What should I do if I like something, but others don t think it s suitable for me?

For what you like, you can try to have it, and after you have it, you can choose to give it up if you feel that it is not suitable for you. Because there are many times when you give up what you like when you don't try, it's a pity.

You don't need to consider other people's feelings, because everyone's aesthetic is different, as long as you like it, it's enough, what you like is suitable for you, it's not easy to meet what you like, so don't waver.

You can get what you like, sometimes you don't need to listen too much to others, you have to follow your own opinions, but sometimes you have to listen to other people's opinions, depending on whether it is necessary to insist on your own.

First of all, it is very important to like yourself, and you have to please yourself first, and then learn to please others. The second is that you must do what you can when you buy something, as long as you can afford it, and then you like it, then you must buy it.

I think if you like something yourself, you do it to please yourself, not to please others, so if you like yourself, you can buy it and feel good about yourself, don't care about other people's feelings.

If you think you really like it, and it's not very expensive, I suggest you just satisfy your own ideas, after all, you need to use it yourself.

As long as I like to care about what other people do, I often do this, I only buy what I like, I never listen to other people's opinions, even if they think it is not good or not suitable for me, I will stick to my own.

Sometimes, we find that the person we like is not a good fit for us, even though we put a lot of effort into maintaining the relationship. In my experience, there were two factors that led me to cut out the people I liked, and that was the communication problem and the different directions of growth.

The first factor is the problem of communication. When two people are together, communication is the cornerstone of a stable and healthy relationship. If both parties are not open to exchanging questions and feelings, the relationship will start to go wrong.

In my case, I've found that the people I like are always reluctant to talk to me, especially when I'm trying to talk about something deep. He often avoided talking about it or just gave me something simple. This caused me to feel neglected and helpless, while also hindering further communication and development between us.

Eventually, I decided that there was no future for this relationship that lacked communication skills, so I decided to cut him out.

The second factor is a different direction of growth. When two people are together, they are separate individuals, and during dating, they communicate and share in all aspects of their lives. However, sometimes we find that we may grow in different directions and we have different ideas and plans, which makes it difficult for us to be together.

In my case, there are significant differences between me and the person I like in terms of career planning, lifestyle, and long-term goals. His plan seems to be more focused on pleasure and the pleasures of the moment, while I am more focused on self-growth and future planning. Even though he is a very interesting and charming person, I think that if we continue to be with him, we may have differences in the future, which eventually led me to delete him.

In conclusion, even if the person you like is attractive, the key is to recognize if the communication and growth direction between you are compatible. If there is a problem with these two aspects, then it will be difficult to maintain such a relationship. In my case, I chose to cut out the person I liked, and although it was a painful thing, I thought it was to find a better relationship and future for both of us.

Because he lacks a feeling that makes your heart flutter. It's like you like to drink coffee with sugar and milk, and he's a cup of coffee, but without sugar and without milk. It's helpless, and I don't have the urge to drink

I think it's really not easy to meet the right person, because everyone has their own special requirements, and it's hard to find a person who is suitable in all aspects. And you, you did find this person, but you just don't like him, it's really a coincidence. 

Some people will say: If he is suitable, you will marry, it is not easy to meet a person who treats you sincerely and is suitable, and if you miss this village, there will be no such store. That being said, it makes sense, but it ignores that you don't like him. 

Since you don't like him, don't force yourself to be with him, because such a relationship will not let you get the happiness you want. This life is still a long time, maybe soon you will meet someone you like and like you, and I am sure that you will definitely find your own love. 

If you feel like you want to be with him, you might as well try to date him for a while, get to know him again, and maybe you will really like him. Just like shoes, you don't know if they fit when you put them on, so if you feel like it, you might as well try it, and if it's not suitable, it's never too late to break up. Just don't miss out on the right person.

If you don't have this idea at all, go your own way, don't always look back and recruit him, maybe you will hurt him inadvertently. Moving forward means that you are going to miss him, but it also means that there will be another possibility in your life. 

If you want to find a partner, it is better to find someone who you like and like yourself, so that it will last longer

Love depends on feelings, it is never a condition, if you can fall in love with each other because of a person's conditions, then love will not become so accessible and unseekly! The right conditions are the icing on the cake for love, but it is definitely not a necessary reason for love, you love someone, love his voice and smile, love everything about him, maybe when love happens even you don't know, and everything outside has nothing to do with it!

I met a boy on a blind date last year, and all aspects of the conditions are very in line with my requirements, he is very careful, very motivated, will take care of people, and he is quite funny to speak, in the eyes of others, he is a necessary candidate for my boyfriend, and I thought so at first. At first, even if I didn't feel for him, I convinced myself over and over again that the relationship could be cultivated slowly, he was already very good, and what reason did I have to dislike him, two months later, I still couldn't like him, and I didn't have the happiness of being in love when I met him, and I didn't feel like a topic for chatting, and in front of him, I lost my most lively and cheerful side. He could also feel my attitude towards him, and cautiously asked me if he was not doing well, and I smiled bitterly and said, you are already very good, but we are not suitable.

After my mother found out about this, she also accused me for a long time, thinking that I was too picky, and how could I marry in the future, but only I know that without love, it becomes difficult to get along even for a day. If I really marry and have children with this seemingly very compatible boy because of my age, I think the probability is very slim whether we will be happy after marriage.

Follow your heart, don't force yourself if you don't like it, your life is so long, find someone you love and live well!

Truth is what you've said yourself.

Although he is very good and positive, he has good knowledge and character, and he is suitable in all aspects, but you just don't like it.

It's neither your problem nor his.

Feelings are not just about whether they are suitable or not, this is not a merit-based choice, nor is it an equivalent exchange.

Therefore, feelings are the most difficult and nerve-wracking thing.

If you lack the feeling of heartbeat, it's a bit of a big deal! Because feelings are very emotional things, they are determined by feelings.

If you don't particularly "hate to marry", then don't start rashly with the other party, many people who are "happy because the conditions are right and feel almost" are not very happy in the end.

If you are the kind of person who values conditions and doesn't care about feelings, probably if you are with him, he will be your best choice.

But when you ask, it's clear that you're not.

So, you should be fair to the other person and don't be confused now and hurt in the future. You should also give yourself a chance to find true love.

I believe you will definitely meet someone who is suitable in all aspects and is particularly attractive.

In fact, there are many people who are suitable, but there are very few people who are eye-catching, so I think whether I like it or not is more important than whether I am suitable for me.