Whether love that is destined to be fruitless should be given up

Updated on psychology 2024-02-12
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all!!! Make sure you love her and she loves you, if not, it's better to give up, or it will hurt and feel uncomfortable later....If that's the case, don't care about anything, the two tolerate each other Although there is no result, at least don't leave yourself with regrets, I wish you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is inherently selfish, when you can't grasp it, there will be some facts you don't want to see, since you already know that you can't go to the end, it's better to make a decision early, so as not to get tired longer, but if you continue your relationship, then you have to talk to her, tell her what you have in your heart, two people have a good exchange of opinions, only each other said what is in their hearts, it is good for you and her! Isn't it?!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't care what happens in the end, just continue now until the last minute, no one can say for sure what will happen in the future, because even if you give up now, it's impossible, if you want to give up, you give up, if you can't give up, then continue, because you have no other way, right?

    However, it is very important that the relationship between two people must be built on the basis of trust, otherwise they are all empty shells, so entangled in love, and 、、、 painful

    I can see that you love her very much, but...This mentality is not accurate, this is not good、、、 this has nothing to do with how many boyfriends she used to have, because you are just talking to her now

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why is it said that it is destined to be fruitless? If you don't try, how do you know if it won't work.

    The rivers and mountains are full of empty thoughts, it is far better to pity the person in front of you, since you are so entangled, it means that you can't let go of her; You are also sure that he loves you and can't do without you, what is that bad communication?

    I think the landlord just likes her, but maybe your reason tells you that you don't end well with her, so you have been controlling yourself to prevent this liking from developing into love

    Think about it, if you give up so easily, a few years later, when you listen to your wife's nagging, will you think of that beautiful shadow back then? Do you regret it, "If I had worked hard at the beginning, maybe she would have been with me now?"

    So, why not try to let go of yourself and accept what you are now in a relationship that could turn into a beautiful love???

    I wish you happiness I will send you a word: with a lover, do happy things, don't ask if it is a catastrophe or fate.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You've already said it's destined to be impossible, so why insist on it? Maybe because you can't let go, love can tolerate everything, you try to let go of the hatred of her, you may find that you have her in your heart, don't cover up your beauty because of the hatred in your heart, isn't it? Come on, and finally, I wish you all eternal happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Pay to be outstanding, hone to be proficient, go all out, and ask for nothing. I've liked the girl in the front seat of me since my freshman year of high school, but she said she didn't feel for me, but I kept chasing her, and now it's been four years, although she didn't agree, but she said I was her best friend. That's what touched me.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If a person doesn't love you anymore, you have to learn to let go, and don't dwell on it when a relationship is broken. Spending on the wrong people and the wrong things is the most ignorant decision-making.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's better not to give up artificially. Let everything run its course.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Was she your first girlfriend?

    Everyone has a past, look forward, don't stay in the memories of the past.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't care how it ends later.

    At least we used to get together.

    Don't bother to bind each other.

    There is no need for verbal promises.

    As long as we've ever had.

    That's enough for you and me.

    There are many memories in a person's life.

    I only wish your remembrance had a me.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Feelings of not believing give up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Have you ever had this kind of struggle?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is a very personal question, and there is no one definitive answer that applies to all situations. Everyone has their own values and standards, and Nakazen may have different attitudes towards love. However, I don't think it's always a good choice to stick with a love that doesn't work out.

    Of course, if you feel that you can handle this pain, and you think that love itself is worth pursuing, then you can choose to move on. However, the most important thing is to know when to stop so that you can start pursuing healthier, positive, and meaningful relationships or divert your attention to investing in other relationships.

    In conclusion, whether or not an inconclusive love continues needs to be based on your own judgment and values. You need to be clear about what you're after, and at the same time, think rationally about the future of the relationship while constantly combing through your heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    People who live well know how to stop losses in time, and they know that there is no future relationship, so they should stop losses in time. As Mu Yange said in the book, the most regrettable thing in life is that he easily gave up what he shouldn't give up and stubbornly insisted on what he shouldn't have. Knowing that there is no result, he still stubbornly persists and uses his tired body and mind to please each other.

    Life is not easy, so why bother to suffer yourself again. Not everyone has the courage of Ma Yili and Dong Xuan to give up, and not everyone doesn't want to be happy with themselves, it's just that some people would rather deceive themselves than face it. Knowing that there is no result of love, why do you want to continue?

    There was once a saying that there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. Since there is no result, it is better to stop the loss in time, pack up the mood, adjust the state, and find a love with results again.

    In this life, you will meet a lot of people, some people and you may just have no fate, just love each other, one parting and two wide each life is happy, keep the love in the heart, as the best memory, bless him (her) to find his or her own happiness, and strive to find his own happiness, which is enough.

    When two people are together, many times only love cannot come together, resistance from both families, economic disparity, and pressure after the implementation of life, these may become a gap between two people, resulting in love without results.

    People are emotional, and it is normal for a relationship to not be able to let go at the beginning, and it takes time to precipitate. Some people, hidden in their hearts, later became memories. Those things have become stories after all.

    In fact, in this life, people do not necessarily love only one person, and many of the former vigor will eventually return to dullness. The young man who has been happy and worried in your heart for many years will also be suddenly discovered by you in the middle of the night that there is no light on his body anymore.

    Now that you already know that your love has no result, then let go decisively, let each other go, life is a long road, the future can be expected, and the next love that really belongs to you may not be far away.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Knowing that there is no result of love, I'm afraid no one will choose to continue, no result of love is a waste of their time and feelings, since it is meaningless, who will insist, it is worth insisting on love, that is to have a good result.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since this is the case, there is no need to persevere, because no matter how hard you try, it is useless, and he will not change because of your actions. In the end, you will only hurt yourself deeply, so you have to pick up the courage to let go, only then will you be happy and be able to find a new life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When I think that life still has to go on, and no one wants to drag on half-dead, I understand that giving up is not a bad thing. We tacitly assume that starting over is the best win-win situation, and there is no need to talk about the overflowing thoughts and residual love in the future. The days ahead are precious, and I hope you and I are ruthless.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I am a more realistic person, I can't accept this kind of fruitless love, and I will give up this love when I have doubts about it. I'll be looking for the next love that will bear fruit.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I know that there is no result of love, I will choose to give up, because since there is no result, then there is no need for two people to be together and let go completely, it is a better choice for both people.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I'm going to give up because I don't think this relationship is of any use to me, and the two of us won't have a happy ending, so I'm going to give up on my relationship.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    will ask this kind of question, and there must be a clear answer in your heart, but if you care too much about other people's opinions, do you really like each other in your heart Knowing that there is no result, love will definitely persist, because as long as you like it, even if there is no result, you will not let yourself leave regrets.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you love someone, you have a good time with him, don't think so much, leave the future to the future, don't be afraid, don't think wildly, don't suspect, what should happen will always happen, you can't stop it, and if it doesn't happen, it will only affect your mood.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Knowing that there is no result of love, I will not choose to continue. Everyone falls in love and falls in love in order to have a good outcome. There is no result, and if you don't give up sooner, you will only hurt yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it were me, knowing that this relationship was fruitless, then I would definitely withdraw and not choose to continue to insist, then I think the relationship needs to be completed by two people, and one person's persistence is meaningless.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you know that there is no result, then of course you will not continue, because if you continue to feel more and more affectionate, and when you have to separate in the end, it will be very painful.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I will still choose to continue, because whether there is an ending or not is not that we say that he has no ending or no ending, and if he does not go to the end, no one knows what will happen, and the future is variable.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Knowing that there is no result of love, I will still choose to continue to persevere, and the purpose of persevering is to hope to see the dawn of hope, so that I have the motivation to persevere.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hello, if you know that there is no result of the relationship, I think it is better not to continue, because it will hurt the two people more if it continues.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Mine starts if you can afford to lose, and if you can't afford to lose, you give up. If you feel that your partner is worth the gamble, then let it go and love and leave nothing else to worry about.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    No, it's because the relationship between two people has no result, and if such a relationship persists, it will also be a lose-lose situation, so you must stop the loss in time.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The name has no result of love, I think of course I will not choose to continue, I should choose to let go, because I think it is good for both parties.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course I won't continue, because I'm a very sane person, and since I already know that there is no result, then I will definitely stop the loss in time.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I will choose to continue, because I am with him, and I don't want to have results, it's just an obsession of my own.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I'm not going to continue, because I know it's a waste of time, and it's not worth my energy, so I'm going to give up.

Related questions
24 answers2024-02-12

Hey, there's no way, the woman's appearance is not good, and she also has the pursuit of being rich and handsome by nature. >>>More

15 answers2024-02-12

I won't let me be in a long-distance relationship with my lover, he will stay in a certain city for me, so I will also come to his city. If you are now in a long-distance relationship, it is recommended to increase the frequency of hitting **, and the degree of concern should also be increased, and it is best to see each other within a few weeks to make the other party feel that you care about him.

20 answers2024-02-12

I advise you not to waste time, no matter how reluctant it is, it is better than living in pain, people want to be happy, maybe you will be sad when you leave him, and then it will be fine, and it is best to find someone who loves you after that.

37 answers2024-02-12

Yes, definitely, this example.

There are too many, and what is wrong with the countryside now, the countryside is now quite rich, stronger than the city, and now the countryside is no worse than the city, the only point is to pay attention to the dust in your home, such as the city also pounces on the floor tiles, and the countryside also pounces, but the city sweeps once every 3 days, but the countryside sweeps 2 times a day, the main reason is that there is more soil in the countryside, there are no protection measures, and there are fewer buildings, which is no way. >>>More

8 answers2024-02-12

I think. 90 percent of the time, but some can't be ruled out. Matter is the basis of life. Without material security, how can we live a good life? Don't people like that? >>>More