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I can see that you and your friends in the article, you are all very good kids.
Let's talk about the girl first, she is very dedicated and persistent, which is very valuable.
But it is not accurate for her to say that first love is true love once in a lifetime, and people who know true love may encounter true love several times (people who don't understand may not meet true love once). She said that her feelings for the boy were true love, and it was not necessarily. The age of the first love is relatively young, and the vision is not far enough.
Love is not just a feeling, it is a responsibility, a very big and heavy responsibility (such as tolerance, understanding, love, to change for each other, heart, life, the handling of the relationship between the two parties, etc., etc., etc., too much), we may only know to like a person when we are young, and we do not think of these responsibilities in love, and it may be time to take responsibility, only to find that we can't bear it.
Now the girl finds that the two people are not very different in personality, ideals, pursuits, and attitudes towards life, which shows that she didn't know much about the boy at the beginning and didn't see the essence of this relationship. If you understand it and see it clearly and are willing to accept it, why is there a contradiction now? Why would you want to give up?
The girl should re-examine this relationship, whether she really loves the boy, and whether she forces this relationship to be true love for her own belief and longing for true love?
If the girl really loves the boy, is she willing to take responsibility for the boy? Understand him, tolerate him, or change him, infect him with his positive attitude towards life, communicate with the boy a lot, and let the boy really know what kind of life she needs.
Let's talk about that boy, he doesn't know how to be flexible, he is principled, he doesn't like to give gifts to his boss, he doesn't like to climb up in relationships, and he may not be able to mix in this society. But I admire a man who can be a weakness or a strength, and he should be very honest and reliable. There are too few men like this, many girls like this type, if you want to get married to be stable, instead of living a rich and noble life, in fact, this boy is still good.
As for not understanding romance, it can be slowly transformed, as long as the boy loves the girl, as long as the girl is patient, teaches him more, and communicates with him more, there should be no problem.
The above is all possible, maybe, in fact, Lou mainly really loves this girl very much, and is sure to give her a lifetime of happiness, and if the girl is not true love for the boy, you can also try to impress her with sincerity, and true love will take responsibility.
The above are some of my analyses, which can help you a little. Also, I'm an older sister, not an aunt.
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Think about it first.
Calm down and save first.
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There is a kind of love called attachment!
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Buy. First of all, you went to the woman's house as the woman's boyfriend, and you caught up with the other party's relatives to get married, and you had to go to see his grandmother. Buying something is just to show a little heart, it seems that you have courtesy, the value of things does not have to be very valuable, the courtesy to the affection can be, as small as the store supermarket to buy some fruits, milk, biscuits, eight-treasure porridge, a little better can buy a scarf, hat, etc., her grandma greets you happy, in front of your object to say two nice words, you object happy, you are also happy.
This is also good for your future development, and you can also take this opportunity to get to know each other's family background and family, and you can judge whether you are suitable.
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I think your father's thinking is still very traditional, and some of the ideas of the new students are relatively unfamiliar, but your father also has his plans, in your opinion, he does not know (understand), in short, he is for the good of his own children, you should understand him, but on the other hand, your object, whether to go or not this idea is still for you to take. I suggest you go for ,。。 Don't leave regrets for the rest of your life.
I wish you all happiness.
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It is recommended that you go, and then leave a letter explaining what you mean, so that the old people at home have a bottom in their hearts, otherwise you will have to be awkward for a while when you come back.
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If you are in a normal relationship with him, you can buy some fruit to take with you. If it's a lover relationship, I hope you don't go, it's not right, so as not to be embarrassed on the spot.
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Will you go there will be problems, what does it matter?
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I think it's okay to buy something or give some money.
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According to your approach, you haven't cherished and loved her at all, everyone has their own way to go, and if you don't cherish the opportunity when it comes, you are doomed to miss it! Everything will pass, I believe you will find something worth cherishing, and you will have to grasp it when the time comes!
Then break up with him (her), such a person is not worthy of your love, even virtual love cannot be given to him (her). She (he) is having an extramarital affair. Such people are the most rubbish!!
Look for the deep cause of the divorce, if not the fatal rift, it is advisable to maintain the family relationship. The marriage union of people is originally intended to be sprinkling beans, there is no inevitable union, and there is almost nothing absolute, only artificial to create absolute. So, it's better to grasp the scale, not with a momentary courage of blood!
Zhao Shicheng was a royal family of the Song Dynasty.
Do you think that he made mistakes in the past and must have been a very serious betrayal to make you break up, you love him and can't agree to his request, so I think it's absolutely wrong to marry such a non-*** person, your discomfort now is love, he is very selfish and wants to use marriage to trap you, this is unfair to you, nothing to think about! Happiness can still be found, just not now.