What should I do if people don t approve of me!? What should I do if others don t approve of me?

Because of various reasons, many people around us have different values, as long as you do your best, believe in yourself, and believe that there will always be a time to be recognized.

Don't care too much about how others see you, what matters is how you feel.

It doesn't matter if we are not recognized, we must insist on following our own path, and after we succeed, they will look up to you and even take the initiative to seek experience from you.

When making a choice, find your own advantages, see the direction of things in the future, it doesn't matter if others don't recognize it, and you don't have regrets.

No matter how you choose, it is important to look at yourself first, take responsibility for what you do, and not give up halfway.

If you want others to recognize you, you must first be worthy of recognition. No matter what you choose to do, you must do it with a responsible attitude.

People don't approve of it, and we must face this situation correctly.

You have to know that everyone has their own opinions, and if they don't agree, it means that they have opinions and have their own opinions. You can communicate further, and if it doesn't work, you can only put it in perspective.

It doesn't matter if you only do yourself, you only work hard and are only self-motivated.

Be yourself, you are not RMB.

You don't need the approval of others. In fact, it doesn't matter what other people think, it's the most important thing to be yourself.

Be a better version of yourself and don't care too much about what others say.

Tell yourself that there is always a place for gold to shine! If you are indeed the pride of the sky, a rare talent! It's not necessarily your fault that people don't recognize you, you know? Maybe they don't really know you, haha! Do you understand?

Thank you and best wishes! Live happily every day!

People first, we have to see how many people don't recognize us.

If it's just one or two people who don't approve, then there's no need to panic, it may be a difference in individual preferences that doesn't have much impact.

If more than a third of the people disagree, then it is necessary to pay close attention to it, and there may really be some common problems in us.

Second, we need to see who disapproves of us.

If it is someone who has a strong voice and does not recognize us, such as some leaders and some very prestigious colleagues, then we should pay attention, especially when it is only for ourselves.

If it is the people who have little voice who do not approve of us, then we can pay due attention to it.

If the people who have more contact with our work do not recognize us, then we should pay attention to it, which means that some problems in our work have not been solved well.

If the people we have less contact with work don't approve of us, then we can pay attention.

Third, reflect on why you don't recognize us.

Some people have a mentality of exalting themselves by hitting others, which shows that our progress is a threat to others, in fact, it also reflects our achievements from the side, and we don't have to pay too much attention to these people.

It is also possible that our work ability is insufficient, which has caused an impact on others, which should cause us to attach great importance to it, and we must find our shortcomings and improve them.

It is also possible that there are contradictions and conflicts in the work, which have created a bad impression on others, and we must find out the causes of conflicts and contradictions, and take the initiative to eliminate contradictions and misunderstandings between each other.

In the end, it may be that our way of working, words and deeds are unaccustomed to others, which is also a matter of individual differentiation, but if our behavior does not meet the requirements of team culture or professional quality, we must correct it. If you want to be recognized by others, you must recognize yourself. If you look down on yourself, why should others look down on you?

Don't care too much about other people's eyes, though. You yourself have to pay attention to everything you say and do, and don't lose to others in terms of image. As long as you can be sure in your heart, I believe that there is nothing that cannot be done.

And you should also improve yourself everywhere, and unswervingly do something for yourself that can enhance your self-worth.

If you want others to recognize you, you first have to recognize yourself. Everything goes with the flow, if you want to do something well, first of all, don't have that concept in your heart. There is no need to force everything, there is no place to live, and the result will come.

Hello there! Glad to be able to you with this question. For your question, I think it should be that you are a little sensitive to other people's remarks, thinking too much, and not very confident in yourself.

I would like to say:Everyone is unique, and everyone is born with their own value. Therefore, you don't need to care about what others think of you, do what you want to do, whether others recognize it or not is his business, and it has nothing to do with you, do your best.

Lu Xun gave up medicine and followed literature, there must be many people who don't understand, but Lu Xun really became an excellent writer in the end. So we don't have to worry too much about what others think of you in life, the road of life is your own way, and the difficulties are experienced by yourself, don't think too much, and do your best in a down-to-earth manner.

If we still care about the approval of others, we can try to divert our attention and do what we like. For example, in a quiet environment, read a book and relax. There may be a lot of insights.

That's all for me, and I hope you get the most out of it.

Ask the reason for the disapproval and correct it.

You should focus on communicating with your parents. In fact, in China, many parents like to be "bad critics" for their children, blaming their children more and praising them less. When such children grow up, they usually have low self-esteem and are confused.

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If your parents treat you in the same way that they exalt and belittle you, you need to understand that they may not love you and disapprove of you. Instead, they are deeply influenced by traditional culture, and agree with educational concepts such as "criticism makes people progress", "beating is pro, scolding is love, and if you don't beat or scold, you won't be successful". Many Chinese parents have problems with their psychological functioning, and they are not psychologically mature and perfect enough to be able to appreciate and recognize others.

Let's not care too much about one thing: A big factor in how stressed we feel is because we care too much about one thing, causing us to be afraid or worry about making mistakes. Then we are very cautious and cautious to do it, if it takes a long time, we will be very oppressed, so the pressure will be greater, at this time we need to relax, don't care too much about one thing, learn to look down.

Knowing your parents, you have the initiative to communicate. Knowing what our parents think, how they behave, what interests and hobbies they have, what temperament they have, and what expectations they have from us, we will have foresight and initiative in communicating with them. Respect, understanding is key.

Respect is a basic requirement for interacting with parents. If you don't respect even the people who love you the most and give the most to yourself, you will lose the most basic morality. To communicate with parents normally, we must first understand their parents, understand their feelings, respect their wishes, and pay attention to basic politeness and not be willful.

Then try to make yourself good until they approve of you, and anyone can let him down, and his family can't let him down.

Of course, after working hard to make yourself successful, they will naturally have a sense of recognition for you, and you will naturally take away that glass heart.

I think that in addition to your family, as long as there are others who recognize you, then you are very good, and you should be more confident.

Then live well, strive to live your own wonderful, people's achievements are their own, just believe in yourself, don't care too much about your family.

Therefore, we are asked not to have a little achievement, and talk about small things casually with the family, so that the family's impression of you will naturally form the status quo that you are unreliable.

You don't have to take it to heart, it's all in the past, learn to evaluate yourself, affirm yourself, and "get out" of them psychologically, so that you can find your own life.

You just need to work hard silently and strive for your goals, you have to affirm your own efforts and efforts, believe in yourself, and say what your family says in and out of your right ear.

Only if you work harder, become better, work hard, improve your ability more, and change their perceptions.

I think you still have to communicate with the people at home, because I think there must be some misunderstanding between you to make this happen.