My husband speaks ugly, never apologizes, and comes back to say that I love to be angry, what should

Updated on psychology 2024-02-29
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think your husband is selfish! Just look out for your own feelings. Regardless of your feelings, you don't know how to feel sorry for people, girls need to be hurt.

    I don't know if he's not good at expressing himself or if he really doesn't care, he won't accommodate you. A lot of boys will accommodate girls. And your husband seems to want you to accommodate him in everything, you will feel very tired, and you don't care how you feel when you encounter things.

    o() o Alas! Was that what he was like when he first got together with you? Does he really feel sorry for you?

    Or do you think that you are all his anyway when you get married, so you are not afraid that you will be angry and leave him? I still feel flat. I don't care so much.

    Girls are actually very easy to coax when they are angry. As long as my husband is patient, it's fine. If you tell him that he won't change, then you also have a little temper...

    Don't talk so easily. In that way, he will not care about your feelings even more, if you are really dissatisfied, show it, make trouble, don't be bored, then he thinks you can bear it. I can't feel your pain.

    He glared at you in front of your mother, really disrespectful to you, very disrespectful to you... Know what it feels like. You should communicate with him, and if you can't change it, leave him.

    Even if it's not really leaving. It's good to scare him, lest he doesn't care if nothing happens, then you won't be happy and tired... It also hurts your feelings a lot, after all, it's not easy to get married together, and you must have a certain feeling.

    I think your husband loves you... I'm going to reflect on it and I'm going to change it. If he can't be dismissed as indifferent or unvalued, leave him!

    That proves that he doesn't love you! At least I don't love you enough! If you continue like this, there will be problems sooner or later, and then you will be hurt even more, small quarrels are normal, sometimes quarrels can enhance the feelings of two people, but sometimes quarrels will hurt each other, it depends on how to measure, often quarrel and the result is so stiff is not a way, every time you quarrel it is so painful...

    Pressing there again and again is more uncomfortable than the last, and it has to be solved. You have time to ask your husband out and go to a quieter place. Have a good heart-to-heart talk.

    Talk about you from the beginning to the present, and then tell him how you feel, if he still doesn't care about your feelings like that. Divorce if you keep doing that! Then you won't be happy!

    If he can change his efforts, then you give him time and give him a chance. As long as there is a little bit of progress! At least he'll change because of you.

    Then he's taking care of your feelings! You'll be better off that way! I may not be able to explain it clearly, but I think you should know it in your heart!

    Hope you are happy! And you have to think about it yourself! You can't just look at the bad side of him.

    When you're sad, think about how good he is to you, and then you won't feel bad! The problem will be easier to solve! Communicate with each other anyway!

    Find out why! Then you will always be happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't have a baby yet, leave him early! This kind of man is too egoistic, maybe he is not in love with someone else, but the love for you is too insignificant in comparison to love himself. My husband is such a person, I have been in pain for more than 20 years since I met him, because I don't want my children to suffer the misfortune caused by divorce, and because I can't do without my children (it is impossible for me to take away both children), I still have to endure three years of pain (my youngest son will take the high school entrance examination soon, and I will be able to let go of high school for another three years), but in another three years, I will be almost 50, and my life will basically be over.

    I really don't want to see you follow the path I have walked, I really can't bear him, don't have a child first, he can change and regenerate, if he can't change, he will be divided, and if you have a child with him easily, you will have a bad life like me.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your husband is pampered and too ignorant. Nor do they consider the feelings of others. Let him change jobs (such as lottery betting shops, which need to deal with people and strive for long-term relationships with repeat customers) and he will be honest for half a year.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Casual divorce is a sign of extreme immaturity, and everything is resolved in a coordinated manner.

    Don't just blame the other person, but also reflect and adjust yourself.

    In short, whether it is good or not, it is a slap in the face.

    Shape up or ship out!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What is the reason for the unpleasant speech?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A fight with my boyfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, how to apologize to your husband after a quarrel: the following methods can be considered.

    First of all, you can ask him to describe the reason for the error.

    The woman's mind is that the man doesn't understand, sometimes the husband makes a mistake and doesn't know what they did wrong, many girls are angry, and when they see their girlfriend angry, so the boy will apologize, no matter if they are wrong, how can the husband admit his mistakes? In fact, the boy loves you too, but the girl does not apologize and accept, you have to tell him why he made a mistake, why he made a mistake, if he does not know that ** made a mistake, then it is easy to repeat the same mistake, so a person with high emotional intelligence will explain that the boyfriend made a mistake, and if it is not explained, then it is an obstacle that is difficult for the boy to pass.

    Secondly, the method that can be compensated. I recognize your current attitude and accept your apologies, but you need to pay the price for your mistakes, mainly to keep you alive for a long time, and then think about how to compensate me. When a woman deals with her boyfriend, she can make the man pay a little inconsequential price, and even if the man is asked to compensate for his own injuries, the woman can postpone the compensation, so the man does not compensate the woman equivalent to the woman's hand, and the compensation that the man owes the woman is equivalent to the debt.

    Then there is the need for him to reflect on himself.

    Sometimes, when a boy makes a mistake, he knows he made it, but he never wants to bring it up. After all, boys are supposed to have face, but girls are different. The girl just wants you to realize your mistakes.

    If a boy makes a mistake, apologize to you, don't accept it easily, let him reflect, when to say the wrong point, when to forgive him.

    I hope I can help friends in need.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Even if he has apologized, then the two of them calmly explained this matter carefully and carefully, and talked about why you are angry, the pros and cons of this matter, so that he can really understand your hard work, and the quarrel is not terrible, I am afraid that I will not know how to communicate after the quarrel, and after a long time, the affection will fade.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can smile at him.

    Then, tell him that we can still quarrel, which shows that we cherish each other. If we don't quarrel, it's probably time to break up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the husband bows his head, you can give him a step down, try to make a little joke and bring it over, or be silent and show your attitude with practical actions.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're a good husband. People have joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and it is impossible not to lose their temper between the two people, for fear of a cold war after a fight, and he came to apologize to show that he still loves you very much. But you have to master a degree of quarrels in the future, and you can endure it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No matter who is right or wrong, if the husband is willing to apologize first, it means that he still cares about you very much, and the tongue can still fight with the teeth, not to mention between husband and wife, don't worry about quarrels between husband and wife, if the other party apologizes first, remember the ** order.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Occasionally, this is normal, how can there be a husband and wife who do not quarrel, and there is always someone who has to bow his head and admit his mistake first, in fact, there is no need to apologize verbally and kneel and beg for mercy, there is no one who is absolutely right or wrong, bring her a cup of boiling water, hand a towel, it's not good, seriously go home today and cook a few dishes she likes, call her to go home in time to eat, you burn it.

    If you often say that you have problems in your marriage or family, you can communicate well and change it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It must be because you always forgive him again and again, you are too easy to coax, and it will create an illusion for him that "even if I treat you badly, you will still forgive me"! Don't get used to his stinky fault!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Occasionally, it's okay, every time it's like this, it's the essence of the problem, and it is estimated that it can't be changed, so I advise you to see the essence clearly, and if not, plan ahead.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Friend, it's nice that you have such a husband, he can put down the man's frame and owe you. However, it is not very good if you do it for the rest of your life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This situation can give him a chance or two, and if he does it often, he can't get used to it. It's equivalent to a slap and then a sweet date, you can't buy this account, and you can't do everything one or two again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It depends on what you lose your temper for, if he comes to coax you every time, it proves that he has you in his heart and can't let you go, so you should be generous

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That's not great, at least know how to maintain feelings. But the premise depends on why he lost his temper, and if there is no reason, then it has to be changed.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Such a man must be cured, always lose his temper with women, and is not a qualified man.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    He's not really mad at you. It's just that he wants you to be better than everyone else as his woman.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    All of a sudden, that's the devil, so less impulsive, and then not impulsive. Calm down, we ourselves are sometimes impulsive, since we can come to apologize, it means that we know that we have a problem, but we just didn't control it at the time, and we can understand.

    If you don't eat meat dishes, such as all kinds of onions, garlic, leeks, coriander, and rape, your mood will gradually stabilize, your mood will improve, and your life will naturally improve.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A few are nothing, if they do this often, simply ignore him, it's completely a habitual problem.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It seems that he is such a person, don't worry too much.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't get used to him, it's all pretending.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Knowing how to apologize means knowing that you are wrong.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Knowing that mistakes can be corrected, and good is great.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Every time my husband loses his temper with me, he comes to apologize, which shows that your husband still cares about you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    My husband is angry and doesn't speak well, so my suggestion is to appease my husband and calm him down.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Every time I quarrel with my husband, he doesn't say a word, and the more he doesn't speak, the more angry I get, what should I do?

    Hello, I will solve your doubts for you below, I hope it can help you. His lack of speech has something to do with his personality. You can't change it.

    But it's actually a good thing that he doesn't speak. Because the more he talks, sometimes you get angrier than you are. If he doesn't speak, it means that he doesn't want to argue with you, and that's a concession.

    I really hope I can help you, and I wish you happiness every day!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Summary. Hello dear, happy to answer your <>

    <> if you say something to your husband that makes him angry, then you can try the following methods to ease the situation:1Face-to-face conversation:

    Find a quiet time and place to communicate with your husband face-to-face, express your thoughts and feelings, and try to listen to your husband's opinions and suggestions to reach a mutually acceptable consensus. 2.Rational Analysis:

    Analyze whether there are elements of intensity or impulsiveness in your expression and tone, whether there are misunderstandings or prejudices, and whether the other person's thoughts and feelings are respected and understood. 3.Understanding and accommodating:

    In communication, try to adopt an understanding and tolerant attitude, respect each other's views and feelings, and build a relationship of mutual respect and trust. 4.Apologies appropriately:

    If your words and deeds are indeed inappropriate, you can apologize appropriately and express your apologies and determination to improve to alleviate the other party's dissatisfaction and resistance. Hope mine is helpful to you<>

    <>I told my husband, and he was very angry.

    Kiss you for a good spring, I'm happy to answer your <>

    <> if you say something to your husband that makes him angry, then you can try the following methods to ease the situation:1Face-to-face conversation:

    Find a quiet time and place, communicate with your husband face-to-face, express your thoughts and feelings, and try to listen to your husband's opinions and suggestions to reach a mutually acceptable consensus. 2.Rational Analysis:

    Analyze whether there are elements of intensity or impulsiveness in your expression and tone, whether there are misunderstandings or prejudices, and whether the other person's thoughts and feelings are respected and understood. 3.Understanding and accommodating:

    In communication, try to adopt an understanding and tolerant attitude, respect each other's views and feelings, and build a relationship of mutual respect and trust. 4.Apologies appropriately:

    If your words and deeds are indeed inappropriate, you can apologize appropriately and express your apologies and determination to improve to alleviate the other party's dissatisfaction and resistance. Hope mine is helpful to you<>

    <>Dear, what did you say to your husband?

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