I can t forget my ex girlfriend, I don t have any feelings for the girls around me, is it sick? 20

Your normal narcissism is at work. Subconsciously you think you're getting a denial, so you want to prove that you're good by compounding. Seeing through this, it is not difficult for you to come out.

Any kind of experience can become an asset in life. For example, if you leave it exposed, it will smoke you and the surrounding area very uncomfortable, but burying it with soil will turn it into the best fertilizer.

I once read a small story about a man who broke up in anger because of a trivial matter when he was young, leaving regrets. When he fell in love again, he quarreled with his girlfriend over a trivial matter and left in a bad mood. My girlfriend was very angry, but when she opened the door, she found that the man had not left, just outside the door, she was very surprised, and asked the reason, and the man said, I missed it once, and I will not be wrong a second time.

The girlfriend was very impressed, and the two were better than before.

The years are like this, constantly polishing us with trivial things, making us more open-minded and more calm and mature. Hundreds of refining into steel around the fingers is this realm.

Let go of the past and move forward with a better self, but are you afraid that you won't meet a better other half?

I wish you a speedy way out of the predicament and towards happiness.

It's not that you're sick, it's that you haven't completely let go for her. Only distraction and focus on work and study

Lovesickness. Tying yourself up in memories is an even worse death.

But there will be someone who will love you.

So don't torture yourself fools.

Don't be stupid, young man, I don't know what this woman has experienced with you Help him after suffering with you, if you haven't eaten, this woman is not worthy of your cherishment. I don't know if it's you who can't do it or if she can't do it, let's understand it myself, I don't understand that the knife went to cut that man, and I would be happy.

Try to pay more attention to your career and life, keep yourself busy, socialize more with friends, make more friends of the opposite sex, and you will definitely find better girls.

If you want to forget about your ex-girlfriend, you must shift your attention, focus on your work, do your job well, and you can start a new relationship when you and your current girlfriend. After having a relationship, you will gradually forget about your ex-girlfriend.

If it is too severe, it is recommended that you see a psychologist to relieve the stress. If it's just a slight one, it is recommended that you keep yourself busy, then become a little better, and find a better girlfriend.

What I want to say is that you are married, so please keep a proper distance from this female colleague. You are a middle-aged man with a family, and you are responsible for the family and your wife. If you fail to do this, then your marriage will break down as a result.

I admit that feelings are not preachy, we always can't control our own feelings, but we are already adults, we should have self-control to do the right things, and stay away from the wrong things. Love is beyond your control, there are some things that can only be thought about, and things that cannot be realized in reality, you are now thinking about her feelings, but ignoring your wife's feelings, please think about why you married your wife in the first place, why you have children.

Because of love for each other, she will give herself to you, will give you a lovely child, you have to know that your wife loves you very much, you should not give others so many feelings, learn to love your wife, as for your female colleagues, you can try to be friends again, even if you have feelings, you all know that you can't be together, so please seriously consider your choice.

I always can't forget a boy I liked before, but now that he is married, I used to have only a faint contact, and now I don't even want to contact him, since I like him, I still want him to be happy, I hope not to be disturbed by me, his family does not change because of me, even if we are together, it is not necessarily happy. This relationship is the best for me, not to destroy each other, and to keep the good that it was before.

You have passed the time to have the right to love, what you should face now is responsibility, it is your own family, how many people are hurt by the combination of the two of you, I hope you can also let go and cherish your respective families. Don't linger in these things in the future, if you let your wife know, how uncomfortable it will be, so please love this family of yours.

It is true that people will be troubled for a long time by the things that are unattainable in their youth. But whether it will haunt you for a lifetime is still up for debate.

Unless you have her in this life, she will not marry.

You'll miss her so much.

In fact, it is likely to be because of regret and unwillingness, or because the current life is not good.

1.Regret and unwillingness.

It is very likely that when you were together, you felt that the other person loved you, but you didn't respond to the other person in a good and timely manner, and you felt indebted and regretful to the other person.

Or because they are not confident enough, they feel that they can't give the other party a future, and they take the initiative to give up that relationship.

2.It's not a good time at the moment.

You haven't met a girl like her in Akagi for the time being.

Or that you yourself don't bother to spend your mind and energy on who to pursue.

The teacher thinks it's not that you can't meet a good love.

It's that you have an obsession at the moment.

You think. You won't meet someone who is as infatuated with you as you used to.

Maybe you've tried to have contact with other people of the opposite sex.

Encounter a similar scenario.

How she treated you before and how she treats you now.

There's a stark contrast in your mind.

Your judgment definition of love.

It's the one who was before who has fully given and satisfied you.

You think she's the one who loves you.

But has it ever thought about a point.

There may be something missing from your heart.

It just so happens that the person you met has it on her.

Just what can she give to you? ...

It's just that you haven't encountered it again.

It's just someone who fits your heart's needs.

At different stages.

People's mentality: Dealing with the world face to face.

More or less will change.

The more you lack something in your heart, the more you cling to something.

Able to ** our own.

It's just us.

When you really want to say goodbye to the past and start over.

You will find out. It is suitable for people who fall in love and get married.

There are still exists.

It's just a matter of time sooner or later.

Above, I hope it can help you.

Reach out to new people, and let the past pass.

(1) Take the initiative to chat with your ex.

When a man forgets a girl, he will no longer take the initiative to chat with girls! Because there is no love anymore, men will feel that chatting with girls is a waste of their time. In case his current girlfriend finds out, he will be very angry.

When the time comes, you will get into trouble again!

A man who doesn't love you will never take the initiative to chat with you! Only a man who is obsessed with you will take the initiative to chat with you after you break up!

When it comes to really forgetting about our ex, we don't want to take the initiative anymore. Willing to take the initiative, just because you can't forget!

2) Keep your ex's stuff and don't throw it away.

The year before, I talked to a boyfriend. When I was with him, he accidentally told me that there was a doll that was given to him by his ex-girlfriend, and I was very angry at the time, so I asked him to throw the doll away, as his current girlfriend, I had a hard time tolerating his ex-girlfriend. He kept coaxing me, but he just didn't throw away his ex-girlfriend's doll.

I didn't want to be so stiff, so I forgave him! I always felt that as long as he loved me, I wouldn't mind his ex-girlfriend stuff!

Later, we broke up! Or because of his ex-girlfriend, his ex-girlfriend came back to him, and he broke up with me! It turns out that he has never forgotten his ex-girlfriend! When I fall in love, I just want to anesthetize myself and not think about my ex-girlfriend!

A man can't forget his ex-girlfriend, so he will keep his ex-girlfriend's things all the time. He feels like seeing her things, and he feels like he's beside him!

3) The ex-girlfriend is in difficulty, and he will go as soon as he hits **.

When a man really forgets his ex-girlfriend, he will not be entangled with his ex-girlfriend, and he will not know how to draw boundaries. Only a man who has not forgotten his ex-girlfriend will keep in touch with his ex-girlfriend all the time.

I have a female friend whose boyfriend is always going to help his ex-girlfriend, and we both remind her that his boyfriend doesn't really love her, but this girl is just too stupid, he just likes this boy so much, and he is blinded by love.

Later, my boyfriend reconciled with his ex-girlfriend! abandoned this girl, he has never forgotten his ex-girlfriend!

A man who truly loves you will not entangle his ex, he just wants to be nice to you alone!

One: When you are alone, you reminisce and miss the past.

When he is alone, he often appears in a state of almost sluggishness, and sometimes he does not respond to someone calling him, which is a typical manifestation of nostalgia.

Immersed in his own memories and unable to extricate himself, he naturally failed to forget the woman he once loved.

Two: Subconsciously mention her to a friend.

If you like something, you will want to hold it in your hand all the time, just like we usually hold our mobile phones, and we will feel unaccustomed to it after leaving it for a while.

It's the same thing to like someone, once you lose it, you will feel extremely unaccustomed and difficult to adapt, even if the two have broken up, you will still often subconsciously mention her with friends.

Three: Pay attention to her social dynamics from time to time.

In the past, carriages and horses were very slow, and people could only communicate with each other by letters; Nowadays, the Internet speed is very fast, and people rely on social communication between people, and Moments and Weibo record most of a person's life.

If a man can't forget the woman he loved, then he will pay attention to her social dynamics from time to time, want to know how she is doing recently, especially if she is no longer single.