The words that my boyfriend said when they broke up were too ugly and hurtful

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you can't get you, it'll be like this, I used to be the same, and after I broke up, I began to persuade me to reconcile, and then I learned that someone was chasing me and texting me to scold me, and it was good to break up, this kind of person is very scary!

    In the end, another man went to him and asked him to apologize to me, and the girl said to me: I'm sorry, I shouldn't have scolded you.

    Hmph, this kind of man is too immature, he should be glad to leave!

    Therefore, men still have to understand it well! Nowadays, people will pretend to be very powerful, one when they are good, one after they get married, and another one after they break up!

    Sister! Good! Stay away from him!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Well, his performance strengthened your determination to break up. How can a man who really loves you be willing to hurt you and scold you. Go find someone who really loves you, you should be glad to break up with him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Didn't he keep it? 》

    In fact, don't judge what kind of person he is by looking at his academic qualifications.

    Many college students are not as illiterate as possible, so you should step on a slope of, don't blame it.

    Girls don't scold, he doesn't want manners, but we women have to ask for it, and then delete it for him, and if he scolds you again, you can report it

    I hope that I will soon be free from his sea of suffering.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you break up, you have to be free and easy Giving up itself is a relief Why do you always think about such ugly words to torture yourself Why punish yourself for other people's mistakes I want to open up There are many good men I wish you to come out of the shadows as soon as possible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Wow sun. Such a human-faced beast heart. I really don't know if you're bad luck or good luck. Unlucky to meet such a man, good luck is to leave him early.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This kind of pleasure is a lot, not in the level of education, the depth of the position.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't be sad to at least prove that your decision is very correct .

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    People who don't have the quality of reading only have a little taste, divide it, my junior high school students are more qualified than him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People are separated from their stomachs, and I broke up with him anyway, but I wonder how you know that he scolded you for half an hour? Don't you hang ** and listen to him scold you all the time? If so, you're interesting.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Eh, it's better to divide it, otherwise it won't be easy to clean up in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Congratulations on getting out of the wolf's den and getting a new lease of life!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    We will encounter a variety of emotions in our lives, and the posture of feelings is also varied. And there will inevitably be some contradictions and disputes in the relationship, so in a relationship, if your boyfriend quarrels and speaks badly, should you break up?

    In fact, for the matter of love, most of the time it is sweet. And it can also make people feel happy, which is also a characteristic of love. When you meet different people in a relationship, you will often have different emotional endings and different emotional states.

    Some people occupy an active position in love, and some people occupy a passive position in love. These people also have different attitudes towards relationships, so when they encounter problems in their relationships, they deal with them differently. And some people are actually more extreme in their relationships, and they will not be able to control their emotions and get angry with those close to them.

    This is actually very hurtful, and if a person often speaks hard during arguments, it means that the person actually has some extreme personality. And the attitude towards the other half is also a little too impulsive, which is why this happens. In fact, such a situation can hurt the feelings between two people very much, and it will also hurt the other half's enthusiasm for you.

    Therefore, if you encounter problems in a relationship, you can calmly negotiate and resolve them. Because quarrels won't solve any problems, they will make them bigger and bigger. It will also deepen the contradictions between you, and there is no point in doing so.

    In a relationship, although quarrels are inevitable, you can try your best to control your emotions. This minimizes the damage between you and is a great way for both of you.

    So to sum up, if your boyfriend quarrels and speaks hard in a relationship, you should reasonably persuade the other party. If the other party has always been like this, you should choose to break up, because there is no point in arguing in a relationship, and it will hurt the feelings between you after a long time, so what do you think?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In the relationship, the boyfriend quarrels and talks very hard, I think I should break up, say cruel things, ugly words, such people are very selfish, not tolerant, no tolerance, so I think you should break up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Personally, I don't think we should break up.

    Because lovers quarrel with each other, this is a very normal phenomenon. Maybe your boyfriend is so emotional that he says something ugly.

    If he can take the initiative to apologize to you or make you happy after he calms down, such a boy can still continue to get along.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    should break up, such a boyfriend is not worth choosing at all, and it is particularly ugly when he speaks, there is no need to wronged himself, or he should choose a suitable person for himself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's really hurtful to talk very badly, especially when you're quarrelling, and you're a man, you can give him advice, don't let him talk so loudly, talk to you gently, no matter when, quarrel is not to say heavy things to you, if you have your words in your heart, he will change for you, and he won't say those things, on the contrary, he still does what I don't change, he is a person who doesn't think about others, occasionally once or twice is okay, often it hurts feelings, One day, if you can't stand it, you will naturally break up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is normal for couples to quarrel, and generally people in love will quarrel to a greater or lesser extent, but if two people really love each other, even if they quarrel, they will not hurt each other. But if the other party speaks hard during the quarrel and says something that hurts your self-esteem, I think you can remind him to pay attention in the future, and if it doesn't work, I suggest you break up. Because if you treat you like this before marriage, you won't be happy even if you get married.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your boyfriend speaks roughly, this is what you can tell him, can you sometimes speak tactfully, don't hurt too much directly, you can give him advice, if you break up directly, he doesn't have any big character problems, it's a pity.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In a relationship, if the boyfriend says something very ugly when two people quarrel, then they must break up, because if he can say such things, it means that she thinks so in her heart.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In the relationship, the boyfriend quarrels and speaks, it is difficult to listen to and accept, so they break up, and sometimes the quarrel will reveal their true colors and true thoughts.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You should break up, because this kind of boyfriend is very unreliable, and this kind of boyfriend doesn't think about the other party at all.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The answer suggests that you have to think about it carefully, sometimes the verbal hurt is worse than how it hurts, and this situation will not be less in the future, as long as you are together, it is impossible to have no quarrels, can you accept it every time he does this.

    Now he just thinks I can't live without him, and every time he coaxes me, it's fine.

    Ask if he doesn't love me or if there's something wrong with his personality.

    The question means that I can accept his shortcomings, and I can't just break up.

    Ask me if I have any problems with myself.

    When I asked a question, I thought he was stingy and could be generous to others, but he was stingy with me. He does all these housework, but he likes to chatter, saying that he does it, and he wants me to do it in the future, does he not like me.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Of course it should. Because such a boyfriend is particularly irritable and suspected of domestic violence, you should leave him immediately.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In a relationship, if your boyfriend is hard to listen to and has no quality when he talks and quarrels, then do you think he can be suitable for you? If he really doesn't fit a man of your quality, will you be happy living with him? Can you accept this situation?

    If you can't, you should break up with him decisively.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It proves that your boyfriend's personality is problematic, and it also proves that his cultivation and self-cultivation are problematic, and it can prove that he is a short-tempered person"Acute sub"。

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think this needs to look at yourself, if you can't accept it, then it's better to break up, if you think it's all for your own good, you can understand it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you really like you or really love you, and it's hard to hear what you say because of some trivial things that you quarrel about, then you have to see if you like him or not, can you accept it?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In the relationship, the boyfriend quarrels and speaks very ugly, should you break up, you have to think about it yourself, if you feel that it is too hard to get along with him, too tired, and you don't want to wronged yourself, then break up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It may be that you hurt him in some way, so if you break up and say these words, you will still think of your benefits in the future, people are like this, and you will regret it later.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hello, I think he will definitely regret what he said today, because boys are like this, they always say ugly things, and then after a while, he keeps regretting how can this be, this is the so-called man speaks without brains!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    has already broken up, or broke up unhappily, it is estimated that it is unlikely that he will regret it, but it is possible to forget it completely.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think he'll regret it when he thinks about it, right?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    He is afraid of your entanglement and does not want to see you. Over time he will grow. He will have a new understanding of what he has done today. I hope you can get out of this relationship as soon as possible.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It may be said that some people may regret him, and some of them are like that.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    My boyfriend broke up and said a lot of ugly things, which means that he really doesn't want to be with you anymore, and he shouldn't regret the breakup he proposed.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    He doesn't regret it, but you must have been hurt, so let's contact less if you are separated!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Most people do it with hindsight!

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I think that since he said so many ugly words, it must have been well thought out, he will not regret it, and since he has broken up, you don't care so much.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Summary. Hello dear, glad I came to you with this question. A man's words when he broke up with his girlfriend were particularly ugly, which illustrates these aspects:

    First, this man has no self-cultivation and does not understand the truth of gathering and dispersing. The second aspect is that this man is not generous and does not have a tolerant heart. The third aspect shows that it is the right choice for you to break up with him, and when you break up, a person's attitude reveals his true nature.

    The more he says the breakup words are ugly, it means that he doesn't really love you, and the more determined you are to take the road in the future.

    Hello dear, glad I came to you with this question. A man's words when he broke up with his girlfriend were particularly ugly, which illustrated these aspects: first, this man has no self-cultivation and does not understand the truth of getting together and dispersing.

    The second aspect is that this man is not generous and does not have a tolerant heart. The third aspect shows that it is the right choice for you to break up with him, and when you break up, a person's attitude reveals his true nature. The more he says the breakup words are ugly, it means that he doesn't really love you, and the more determined you are to take the road in the future.

    Dear, can you tell the teacher about the specific situation, and let the teacher help you analyze and analyze.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Summary. Your boyfriend's words are very hurtful to listen to, and sometimes the man may not speak out of his intention, he may be because he didn't take your feelings into account too much at the time. Although not unforgivable, appropriate punishment is necessary.

    Because when two people fall in love, they must often empathize and take into account each other's feelings. If in a relationship, a man who only cares about his own feelings becomes a habit, he will habitually not care about the woman's feelings. Boys must think more about girls, and don't speak without thinking.

    Your boyfriend's words are very hurtful to listen to, and sometimes the man may not speak out of his intention, he may be because he didn't take your feelings into account too much at the time. Although not unforgivable, appropriate punishment is necessary. Because when two people fall in love, they must often empathize and take into account each other's feelings.

    If in a relationship, a man who only cares about his own feelings becomes a habit, he will habitually not care about the woman's feelings. Boys must think more about girls, and don't speak without thinking.

    He spoke yesterday with a fucking sentence that made people very angry.

    This kind of person just doesn't have much emotional intelligence.

    I just got off work and came into the house, he called** asked me if I had eaten, I said no, he came to a fucking sentence and didn't eat, I was angry and said how to talk, **hung up and hit again** I didn't answer.

    Could it be that you say that you don't eat and your attitude is not very good? He called ** first and came over to care about you.

    I replied to him at night with a message that he was open-mouthed, and he didn't want to say it if he was annoyed, but he didn't say it, and he didn't hit a ** until now.

    No, I feel good about it.

    That's his problem. I think it's better to say some things in person.

    **There is no expression on the surface I think some words may be misunderstood.

    Maybe your boyfriend is in a hurry.

    We are both teachers and never say words that are not qualified, I was very angry when I came to that sentence yesterday, we plan to get married next month.

    I don't think he cares about me as much as he used to, and he never bought me any gifts, which is quite disappointing.

    There is another reason, I think he can want to ask you to eat with him, but you say that you don't eat, maybe he feels that his appetite is uncomfortable with you in his mouth.

    Honest boys won't take the initiative to buy gifts.

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