are princes who love Cinderella, etc., you think about it yourself, I wish you success.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    People who like you will never be annoyed by you People who feel sorry for you will never be lazy People who want to see you will always take the initiative more than you People who care about you will always be tolerant of you So don't ask why Willing is the best answer.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    To truly love someone is to do everything willingly.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    People who like you will always try their best to let you know.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    When you say "I", you're complimenting you! Why? When you say this, you will answer her question in her own good, and she will be very happy! If you say it's scolding, you should know the consequences!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Always want to get his a**.

    I want to be with him every minute and every second.

    I want to tell him my happiness as soon as possible.

    And exaggerate your pain and tell him that if you want to get his attention, you will lose your temper at him for no reason (in his eyes for no reason) and hope that he will not be angry, but on the contrary, you can come and coax you.

    Hopefully he can say something that cares.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Wow, that's a lot, scare me? Big brother, it's still the eldest sister who copied it in **, tell the little sister.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think of you all the time, and of course I want you to feel for myself

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It means that they have a strong crush on you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    That means she (he) wants to be in a relationship with you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    What does it look like to really like someone? I hope you can get better and better and become a very good person

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    When many women like a man, they don't dare to take the initiative to ask about his condition, let alone confess to him directly, but if they don't even know if he has a partner, or if he has someone they like, then they can't continue the offensive below.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    The true love is when you can love it, and you know how to cherish it.

    The true love of bai, du is when you can't love, you know how to let go because letting go is the ...... you have everything

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    When you let go, bless ...... well

    No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person will not be alone!

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    True love is not copied can be expressed in words, it is from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), for him (her) care, I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), when you see you, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, really! Positive love for a person will willingly take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, see the person you love happy, you will be happy, see him (her) troubled you will also be troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy.

    I am happy, a true love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) is in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness;

    If you like him.

    She keeps coming back to your mind.

    I think about her every day, and I don't have the heart to do things without seeing her.

    Crush too much.

    It's not that you really like him.

    Some of them are you who bewitch him by his coolness.

    Which one you really like, when you are lonely, you will think of him.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Loving someone is not something you say with your mouth, you have to prove it by your actions! If he really loves you, he can do anything for you, no matter what, and will do anything for you! Even if it's a small thing, it won't be gloomy!

    Be careful yourself, and you will feel if he really loves you!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Like is presumptuous, love is restraint.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If she comes back to you with a QQ, you will be very excited.

    I think about her all the time.

    I always think of her before I go to bed.

    Computers, mobile phones, and all kinds of passwords are her birthday.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Will you be embarrassed to see her or him, will you blush, will you not dare to look him in the eye?

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    See if there are any inconsistencies with other people's ideas.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Think about him, whether there is a feeling of heartbeat.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Willing to contact him, I often think of him, and when I can't see him, there seems to be something missing in my heart.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    It's convenient and affordable to buy gifts online, and it's also fashionable, and I'm airstrike.

    There is a detailed summary of online shopping steps and tips.

    I have a lot of experience in online shopping.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    will unconsciously look for his figure.

    I can't see what he's thinking about what he's doing.

    See he's looking at you.

    Will wonder if my meter is not good.

    The hair is not messy.

    Is there anything ...... on the face

    When you finish talking to him.

    I will regret that I didn't do well just now......

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Eyes, small details of movements, tone of voice, and behavior, etc.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    The simplest is to smile when you see someone in your dreams.

    Who do you think of when you're lonely.

    Most importantly.

    When you see her smiling, how can you be inexplicably excited... Ha ha.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Secondly, you are obsessed with listening to her talk about her family situation, and she agrees to have contact with your family members, and you don't mind going public. You like to dress yourself up when you're with her, you want her to keep her distance from the opposite sex, and when she agrees to someone's invitation, you get extra angry.

    Finally, the first time you see her, you have a feeling of familiarity and closeness, no matter what kind of life environment you are inHer figure always can't help but appear in your mind, and you always want to see her in your heart, even if you look at her from afar, you will smile satisfactorily.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    If you usually chat with him or see him there will be a feeling of rapid heartbeat, then most likely you are in love, but if you see him in your heart and feel average, but you like to talk to him very much, then you just like him, which is the so-called good feeling.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    What does it look like to really like someone? I hope you can get better and better and become a very good person

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Clause.

    1. If you like someone, you will unconsciously think of his appearance and want to see him. Clause.

    Second, when you hear his name or see his circle of friends, you can't help but click in. Because you care about him, you want to know what he's doing, you want to know what he's thinking or if he has friends, and you're afraid of losing him. Clause.

    3. When you like someone, you can't help it.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    You'll be inexplicably angry at him because he didn't reply to your texts, and you'll feel like all the food you eat is sour.

    Because she looks at another girl in front of you, you will cry sadly, and when she says that you look like a boy, you can't help but have a conflict with him, because you want him to look at you more.

    When in the middle of the night, when you are lonely and helpless, when you are sad and inferior, when you laugh, the first person who thinks of him is that you like him, when you are embarrassed, the first person who wants to escape is him, then don't think too much, if you meet all of the above, you will not only like it, but also love!

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    There is an emotion in the world called "bai like", and the other is called "love".

    Love is when he is there, and he is the only one in his eyes; In his absence, everything carries his shadow.

    I like to think of him suddenly when I read a book late at night, imagining what he is doing now, and there is a fluttering warmth in my heart, but I never take the initiative to call him **. After a few minutes, the attention was drawn back to the plot in the book!

    Love is in the lonely night, thoughts come like a tide, holding a book in his hand but can't read it, thinking about whether he is still working overtime at this time, whether he has eaten dinner, whether he thinks about himself as he thinks about him.

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