My girlfriend said we weren t suitable, how could I get it back

The fact that I can still complain about you shows two things: either I have nostalgia for you and make you change through nagging and complaining; Either they are tired of you and have no confidence in you;

As for which point it is, it is up to you to judge;

If you are really like what she described, you treat her badly when you are in love, and you never praise your woman, it is indeed very excessive;

Do you have to think seriously about whether you really love her? And what is the reason for loving her?

Is it because she has always been infatuated with you and has been very good to you? Or is there a lot of her charm that attracts you? The two are very different.

If you don't love her enough and can't be nice to her, let's let both be free.

Take the initiative and don't let go of her if you love her.

Try to go for it.

Don't be too reluctant, first implement your own work problems, and there is work to advance or retreat.

When a woman says, "We are not suitable," how does a man respond?

Not suitable is the standard answer to a breakup, then there are more real reasons behind it, and the root cause is: no love.

1. Respect the other party's decision to break up.

A relationship is over, and the sudden feeling of need leads to a desire to tell the other person not to leave. But since the other party chooses to break up with you, it must not be a momentary idea, if you don't realize your own problems, rashly proposing to get back together will only make the other party feel that you are denying her.

Only by respecting the other party's decision to break up can we alleviate each other's contradictions, change ourselves and start over with each other.

2. Proper cold treatment.

Proper cold treatment is necessary, and now that the breakup has become a fact, you can no longer ask each other as a couple as before, nor can you care about her excessively as when you were together before.

It's just an excuse, you can find a time to chat, see what the situation is, or you can find a confidant teacher to analyze it.

First of all, it is necessary to understand that there is still a problem between you.

What caused your love to go in crisis? Internal or extrinsic causes? Is the contradiction between the two already obvious, and there is only one chance to break out?

Also, now, you are tired of each other's attitudes, and you are still unilaterally resistant. Does she still have feelings for you?

This is very important, if you are about to break up, but you still don't understand the problem between you, just say, "I'm so good, why doesn't he want me?" Then Xiao Yi can only say that he can't help.

You must know that these problems will be the gap between your love, turning a blind eye is just covering your ears and stealing the bell, when one day the accumulated problems will explode, there may be no room for redemption between you.

In fact, whether you want to redeem it or not depends on how you feel for her. If you can't let it go, you naturally have to work hard to redeem it, and you should communicate with her that you are not suitable and whether there is any possibility of change. After all, whether two people are suitable or not is not an absolute joke, if they tolerate each other more, no matter how inappropriate it is, it can be appropriate.

My girlfriend said that we are not suitable, whether it is necessary to redeem it depends on the emotional foundation between you, and also depends on whether this girlfriend is good enough? Weigh the imitation hall yourself, whether it is worth it to recover, and strive for it if it is worth it, and decisively abandon it if it is not worth it.

Hello, happy with your question.

Every girlfriend said.

You're not fit for a nuclear dealer.

Is it still necessary to redeem it?

If you have the ability to redeem it, redeem it.

The so-called incompatibility is because you don't have enough money in Jian Qing.

As long as you have enough money.

You are 40-50 years old.

That's also appropriate.

Not necessarily. The size of the shoes is comfortable to wear, only I deeply experience.

Redeem a yarn, since she can say such a thing, it means that there must be a reason, find out the reason, work hard to change yourself, become better, find someone who loves you, everyone is a first-time person, don't live only for others!

Hello friend, you say that you are not suitable, if you want to be free, it must depend on the other party, but if you want to be free, do your best to do your own thing. If you want to be free, you must increase your own value, as long as you have values to redeem it.

When you encounter something like this, the other party may have some disappointment in you, so just increase your value. Doctors are like this, as long as you have values, you will have something you like.

Hello! If the average girl tells you that the two of you are inappropriate, you don't want to save this situation, and she doesn't want to continue the relationship.

In life, couples or girls they like tell themselves that neither of them is suitable. What should we do in the face of this situation? In fact, there will be a lot of problems for two people to get along.

Sometimes, in order not to hurt the other person, they find a comfortable reason, but these reasons become inappropriate in the mouth. So, in the face of this situation, do they have a chance to save? Let's follow the little side to find out how to recover what the girl said was inappropriate.

The girl said that it was not suitable and could be recovered, and the girl said that it was not suitable for high emotional intelligence to reply.

Can the girl get it back if she says it's not suitable?

When a girl gives such a reply, there are two reasons:

1.Your confession is so abrupt that the girl is not psychologically prepared and can only refuse to respond to you.

2.Maybe she really doesn't have feelings for you.

To decide whether or not to continue the pursuit, we must first judge the above situation, how to operate it, and how to judge it.

1.Emotionally stable.

Once many boys are rejected, they panic. It seems that the girl will soon leave herself forever, trying to convince the girl to accept the confession in a reasonable way. The most common phrase is:

We're not fitting in **, we're not doing well enough. You should know that the relationship must be influenced by the emotions of both parties. It's not about the truth and the cause.

If you continue to ask for reasons and then say some big facts, first of all, girls can't give you specific wishes. If the girl is only a brief rejection, it may end up being a real rejection. At this point, all you have to do is back down, show your generosity, and tell the girl that you respect her choice.

2.Briefly frozen.

Don't get pestered for a period of time after your confession is rejected. Talk to him, there is nothing special about treating her as an ordinary friend, and no one will find an ordinary friend to discuss the shortcomings of her parents.

3.Try to invite.

Can it be reversed if it is not suitable? As I said before, this girl could be a short-lived rejection. After the freezing period, you have to open the topic again and try to invite her.

If a girl can agree to go with you after repentance, it means that her previous rejection was just a fake rejection that was forced by lack of preparation. If a girl is still indifferent to you, rejects your invitations, or always communicates with you rationally, then there is no need to pursue it.

The girlfriend said that you are not suitable, you are lovers, there is a verbal promise, she mentioned that breaking up is a betrayal of the promise, why did I fall in love with you at the beginning, but now I can't, if you do something wrong, it is forgivable, if you are not wrong, she is unreliable, why bother to redeem it, it is unstable to recover, if it is your fault, you correct the mistake.

Then rectify it according to your girlfriend's opinion.