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It must be because of something that makes his parents think that you are not suitable to be a daughter-in-law, I guess.
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Not long? Before getting married, it's best not to be too hasty, and you don't know each other or the other party's parents at all, so you talk about marriage?
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The most important thing is your boyfriend, if we insist, how to get to this point.
Or break up!
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What should I do if my parents don't agree? "Feelings of parental opposition" can do this.
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I think so.
If the man's parents disagree and oppose the tough attitude, then I suggest that you can express your attitude to the man's parents first, and the specific methods are as follows:
First, talk to your boyfriend about what he thinks about it. If your boyfriend is very determined to be with you, then you need to face and convince his parents together.
Then, ask your boyfriend to find out the real reason why his parents don't like him. Whether it's because of family conditions, education or character. Only by understanding the specific reasons can we resolve this contradiction more effectively.
If it is because of the influence of an unchangeable family of origin, then it is recommended that you still accept it and strive to become an excellent person. Enrich yourself in many ways, because when you are excellent, you will have more choices. Even if you don't end up being together by fate, you can be cherished in the next relationship.
Finally, it is recommended that you must get the blessing of the man's parents before you can choose to get married. Because if a marriage does not have the blessing of parents, then this marriage will not last long.
JJ is here to wish you a lover and finally become a family!
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If the man's parents don't agree, they have to wait, and they have to use their temperament and personality charm to conquer the man's parents. Let the man's parents slowly appreciate their knowledge, cultivation, and character. Finally get their consent and blessing.
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The man's parents don't agree, that's the man's own business, if he really wants to marry you, I think he will have a way to convince his parents.
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Answer, from the description analysis, you must first know the reasons for the opposition, and then convince them according to the specific reasons, as long as your relationship is strong enough, you will eventually agree to your marriage.
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If you are true love for each other, then you must insist that you will definitely be impressed.
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Why don't you agree, what is the reason, just solve it.
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If your boyfriend's family doesn't agree, it depends on your boyfriend's attitude, but the reality is very cruel, and you can choose from the following points:
1.If the man's parents do not agree, it is not recognized, and this kind of disapproval will make the man's parents look down on him from the beginning, and he may suffer a lot of grievances when he marries.
The reason why the man's parents do not agree must be that the woman does not look down on and approve of some places, and this disapproval has planted the seeds of contempt in their hearts. If the two of them have the ability themselves, they can complete all the matters of marriage. However, many men still need the help of their parents to complete all the matters of marriage, which will allow the seeds of disdain in the hearts of the man's parents to gradually take root and sprout.
After marriage, they all interfere in your life with a high profile, looking down on you everywhere and hitting you everywhere. Although most young people now marry and live separately, but the marriage of a girl is equivalent to being a person to integrate into the man's family, if the man's parents do not want to see him, then he will definitely suffer a lot of grievances after marriage.
2.The attitude of the man's parents will affect the relationship between the husband and wife.
Girls are emotional and can easily get carried away by feelings. I thought that as long as this man loves me, I will marry this man, not his parents. So even if the man's parents object, he will marry without hesitation for love.
But after a long time, I know that the attitude of the man's parents will affect the attitude of the man. If the man's parents don't want to see you, it will definitely affect the relationship between the husband and wife. If you have a conflict with your in-laws, a man can stand by your side once or twice, but he can't keep arguing with his parents because of you.
And if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have bad contradictions and family discord, many men will also feel that women don't know how to tolerate and can't be people, and no matter how good love is, they can't afford such consumption.
3.It's going to be hard to get married.
After getting married, they are also facing the stage of getting pregnant, giving birth to children, and taking care of children. If the man's parents do not agree, it is difficult to be willing to take the initiative to lend a helping hand and help when the woman needs help after marriage. Then it will be really hard in the future, and it will be very tiring.
Of course, this is not absolute, if both parties are very determined and have the ability to live their own lives, then stick to it and show it to their parents, and they will eventually reap a happy ending.
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Legal Analysis:1Impress with sincerity.
2.The freedom to marry is as long as both the man and the woman are willing to do so, and Conglu is not bound by others.
The law is based on the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China, Article 10000 Zheng Chi 046 Marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and it is forbidden for either party to coerce the other party, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere.
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Legal Analysis:1Impress with sincerity.
2.The freedom to marry is free as long as both the man and the woman are willing and not bound by other interlocutors.
Legal basis: Article 1046 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and it is forbidden to force either party to the other, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere.
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Get your mindset right. Even if the boyfriend's parents do not agree to get married, the girlfriend must not get angry or throw her face on the spot, which will only make the three parties unable to get off the stage. You can't impulsively ask your boyfriend whether you want your parents or yourself.
After all, in most people's hearts, parents are much more important than a wife who hasn't entered the door yet, although it sounds a little sad, but it is indeed true. Therefore, women must correct their mentality, when you enter your boyfriend's house, in fact, he and his parents are a family, and his girlfriend is just a guest.
Retreat. If the boyfriend's parents do not agree to the marriage and it is proposed on the spot, then it is necessary to pay attention and must not refute or ask why. Because this will only reduce your worth, and it will also make you seem very impatient.
All you have to do is sit on the side in silence and let your boyfriend talk. Most of the time, your boyfriend must be more anxious than you, and no matter what he says to his parents, his parents will not have any estrangement. And if you talk back, then whether it's your boyfriend's parents or your boyfriend, you won't feel too comfortable.
After that, you don't have to stay there. After all, Xiaobaihua's routine is okay to use once or twice, and if you use it all the time, it will make people feel bored. Friendly and polite to the boyfriend's parents, "I'm sorry, uncle and aunt, I came to visit you today to make you happy, but I didn't expect to cause you so much trouble."
I'll leave first, I hope you take care of yourself. Such words, whether in the hearts of boyfriend's parents or in the hearts of boyfriends, will raise their image for themselves.
Coordinate the relationship.
Next, the boyfriend will definitely apologize to himself, so at this time, you must control yourself and don't complain all kinds of at the beginning. Instead, you should show your "reasonable" side, show that you understand the other person's parents, and want to improve your own shortcomings. This will really make men feel that they have found a particularly sensible girlfriend, which saves worry and effort, and can also be more confident to fight with their parents.
If you make a lot of noise at this time, it will make the male ticket feel tired, and it is easy to push the man farther and farther. Therefore, at this time, you must endure and say some gentle words to your boyfriend.
Face it with your boyfriend.
Of course, for the reasons for disagreement raised by the boyfriend's parents, it can be appropriately changed within some ranges. For example, if you dislike spending money lavishly, you can imply that the other party spends her own money on buying things, and she has not spent her son's. However, pretend to turn a blind eye to reasons such as short height and bad stature, and don't be "real" with the other party.
Even if you are reasonable, but if you have a bad impression, what if you are reasonable? It can be seen that if the boyfriend's parents do not agree to get married, they still have to take gentle measures, not head-on, but should break through from the boyfriend's point of view to achieve the purpose of redeeming the boyfriend and letting his parents agree to the marriage between the two of you.
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You should communicate with them well to show your attitude, tell them that you really love each other, whether they agree or not, you will be together.
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Then you have to see why you don't agree, and only by finding the reason can you solve the problem.
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Find out the cause, support the woman and work with targeted parenting.
If one party does not agree to divorce, the divorce method adopts the form of litigation divorce, and the specific operation process is as follows: 1. Court mediationAccording to the laws of our country, if one of the men and women requests a divorce, and the other party does not agree, the relevant departments may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. When the people's courts of our country hear a case where one party does not agree to divorce, it shall first conduct mediation; 2. The court decides that if the court finds that the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down and there is no possibility of reconciliation, the court may make a judgment granting the parties a divorce.
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