Why do some women not like to have children?

Objectively speaking, there are some personal reasons why women do not like to have children.

Maybe the woman doesn't like children, she thinks that children are too noisy and noisy, and she will be very hard, and she is not ready to be a patient mother. It is also possible that the economic conditions do not allow it, the woman's family is very poor, and having a child will be a burden, which is not conducive to the growth of the child and also puts pressure on them. It is also possible that she feels that she has not yet decided which city to settle in, and it will be very troublesome after birth.

Of course, part of this is due to subjective reasons.

Someone sees that her parents have worked like this all their lives since they gave birth to themselves, and they have no life of their own, and she is afraid that she will become like this, and her life is meaningless without self. It may also be out of distrust of her husband, feeling that she will really become a yellow-faced woman after giving birth to a child, and there will be many trivial things at that time, and she will not be able to care more about her husband, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife. Of course, there are also people who don't like to have children because they don't want to leave scars and don't want to be out of shape.

One of the weirdest I've ever seen is my friend, she has a good relationship with his boyfriend, and she also likes children, but I don't know what's wrong with her, she just loves to watch people give birth to a little **, this is not counting the fact that I have passed it on to us after watching it, and it is simply a pain that can be felt across the screen, and as a result, we don't want to have children anymore.

In fact, I think there is only one main reason, you are hesitating, you don't want to sacrifice yourself, you should think about whether you really love him. If you really love your significant other and want to have a child for him and have a happy family of three is what everyone yearns for.

But for those who don't want to have children, I don't think I should be too others, that's her life choice, whether she's selfish or deviant, it's all her own business, and it's okay not to have children for such people, otherwise she will be born a little guilty. You have to wait until she matures and really wants a home, and then discuss having children, so that life can last long. <>

<> fact, as a woman, you will lose a lot after giving birth, so a large number of girls do not want to have children, but some girls choose to have children because of maternal love.

The ancient feudal society took whether or not to have children as a criterion for measuring a woman, which is a wrong idea, with the development of the times, more and more people choose to be a Dink, and many people can accept their children Dink.

The reason why women don't want to have children is because there are too many things that women give up in order to have a baby. First of all, in the early stages of pregnancy, you should be especially careful, if you are not careful, it is easy to miscarry, but women who have a job still have to go to work every day, the burden is very heavy, you should pay special attention to your diet during pregnancy, you can't eat more spicy things, you can't eat seafood because of parasites, you can't play often because of the radiation on your mobile phone, you have been radiating to the computer when you work, and you have to wear particularly expensive radiation-proof clothing, a good one will be thousands, it's really expensive. This is only the early stage of pregnancy, there are many people who still have morning sickness, with the increase of the month, the bladder will be squeezed by the baby, from time to time want to go to the toilet, slowly, the baby begins to squeeze all our internal organs, they will all be deformed, to the time when the heart is about to give birth, the rest is not good, the baby will also have the risk of umbilical cord around the neck, this time to choose a caesarean section.

After giving birth to a baby, in order to make the baby rich in nutrition, the mother has to make up for it, and she can't put salt, and her body will be deformed, and then it's really difficult.

After giving birth to a child is the beginning of slave life, every day without a good night's sleep baby will wake up at night, to change his diaper, and then coax him to sleep, their food, clothing, housing and transportation are very expensive, this is a lot of expenses, raising a child is both laborious and expensive, girls will also become yellow-faced women, which is why some people do not want to have children.

1. People who do not have children will live a more leisurely life because they do not have the burden of raising children. Raising a child is a heavy burden, and it can be very stressful. Therefore, when a person has a child, the state of life will be completely different.

And for those who do not have children, they do not have the burden of raising children, so their lives will be easier and more comfortable.

2. People who don't have children will have more time and energy to do what they love. When a person has a child, he has to devote a lot of time and energy to raising the child. This will have a great impact on their work and life, as well as their personal hobbies.

Because of this, when a person does not have children, he can have a lot of time and energy to do what he loves, which is a very happy and happy experience.

3. When you are old, people who do not have children will feel lonely and lonely. Envy others, have a good child who looks like himself and talks like himself. Although there is no pressure and no stress in the limbs at a young age, when a person is old, the situation will be completely different.

For an elderly person who has no children, because there is no one around to accompany him, he will feel very lonely and lonely.

From my own point of view, I am a girl, I am reading, I can't even read something in the world, how do I educate my children, my offspring? The future is full of uncertainties, and I don't want to have a husband and children at home, because I feel that I am free, I can go out and play freely, I can study freely, and no one will hinder me.

To love your neighbor as yourself, you must first learn to love yourself. No matter how long you shorten it, it won't improve, because you don't ask women's opinions, you don't ask women who have given birth to children and how painful it is, is it really easy to have children?

Women are not born to carry on their ancestry, women can have their own dreams to pursue, she can go as she goes, she is not blindly doing never-ending housework at home, taking her children to the vegetable market to buy vegetables. She should stand on the podium with infinite scenery, stand on the workplace full of dreams, and she should do what she loves vigorously. 1. There is discrimination against women with low education level and mu, believing that women with lower education level are more likely to be born.

The article uses statistics that "among women with higher education, the majority of them have one child, close to 70%; Those with a high degree of Chinese have the same proportion of first and second children, both around 47%; Those with primary school or below and junior Chinese level are the majority of those who have two or more children, accounting for and respectively. Among women who do not have children, more than half are highly educated. It can be seen that with the increase of women's education level, it will lead to fewer or no children.

It was later concluded that women with a higher level of education tended to have fewer children. Second, there is the problem of a magnifying glass that generalizes in a partial way. The article said that "in 2020, nearly half of the students in colleges and universities (undergraduate, junior college and graduate) are women", but it did not say what the proportion of these women in the province is of childbearing age, not to mention that these half of women will not all be called to obtain household registration in Jiangsu Province after graduation.

Using this article as a basis is clearly a conceptual error of substituting parts for the whole.

Third, it is an indisputable fact that the fertility rate is declining throughout the country, and there are many reasons for this. The article attributed all the reasons for the decline in fertility to female factors, ignored other factors, and put all the blame on women, which is not only a lack of in-depth and detailed analysis, thinking and research on the problem, but also disrespectful to women. The ideal is beautiful, but the reality is skinny.

There are always discrepancies between theory and reality, and there are even big discrepancies. According to global experience, late marriage and late childbearing, no childbearing, and fewer children are global phenomena that are not unique to China.

Why do women refuse to have children, it may be that they feel that they are very bitter, and there are physical changes, because everyone has a heart of love and beauty, but no matter how good a person's luck is, he wants to have a child, so that he will have a clothes to rely on when he is old.

For women, getting married not only means forming a new family with their partner, but also having children for this new family. However, there are still many women who are particularly afraid of having children. So, what to do if you are afraid of having a baby?

It is normal for women to be afraid of having children. Because giving birth to a child not only means that women have to go through the pregnancy of October and experience the pain of childbirth, but also have to endure all kinds of anxiety. For example, I am worried about my body being out of shape after giving birth, worried about being disliked by my husband, worried about my future relationship with my child, worried about whether I can be a qualified mother, worried about whether my child can grow up healthy and happy, etc.

Therefore, it is not a shame for women to be afraid of childbearing. So, how do we comfort ourselves when we are afraid of having children?

1. Accept the panic in your heart.

As mentioned earlier, the fear of having a child is not unique to you, but a common trait of most women. So, we don't have to put too much mental pressure on ourselves. The reason why many people are afraid of having children may be because they have seen how painful pregnant women with difficult births are in some film and television works.

In fact, now that our medical conditions have improved greatly, the probability of dystocia for pregnant women has been greatly reduced, so it is relatively safe to have a baby after making all preparations.

2. Make positive psychological cues.

The reason why many women Qi Qiaoran are cautious and fearful before giving birth is because we are first-time mothers and will be anxious about many uncertain things in the future. In fact, this is a common human trait, and this uncertainty is the source of anxiety. When we feel anxious, we should do more positive psychological cues and tell ourselves:

Giving birth to a child is a very beautiful thing, after a small life comes, there will be a lot of interesting stories, and we will also be upgraded to mothers, which is a very proud thing. ”

Think of having children as a challenge in life so that we don't get too scared.

In general, giving birth to a child is a process that most women must go through, and it is normal to be afraid of having children. What we need to do is to adjust our mentality, accept the panic in our hearts, and make some positive psychological cues.