My husband gave birth to a son outside and hid it from me for 5 years, can I still have such a man?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-15
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Strictly speaking, it should not be wanted, whether it is mentally or physically in marriage, you can't betray each other, this is the bottom line, of course, you can only know if you don't admit it, no one knows, but physical betrayal can have evidence, since you have betrayed, you don't need to forgive.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Alas, such a husband naturally can't be wanted, it's really unlucky to encounter this kind of thing, if you are still young and have no children, then leave him quickly, such a scumbag does not have happiness at all, but if you have children and you are older, this is more troublesome, find a way to tell him to go out of the house, don't be together again, because then life will only be a mess, chickens and dogs jump over the wall, what is the fun.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My husband gave birth to a son outside and hid it from you for five years, can you still have such a man? It's up to you what you think. If you can stand him raising a son outside, a woman, you will stay by your side.

    If it's unbearable, then leave, and find a good man to live with. But don't be stupid. To fight for property.

    Don't have mercy on this scumbag. Fight for your power. The court will give you a fair verdict.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If your husband gives birth to a son outside and hides it from you for five years, you have to look at your actual situation, if you still have feelings for your husband, he is still very good to you, and he is very good at handling family relationships, so you can accept him! Let's just think you're married for the second time!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It depends on how deep your relationship with him is, and only you know best about emotional matters. No one else can jump to conclusions. If you feel that he is not worthy of your love anymore, then leave him, and if you feel that he is still worthy of your love, so that you can accept this reality, then go ahead.

    But you can't let this hurt you for a long time, after all, life is your own, and you have to be kind to yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This kind of thing can not be done by others, you can only rely on yourself, emotionally speaking, such a man can't be wanted, but if you have other aspects of the tie only you know, so you can only weigh it yourself and then decide.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, my husband gave birth outside, and my son took you for 5 years, I don't think you can have such a man. The vast majority of women do not accept this reality, and it is recommended that you think carefully about your future life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're so foolish! The children are all five years old, so he must have been out there for more than five years, don't you know? In your case, there is no way to separate, since he has children outside, there is no need for you to be together, so let's get together and disperse.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Can't ask for it! Such a man has no sense of responsibility and must not ask for it. You yourself know you can't ask for it, but you can't make up your mind, so you have to ask.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, you can go to the court to sue for divorce, your husband is obviously at fault, and the court will consider the division of property at its discretion.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course you can't, you can go to the court to sue him, so that the sooner the stealing man leaves, the more worry-free, he will not end well!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Such a man is already distracted from you. The heart is no longer in you. There are others, loved. Leave him early and find your own happiness! Such a man must not want.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Such a man is not real and disloyal to his family and lover, and he really can't ask for it. Engage in a junior outside. Don't talk about such a big thing. It's so selfish, leave him. Let's get a divorce.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    has been hiding from you for five years, which means that your husband cares more about you and doesn't want to leave you. Otherwise, I would have brought the junior home.

    You can comprehensively consider your family situation, the relationship between the child and the husband, and you can give him a chance.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This kind of thing is not new, there are too many, it depends on your ability to bear. Can you bear the consequences of divorce, it's okay to say that it is okay to say that divorce hurts the most is the child, and the child wants to guard his biological parents. Leaving either is infinitely infinitus' detriment.

    Because I'm a divorced mother, it's so hard. Therefore, it is recommended that you do not divorce, but you should not be too wronged by yourself, call all his family members and let him give a promise.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on what you think? If you still want to continue living with your husband, you still love him very much. And he can tolerate him giving birth to a son outside. There is also the fact that Xiao San, then you will continue to live with him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Your husband gave birth to a son outside and hid it from you for 5 years, which shows that he still cares about you and doesn't want to divorce you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You definitely can't ask for it, remember to fight for property in divorce, don't be stupid.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It depends on your actual situation. Calmly think it through. In the case of divorce, what will happen to you in the future.

    Isn't it still the way it is now? If you are still young. One is okay, but it's older.

    Just think about it. So many years have passed. I don't know.

    Everything has passed.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then don't ask for it, divorce when you need to divorce, you can fight for more property, don't be soft!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's up to you how you choose. If you still ask, it means that you are still hesitating in your heart, and there must be a reason. Weigh it yourself. The average person has long been divorced, without hesitation.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What else do you want? It has come to this point that the only way is to divorce and sue him at the same time to make him compensate you for your losses.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, how does he treat you? Do you feel happy in the past 5 years? Does he give you a sense of happiness and security? If he has always been very good to you and you cherish him, you can calm down and talk seriously before making plans.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Summary. If the husband has a child with someone else in the marriage, it is a violation of the marriage law and a violation of the law, so at this time you should immediately collect evidence, if you want to separate from your husband, and you want to get your due property, you should immediately collect evidence of him and the child, so that you have a strong condition. After collecting the evidence of his father and son with the child, you can casually file for divorce later, and you will be able to get most of the property, so that it is the compensation for your youth and those previous relationships.

    If the husband has a child with someone else in the marriage, it is a violation of the marriage law and a violation of the law, so at this time you should immediately collect evidence of the elder brother, if you want to separate from the husband and reincarnate, and you want to get your due property, you should immediately collect evidence of him and the child, so that you have a strong condition. After collecting the evidence of his father and son with the child, you can casually file for divorce later, and you will be able to get most of the property, so that you can compensate for your youth and those previous feelings.

    I carried all the children's hukou here.

    Have you ever thought about it? If she just wants to have a child, what should I do because the other party has only been giving him a child for three months.

    Can this marriage be salvaged?

    Who wants children.

    My husband wants to have children.

    But the woman was unwilling to give.

    Have you ever thought about whether you still have hope without their children?

    She specified that she would not give it.

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